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How To Eat Pussy Like A God: 34 Cunnilingus Tips To Make Her Addicted
Posted:Jan 4, 2022 5:11 am
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2022 5:15 am

1. Her Anatomy
the most important parts of the outside of her vagina aka her vulva.

Clitoral Hood – At the top of her vagina, you can see her clitoral hood. The clitoral hood is the little flap of skin that covers her clitoris. It protects her very sensitive clitoris from getting hurt and is similar to your foreskin [1]. Both are known as the “prepuce” [2].

Clitoris – Her clitoris is probably the most important part of her vulva when you are eating her out and licking her pussy. You can see a tiny nub of flesh full of nerve endings that you will be focusing most of your effort on. As you can see from the diagram, it’s located just underneath her clitoral hood (prepuce) [3, 4].

However, the clitoris extends far between the surface [5]. The clitoris is actually 9 to 11 centimeters long in total [6], so you don’t necessarily have to focus solely on the glans (tip) [7] of her clitoris to provide her pleasure when you lick her pussy. The hidden part includes a shaft [8, 9, 10], so you can think of your licks as stroking her shaft.

Labia Majora & Labia Minora – Her labia majora & minora are the flaps of skin indicated in the diagram that run along the outside of her vagina. As you can see, her labia majora are much larger than her labia minora. The sensitivity of these varies from woman to woman. Some women will adore it when you lick their labia, while others will be indifferent to it.

Urethral Opening – Her urethral opening is where she pees from, so we won’t be paying much attention to it when eating her pussy.

Vagina – Her vagina is the other area of her body, besides her clit that is super sensitive and feels incredible for her when it’s stimulated with your tongue or lips or finger or penis. Because the vagina is internal, it’s technically incorrect to say you eat her vagina.

Anus – Her anus also possesses a lot of nerve endings and can be quite pleasurable to have stimulated too if she’s into anilingus. I cover more about anal sex in the guide on how to have anal sex.

Now let’s learn about her important internal anatomy…

G Spot – Her G Spot is located on the anterior wall of her vagina [11, 12, 13] about 2-3 inches (5-7.5 cm) inside the anterior wall of her vagina. The G-spot is actually an area inside her vagina where you can access her clitoris internally [14]! If you’re using your fingers, feel for a place surrounded by valleys or “gutters” that has subtle ridges [15 p 82-83]. However, as I explain in the guide to making her squirt, her G Spot won’t feel pleasurable to touch until she is thoroughly aroused and horny.

So if you go looking for it but haven’t first got her aroused, you’re going to have trouble finding it.

You can find out more information on how to find her G Spot in here. Note: I originally wrote this guide for women, but it is just as relevant for guys.

A Spot – As you can see from the diagram, her A-Spot is located much deeper in her vagina on the anterior wall by the cervix. When stimulated it can lead to very powerful vaginal orgasms. Using your fingers to reach her A Spot is going to be difficult, so you may need to invest in something like a dildo to do it for you. The A-Spot is also called the deep spot, AFE zone or even the “epicenter.”

Read more about the A-spot.

Vagina – The entire length of your girl’s vagina is sensitive and includes both her A Spot and G Spot.

Cervix – Your girl’s cervix is very sensitive, and while some women love having their cervix stimulated during masturbation and sex, others find even the slightest pressure on their cervix to be an intolerable source of painful sex. More on painful sex here. Pain might increase around her period when the cervix has become hard and low [16].

Anus & Rectum – Her rectum is the area inside her anus. Some girls love anal sex and being fingered anally, while others don’t. My advice is to talk to her and experiment. The anal sex guide should help you out too. One thing to remember is that the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so you should always use lube. Discover more about lube.

When you’re eating her pussy, you will be mostly focused on her outside anatomy, and I’ve covered the most important parts of it above.

2. The Build Up – 7 Steps To Teasing Her To Please Her
Teasing will bring her to a frenzy, and it works on men, too. More about that in this post. This foreplay also increases the chance that your woman will orgasm – by 50% if you add 15 to 20 minutes [17]!

Now here’s a step-by-step guide to tease her:

1. Start With A Slow Journey – Kiss from her mouth down to her breasts. Keep kissing her body as you lower yourself to her waist and hips. As you get to her panties, place a hand on either leg and slowly spread them. Spots that are especially sensitive and turn a woman on are known as erogenous zones — and you might be surprised by some of them!

2. Panties – Don’t worry about taking her panties off just yet. Instead, kiss her vulva/vagina through her panties and even squeeze it lightly with your lips. You can also softly run your tongue over her vagina from the bottom right up to the clit.

3. Lower – After kissing her through her panties for a few minutes, move slightly lower with your kissing along her inner thigh. You can go as far down as the inside of her knee here, but the further you move from her vagina, the less sensitive it gets. Kiss her down along her inner thigh on one leg, then back up and afterward switch to her other leg.

If she likes it rougher, you can gently squeeze the skin of her inner thigh between your lips or even teeth, but make sure not to be too rough. Otherwise, you risk seriously hurting her. You can also suck the skin here to give her a hickey that no one will see but her.

When crossing to the other leg, spend a little longer kissing her vagina outside of her panties. Don’t be surprised if she begs you to start eating her out at this stage…if she does, try to keep a slow pace to keep building the anticipation.

4. Mons – Before you take her panties off, move your way above her clit to the top of her panties and place some soft kisses on her mons (the area above her clitoris).

5. Take Them Off – If she hasn’t already taken her panties off, place your fingers on either side of them, on the outside of her hips and slowly pull them down until they are all the way off.

6. Close Call – Now start slowly kissing and licking (extremely softly) all around her vagina and clit. The edge of your lips should be making a tiny amount of contact with her vagina and clit as you move your way around…constantly teasing her.

7. Main Course – Finally, you can get to the main course…it’s time to start using the Pancake & Vortex.

3. Pancake & Vortex
These two techniques are incredibly easy to perform and as I said earlier, will be responsible for the most powerful orgasms you can give her when eating out her pussy. They are the:

The Pancake
The Vortex.
The Pancake
The Pancake is crazy simple.

Start by sticking your tongue out of your mouth. Allow it to drop down over your chin and relax. Now make it wide and flat (like a pancake) as demonstrated below:

man sticking his tongue out and down
You will be holding your tongue in this position when performing the Pancake, keeping it relaxed, wide and flat.

To perform the Pancake, start with the base of your tongue at the bottom of her vulva. Making sure your entire tongue is thoroughly covered in saliva, slowly move your head upwards from the bottom of her vagina to the top so that your tongue moves from the bottom until the tip of your tongue passes over her clit.

DO NOT make movements with your tongue. Keep it relaxed, wide and flat. INSTEAD, your head will be doing all the movement. As your head moves upward, your tongue will follow.

This is the position you should start at

tongue licking the bottom of vagina showing how to perform cunnilingus
When you reach the top, stop, pull away from her so you are no longer making contact and start over from the bottom.

In the following demonstration you can see the position at the top…

tongue licking the clitoris demonstrating how to eat a girl out
Keeping your tongue relaxed, wide and flat ensures that you cover as much area of her vulva/vagina as possible, giving her maximum stimulation.

That’s all there is to performing the Pancake…

Although there are some important things to keep in mind…

What should I do with my tongue while I move my head upwards?

Just keep it relaxed, flat and wide. That’s it. Don’t try to make any shapes with it. Don’t curl it up. Don’t perform a flicking motion. Again, it should be relaxed, flat and wide when you eat out your girl.

How much pressure should I use to properly eat pussy?

First of all, you won’t be using the muscles in your tongue to apply pressure as you move upwards during the Pancake because you will be focused on keeping it relaxed, wide and flat…

I know I sound like a broken record here, but this is crucial to keep in mind.

Instead, you will be using your head and neck to apply pressure. This has the dual effect of making sure your tongue doesn’t get tired so quickly…enabling you to perform cunnilingus for longer, but also allowing you to provide huge amounts of pressure (if required).

So, how much pressure should you use…

As little as possible. More pressure does not equal more intense orgasms. You should use minimal pressure for the first few minutes and gauge her reaction to it. You should be so light, that you are barely touching her.

If she can come from incredibly light pressure, then you should focus mostly on using light pressure.

If you are not hearing, seeing or feeling much of a reaction from her (faster breathing. moaning, clutching at linens, bodily tension if she’s close to orgasm), then start to use increasing amounts of pressure until you can tell she’s enjoying it. However, your goal should always be to use the minimum amount of pressure possible to make her cum when you are eating her out.

How fast should I be?

This is similar to the amount of pressure you use…

Move as slowly as possible.

Again, you need to see how she responds to this. If she isn’t getting much enjoyment from your slow movement, you’ll need to speed up. Many women can come when you slowly move from the bottom of her vagina to the top over 15 long, agonizing seconds, while others need you to move as fast a drinks water!

When figuring out both how much pressure to use and how fast you should move, you need to listen to her body and see what she reacts to. You should also get her feedback on your technique. Don’t be afraid to ask her if this works for her.

Alternatively, you can experiment by specifying that you’re going to perform a few techniques and getting her to rate them.

Should I do anything different when she is about to cum?

There are two schools of thought about what to do when she is about to cum. The first is for beginners and intermediate folks while the second is for advanced guys…

Super-Steady Pace (beginner – intermediate) – Most women greatly appreciate when you can maintain an incredibly steady rhythm as they are about to cum. So, keep the pressure the same and maintain the same speed. Switching it up now can ruin her orgasm and mood.

Agonizing Slow Down (advanced) – If you have gone down on your girl, brought her to orgasm repeatedly and can now do it with ease, you should try the Agonizing Slow Down.

Here’s how to do it…

When you can tell that she is close to orgasm, slow down ever so slightly so that the final approach to orgasm takes longer than usual. This way she will get to experience the hyper-pleasurable build up to orgasm over a longer period.

As you try this more and more, the closer she is to orgasm, the slower you should get. This way, she will get to enjoy that wildly-intense feeling right before she comes, for longer. This will make her come much harder than normal.

Warning: If you haven’t eaten her pussy much before, you won’t know how her body reacts to your tongue that well. So trying the Agonizing Slow Down when you are new to eating her pussy is a recipe for a frustrated, dissatisfied woman.

Should I do anything different AFTER she has had an orgasm?

Just like guys, most women have a refraction period when they have clitoral orgasms. Her clitoris and vulva become ultra-sensitive, and when it’s touched, it’s almost painful.

So what should you do if your woman has a refractory period?

Well, don’t touch it for a few minutes, duh!

Instead, focus your attention elsewhere, kissing around her vagina and even returning to her inner thighs. Basically, do anything except making contact with her clit and vulva. Returning to foreplay is a good idea or simply lying beside her until she recovers can work too.

After a minute or two, if you want to continue eating her out (and she wants it too), you can test how sensitive she still is by kissing the bottom of her vagina and gauging her reaction. If she flinches, then wait longer. If she enjoys it, move higher and higher until you can touch her clit AND she enjoys it.

Any flinching on your way up and you’ll need to wait longer.

The Vortex
The Vortex is very easy to perform and crazy effective at making her eyes roll into the back of her head.

Make a small “O” shape with your lips like in the illustration below. This “O” shape should be a little bigger than her clit.

lips pursed together showing the "O" shape needed when going down on a girl and sucking her clit
Make sure your lips are covered in saliva and place this “O” over your girl’s clit and the surrounding area

Then gently start sucking it.

This will cause her clit to get sucked up into your mouth and will feel very pleasurable for her.

mouth sucking her clitoris
That’s the basic technique, but there are multiple variations you should try, all while keeping note of what she enjoys most.

Constant Vortex – The easiest way to perform the Vortex is by keeping a constant level of suction. For some women, this is all they need to reach climax.

Rhythmic Vortex – When performing the Rhythmic Vortex, you will be sucking and releasing the pressure rhythmically, pulling her clit in and out of your mouth and releasing it. How fast you do this is up to you…

You can do it slowly or as fast as the beat of a song. Talk to her and listen to her body and gauge what she prefers.

Hard Vortex, then slow release – First you need to quickly apply a strong level of suction to her clit, before releasing it slowly. Rinse & repeat.

Licking Vortex (my favorite) – When you suck her clit into your mouth, try holding it there, while you use your tongue to massage her clit. As I mentioned earlier, vary the speed and pressure you apply with your licking to figure out what she enjoys most.

How big should my O be?

The answer to this question is…

Whatever works best.

If your girl prefers you to use a small “O” where you can barely suck her clit into her mouth, then do that. If she finds it most pleasurable when you have a very wide “O” and suck in her clit along with a large part of her labia and vulva, then do that instead.

As always, listen to her body for feedback, but also talk to her and you’ll figure out exactly what she needs for her most powerful orgasms.

Should I use my teeth on her clit?

Hell no! Her clit is one of the most sensitive spots on her body, so it’s highly likely that your teeth will hurt her clit. Even if she explicitly asks for it, you need to be incredibly cautious and I would recommend that you never use your teeth.

And that’s the only two pussy eating techniques you’ll ever need to give your girl mind-altering orgasms and make you the best she’s ever had…


4. 14 More Powerful Pussy Eating Techniques
Of course, there are a bunch of other cunnilingus techniques that work well for keeping things fresh, even if they aren’t quite as effective as the Pancake & Vortex…

So, if you find that you have slipped into a routine or become somewhat robotic when eating and licking her pussy, then you may want to try some of the following tips…

1. Under Pressure
This technique is all about applying extra pressure to the area directly below her clitoris during the Pancake.

tongue pressed up against the bottom of clitoris when performing cunnilingus
So, when you are making your way up her vulva, right before your reach her clit, you should increase the pressure so that the base of your tongue is forced under her clit slightly.

Once the base of your tongue is under her clit, slow down your movement, but don’t release the pressure.

As you continue to move upwards, she will feel the texture of your tongue stimulate the bottom of her clit, adding a further dimension to your oral sex skills.

2. Take Her To The Edge & Back
Edging is a powerful tool you can use to amplify her orgasms. The best part is that you don’t have to reserve edging for when you go down on her to eat her out. You can use it during anal sex, regular sex or any other activity that can make her orgasm.

For now, we’re going to talk about how to edge her when eating her pussy.

Start by eating her out as you normally would…

When you can tell she is getting close to climaxing, start to slow down and back off, so she DOESN’T orgasm.

Spend twenty seconds to two minutes on something else pleasurable that won’t bring her to orgasm like:

Kissing all the way around her vagina.
Kissing her up and down her inner thighs.
Focusing your attention on her breasts.
Then when she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating her out as normal, but at a slightly slower pace this time. Again, you want to do this up until she is about to climax, then…


Again, spend some time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities until she has calmed down.

Start eating her out again at an even slower pace all the way until she cums.

I can guarantee you that edging her like this will cause her to have one of the most powerful orgasms of her life, if not the most powerful.

And, as I said before, you can use edging during any orgasm inducing activity 😉

Note that it’s difficult for some women to come, even if you eat pussy the right way. If this applies to your partner, I would not advise trying to edge her because you’ll both end up frustrated just like you might feel if you struggle to get hard and maintain your erection.

Related: How to Get Hard and Maintain Your Erection

3. Give Her The Finger
Using your fingers when you are eating her pussy can be awesome. It gives you the opportunity to give her more stimulation, stimulate her simultaneously internally and externally, and provides her with lots of variation. There are a bunch of ways to finger her while eating her out, with some being easy to do, while others will feel quite awkward.

4. Lick Her Clit & Finger Her G Spot
tongue licking her clitoris and finger massaging her G Spot
Licking her clit or using the Under Pressure technique of applying extra pressure under her clit while you finger her G Spot is a great way to add your fingers to the mix. Scientists have even found that oral and manual sex (fingering) along with deep kissing are the three activities most likely to get a woman off [18]. So oral sex skills might be more important than making your penis bigger or lasting longer in bed.

You can also use your free hand to press down on her mons pubis to provide stimulation of the G-spot externally. Some women also like when you rub this area.

5. Suck Her Clit & Finger Bottom Of Her Vagina
sucking her clit and fingering her vaginally with finger massaging the posterior wall of her vagina
Alternatively, you can suck her clit like in the demonstration above. While doing this, try massaging the bottom of her vagina, as deep as possible.

Keep in mind that for some women, the bottom of their vagina is not particularly sensitive, although, for many, the bottom of their vagina at the back of it is very sensitive. So you may have trouble reaching it unless you happen to have incredibly long fingers. You can always substitute your finger with a dildo or penis shaped vibrator if you happen to have one.

6. Lick Her Clit, Finger Her G Spot & Play With Her Ass
tongue licking her clitoris, finger massaging her G Spot, finger from other hand penetrating her anally
If it’s not too awkward or uncomfortable for you, you can use another hand to stimulate her ass while your mouth focuses on her clit.

There are a bunch of ways to play with her ass.

Simply rub it on the outside without ever penetrating it.
Light, rhythmic pressure on the opening, without penetrating it.
In & out penetration.
Holding your finger(s) inside her ass.
Note: The easiest way to play with her ass, is to put your arm over her leg and reach around from behind.

Warning: If you use one or both of your hands on her ass, then make sure you DO NOT touch her vagina with them afterward. Otherwise, you risk giving her vagina an infection.

Get more tips for anal fingering.

7. Experiment
I’ve given you some ideas of how to get your fingers involved when eating her pussy, but there are so many more ways to use them. You don’t even have to use your fingers at the same time you are eating her out. For example, you can take a rest from eating her pussy by fingering her and then return to eating it when you’re ready.

You’ll find 20+ ideas in the guide to fingering your girl.

Speaking of using your hands…

8. Powerplay
Introducing some element of power play when you’re eating her pussy out can be incredibly hot. Here are two ways to do it:

Tie Her Arms Up – If your girl enjoys being restrained when you’re intimate, then tying her arms above her head before you lick her out is going to be a lot of fun for both of you. It takes a lot of her control away. Rather than repeating myself here, check out this guide for restraining your partner during sex.

Get Her To Control The Pressure – Equally, she may adore being the one in control.

She can take control when you’re eating her pussy by putting her hands on your head. This will allow her to control your position, pace, and pressure as you eat her out.

She can even get a little rough by pulling your hair and grinding her pussy against your face.

This also has the added benefit of allowing her to push your head away if her clit becomes too sensitive after orgasm.

9. Get Her To Help
Pussy eating can be a team sport. This is especially true if she has trouble reaching orgasm.

If your woman can’t quite climax as you’re licking her pussy, she can add extra stimulation herself using her hands. I’m not going to repeat myself here, but she may want to try some of the techniques I describe in the Masturbation Guide or this article on fingering herself.

She can also move her labia out of the way while you lick her pussy by spreading them with her fingers.

She can even call an audible, instructing you to use more or less pressure, go faster or slower or to refocus your efforts elsewhere.

10. Experiment With Your Tongue
I know that at the start of this pussy eating guide, I mentioned that there is no need to move/flick your tongue when going down on her.

This is TRUE for the most part…


There is no harm in experimenting with AND gauging her reaction to it. For many women, they find that having their clit flicked inconsistently by the tip of your tongue to be more annoying than pleasurable.

But, a percentage of women DO like it, and some may like it as a finishing move…

And, it’s one way to change things up from time to time. You can try:

Curling your tongue up and using it penetrate her.
Swirling your tongue around her clit.
Flicking her clit up-and-down or side-to-side.
Using the Pancake in reverse. Start at the top of her clit and move downwards.
You can even try holding it in place on her pussy with sustained pressure.
11. Pick A Side
Determine which side of her clit she likes most to have stimulated!

Left or right side?
Top or bottom?
Somewhere in between?
Her clitoris has crura (legs) that extend below the clitoris and under the skin to either side of her vaginal opening [19]. This may be the reason there is a particular side that is most sensitive for her.

12. Wetter Is Better
This is not so much a technique, but more general advice when going down or learning how to finger a girl. The wetter you can make it, the better it will feel for your girl.

I’m not talking about using water here.

Instead, I’m talking about using as much saliva as possible. And, if you have trouble producing enough saliva, then I highly recommend using lube instead. Flavored lube can also make the activity more pleasurable for you.

13. Cool Runnings
If you want to take a break from eating her pussy, then a great way to do that is to pull back and make that same “O” shape with your lips during the Vortex

Then gently blow on her wet pussy to give her a cooling sensation.

This is also a great move to use during her refractory period when her clit and vulva can be too sensitive to touch.

14. Eating Her Ass
Eating her ass AFTER you eat her pussy is fantastic if she enjoys anilingus.

Warning: Do not touch her pussy again with your mouth once it has been near her ass. Your mouth will likely have small amounts of fecal matter on it (no matter how clean she is). This fecal matter can then enter her vagina from your mouth causing irritation and infection.

There are a bunch of ways to eat her ass that I have detailed in this Ass Eating Guide. Even though the Ass Eating Guide is written for women learning how to eat their guy’s ass, pretty much all the same information applies to you when eating your girl’s ass.

Get more tips in this post about rimming.

Remember that if you lick her anus, you definitely DON’T want to go back to tongue in vagina stimulation.

5. 11 Dangerous Mistakes Most Men Make
Unfortunately, there are some potential problems, and stumbling blocks that you may run into that will affect the amount of pleasure you can give to your girl when eating her pussy. You need to be aware of these problems and avoid them to make sure you maximize your pussy eating efforts.

1. Don’t use the alphabet – This is where you draw the alphabet with your tongue on her clit/pussy. Most girls don’t enjoy it at all when you spell the alphabet with your tongue on her pussy.

This technique doesn’t work because it’s incredibly inconsistent. You might hit a place she likes, but you’re not going to spend much time on it. Speaking of inconsistency…

2. Be consistent – Being inconsistent is a great way to frustrate your girl and make it near impossible for her to orgasm. Most guys feel the same way when they are getting a hand job/blow job. It’s frustrating when she strokes you randomly with no consistency.

In other words, you should aim to use the same rhythm, speed, and pressure when you go down on her, ESPECIALLY as she’s about to cum.

3. Listen for feedback – Terrible lovers do not look for feedback. You need to listen to her feedback, both listening to how her body reacts as well as actively asking her what she enjoys most.

As you get more and more feedback from her, you will be able to build up a mental library of techniques that are guaranteed to make her see you as the best lover she’s ever had.

When listening to her body, if she’s moaning or sounds breathless, you’re doing a great job. And if she’s closed her eyes or her body is tensing up, or she starts breathing faster/harder, then she is probably close to orgasm, and you just need to continue at the same pace.

However, some women like oral sex but don’t get to that point. An important part of knowing how to give cunnilingus is knowing that not every woman will orgasm or even wants to, and you definitely shouldn’t pressure or rush her.

4. Food is a bad idea – Licking cream off your partner’s body can be incredibly erotic and fun. But licking it off her pussy can cause serious problems.

Some food particles can make their way into her vagina and cause irritation or a yeast infection (find out more about yeast infections) or even worse. For this reason, you should avoid putting cream, chocolate sauce or any other food on or near her vagina.

5. Do not imitate porn – Trying to imitate porn during sex or when fingering her or when eating her pussy is usually a bad idea. Porn is filmed to look good on screen, and that’s it.

Porn directors don’t particularly care whether or not the actors are enjoying it and as a result, porn provides a shitty way to learn good pussy eating technique.

6. Do not be too rough – The clitoris is amazingly sensitive, so you don’t need a lot of force. Although some women enjoy hard pressure, not every woman does.

Try licking through her panties or labia if she’s too sensitive for direct contact.

7. Do not try to replicate sex – You’ll notice that most of the techniques we suggested focus on licking her clitoris and vulva. While many women enjoy vaginal sex, you’re limited with what you can do with your tongue, which probably won’t be able to penetrate very much.

Even if you could, the tongue in vagina technique doesn’t do much for many women.

You can lick around the opening and may even love the taste of her there, but you want to get back to her clitoris sooner rather than later.

Of course, some women do like tongue insertion when being eaten out, so you might want to ask just in case. You’ll never understand how to eat out a girl if you’re afraid of communication!

Related: Use Sexual Communication for Complete Sexual Fulfillment

8. Do use your hands – Using your hands when eating her pussy is A-OK. As I mentioned before, it’s also a great way to give your mouth and tongue a rest and also change things up. Variation is the spice of life, after all. Here are just a few examples of how you can get your hands involved.

You can switch between stimulating her using only your tongue and then using only your hands and then using only your tongue again.
You can use both your tongue and fingers at the same time.
You can use your hands almost exclusively, and as she’s getting close to orgasm, you can finish her off using only your tongue. Or vice-versa.
9. Do not rush, but don’t ignore quickies either – I’ve previously talked about how taking your time can work really well to build anticipation.

It means when you finally go down on her, she’s so incredibly sensitive and ready that you can pretty much do no wrong.

Equally, it can be really hot if you’re at a party together and you quickly sneak off and eat her out before returning knowing that you’ve both been up to no good.

The key is switching things up to keep it interesting. If you do the same thing, it’ll get boring for both of you.

And if you’re the type who rushes eating someone out because you simply see it as a type of foreplay before getting to the “main thing,” you’re missing out — and your girl knows it. Attitude matters and you need to understand that if you want to eat pussy like a pro.

10. Do ask for help – In the ideal world, you will be able to listen and observe your girl’s body as you try different techniques on her, allowing you to see what works and what doesn’t work.

Some women just won’t like certain cunnilingus tips I’ve just given you, and that doesn’t mean anything is wrong with her. It just means you need to spend more time getting to know her specific preferences.

If she isn’t sure what she likes, we suggest trying a few different ways to eat pussy and getting her to rate them.


This strategy doesn’t always work.

Some women are quieter than others and may not react much, even when they orgasm. As a result, you may find it near impossible to tell if she is enjoying herself or not.

The only solution is getting some feedback from her. After you go down on her, try asking her about what she enjoyed, what she didn’t enjoy, and what she wants you to do differently.

This is the only way that you’re going to get better at eating her out.

11. Do not make orgasm the goal – When a girl goes down on you, it feels amazing, right? The same is true for women.


Women often have a more difficult time reaching orgasm when they are with you. They can feel self-conscious when getting intimate. In fact, reaching orgasm when masturbating alone is usually easier for most women.

So try not to focus solely on making her climax when eating her pussy…

Don’t tell her you’re going to make her orgasm, especially if you’ve never helped her to cum in the past.

This allows her just to appreciate the pleasure, even if she doesn’t get off.


She won’t feel required to fake an orgasm if she doesn’t get there.

Is your partner having trouble with orgasm? Read this together.

What If None Of These Pussy Eating Techniques Work?
If you find that none of these techniques are working on your girl, the most likely reason is that you have not followed Step 1 & 2 of the Bad Boys Bible correctly and not that you don’t know how to eat pussy. If you haven’t removed the Brakes to her sexuality and have not used some Accelerators, then she will naturally find it hard to get in the mood, let go and enjoy you going down on her.

The only other reason is that she simply may NOT enjoy the thought of you eating her pussy. She may be so self-conscious that no amount of effort on Step 1 (Removing the Brakes to her Sex Drive) will allow her to fully enjoy it.

Of course, there are plenty of other great techniques to make your girl orgasm if cunnilingus is not your girl’s cup of tea.

This guide on the 31 best sex tips for pleasuring your girl is very helpful.

Check out the Wikipedia pages for both the A-spot (AFE ZONE) and G-spot.

Youtuber Stevie gives pussy eating tips in this video as part of her Lesbian Sex Ed series.

Bustle has two posts where women describe what oral sex feels like and what they’re thinking about to provide you with more cunnilingus tips.

One woman opens up about the best oral sex she ever had and what the guy did right before licking her vagina.

The Bottom Line
Learning how to eat pussy is surprisingly easy. However, if you want your girl to enjoy it and more importantly, beg you for it, then you need to be aware of Step 1 – Removing the Brakes to her Sex Drive and Step 2 – Amplifying the Accelerators to her Sex Drive. Otherwise, all the techniques that I’ve just taught you are going to be far less effective when you lick, eat, caress and suck her pussy with your mouth and tongue.

Watch This: Pussy Eating Tutorial Video
I put together an in-depth, step-by-step instructional video that will teach you how to make your girl sexually addicted to you and only you. You'll learn the Vortex and Pancake pussy eating techniques so you can give any woman full-body, shaking orgasms.

If you're interested in learning these techniques to keep her addicted and deeply devoted to you as well as having a lot more fun in the bedroom, then you may want to check out the video. You can watch here.

September 19, 2018

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joe says

August 13, 2017 at 1:01 am

I think its very good advice my wife and i have been married for 18 years know and I make her do the crab walk out from under me she says im to good at eating pussy I tell her no body is to good at eating pussy its all in the skill and the way u move your tounge I love eating her out have been doing it every day sence our last has been born and all that but like u say about the abc it never has worked on her I have tried it to many times on her she likes it deep and long the tounge that is not to mention something else lol but any who the main thing is to listen and to respond communicate and pay attention to her movement she has grabbed my hair and held me up against her to were I couldn’t breath lol its all good throw like I said pay attention to her movements and bereave me its worth it

Glenn says

February 3, 2019 at 11:06 pm

Yeah, I know what you mean, my wife enjoys having me lick her pussy while fingering her and making her cum vaginally while licking her clitoris and when the time comes for her to explode she reaches her clitoral climax with so much writhing and back bending screaming and moaning begging for more until her clit gets so sensitive to the touch that I have to give her a few minutes of rest before I can fuck her. And then she continues cumming vaginally while I am fucking her. That is something I enjoy very much is having her squirting all over me while I am fucking her.

Chris says

January 2, 2020 at 5:04 am

Atta boy glenn. Get that clitoris man. Great comment. Stay strong.

Jeffjeftyjeff says

April 11, 2020 at 6:06 am

My wife loves it when after I get her nice and warmed up, I hold her clit hood back, pucker my lips around her clit and blow rasberries. It is literally the only way she can cum but she loves it. I’ve never heard anyone else talk about it anywhere so I feel like I have discovered the unknown haha

Ryan Watton says

February 26, 2020 at 11:02 am

My wife does that to and in anal she loves anal

Tege says

June 2, 2020 at 6:50 am

I love that feeling of my wife,eating and sucking my wife’s huge clit. Her Cit is so big and black i love the way she fucks my mouth with it, and makes me suck it like a dick. Licking her inside creaming all over my mouth, the feeling is incredible not to say that i am gay but i love her pussy. i love when she squirts all over my face too as well. Smothering me with her pussy and ass DAMN. cum on guys who’s with me!?

As (NG) says

July 11, 2020 at 11:44 am

The video is not playing
The link has expired ?

Sean Jameson says

July 20, 2020 at 7:38 am

which link?

eugene says

November 29, 2019 at 5:43 am

thanks joe , great comment

antwon says

June 14, 2018 at 4:27 am

love eating the pussy but the day after have this cut under my tongue from going all out and have to wait for a week before i can perform again. what can i do to fix this problem

Andrew L Young says

April 6, 2019 at 8:14 pm

So tongue stretches stick your tongue out as far as u can work it out like u are in the gym

Memie says

June 16, 2019 at 6:39 pm

This used to happen to me all of the time. It comes from trying to use the tongue love like a penis. If you use the techniques outlined in the article, this won’t happen.

Jim says

July 29, 2018 at 9:30 pm

My problem is that my wife use to enjoy me lick her pussy but it seems like she doesn’t enjoy it anymore. She just lays there and doesn’t make sounds like she use. I have ask her many times what I can due different but she doesn’t say anything.

George says

December 7, 2018 at 1:46 pm

I bet she doesn’t give you blowjobs any more? Am I correct? I use to have have a girlfriend like that, loved being licked then seem to stop enjoying. My advise still would be, if you enjoy it then keep licking. Add some flavored eatable lub to it and enjoy.

Kaceris says

December 10, 2018 at 1:10 am

Bro bect Time you eat it! After she’s relaxed make her spread her legs wide as possible while laying down. Theb take your hands,place them at the bottom of her thighs and spread even more. Turn your tongue into a sword sraight and hard and stick it in and out don’t be afraid to drop saliva in there. The wetter the better women love to be fucked with the tongue

Jo says

March 12, 2020 at 1:40 pm

That’s so wrong. I never liked being fucked with a tongue until I had a long-term boyfriend who learned my body and like the guide implies; eventually mastered the ability. Also very important, I can have very enjoyable sex without an emotional connection but only after becoming VERY experienced and experiencing the best sex FINALLY after being with my boyfriend for two years. He finally convinced me that he loved me, wanted only me and I learned to trust him and then OMG WATCH OUT. There was nothing he couldn’t do that wouldn’t cause immediate climax even anally. sensitivity for a female can magnify by 100x if she trusts and believes you love her and really want her.
All women know that men can fuck practically anything with a hole and get off so trust is important. Being able to trust a man with my heart is the biggest foreplay first. But if you don’t have that and she doesn’t respond to jabbing or licking too hard then definitely follow these instructions; SLOW AND SOFT.
If a man builds me up right I can cum no matter what but you better be spot on if I don’t trust you and SOFT is the best way to build intensity for a girl who’s heart you haven’t earned.
So glad this exists and I’m not a freak for not cumming like a man.

Tessy says

June 7, 2020 at 11:54 pm

Great comment .

horney bastard says

December 16, 2019 at 9:39 pm

Maybe someone else did a better job than you looool.

billy says

September 21, 2018 at 1:41 am

my girl of 13 years tells me im the best lover she has ever has. i took the time to learn her body and didnt mind asking questions.
as i was reading the article i became aware that these are things to her that i already do. when she says im the best i know shes telling the truth . i love my wife and after 13 years ….she still keeps it hot. and me just wanting more

Samuel says

November 3, 2018 at 5:38 pm

What is the infect in men in licking pussy?

Annie Marie says

April 18, 2021 at 6:38 am

Who said this was for men women love eating pissy

Marie says

December 10, 2018 at 5:11 pm

As a wife, I would usually be the one to suck my husband up anytime he or I felt like it. He really didn’t eat my pussy out as much as I sucked his dick. And I love it when he eats out. MARRIED WOMEN LOVE IT! He didn’t do it till I came before it was like a quick licks only then we would have sex. And of course he would cum and he was satifyied but yet I wasn’t! Just recently about 6months ago he would eat me out and finger me and that only because I removed the BRAKES and started telling him how I want him to eat me out and suck on my clit and finger me either same time or alternate so his mouth can rest and OMG we found out that I am a squirter and he loves it. And I love it. Drives me crazy. Cuming in his face mouth very arousing for both and of course the sex after feels amazing

Secret nigga says

August 2, 2019 at 7:10 pm

I am 19 and I had an affair with a 45 year old woman and when I tell you she had the best I ever had I am not kidding. I ate her out for at least an hour and her pussy tasted like candy. I think she took my soul. But something about having to be secret and fucking her while her who are my age are in the next room over and me having to say yes ma’am and stuff in front of her . I even had her take her ring off while we was fucking and I’ve never met her husband but I know 2 hours before he got home from working outta town I was paning his wife in his bed. And just to spite him I had to wear this niggas shirt. I told her I’m the new and improved version

Theloser says

December 5, 2019 at 8:58 am

Dont feel bad marie. My girlfriend my girlfriend just goes to sleep when all I want to do is eat her pussy. So ur doing better than me.

WifeForLife says

January 13, 2020 at 12:41 am

I had to tell my husband the same when we were first married. We have been married 22 years now and are always trying to find ways to keep it hot in and out of the bedroom (gets tricky )!! I love it when he eats me out!! He will squeeze my thighs while spreading them open, then he will finger me hard with one hand, alternating one then two fingers, and with the other hand he will squeeze my nipples (I will play with the one he isn’t)….so good. Right before I orgasm I let him know I am close and then he will take the hand he is fingering me with and finger my vagina with one finger and my ass with another….SO GOOD. After that I crawl on top of him and ride until neither one of us can’t go anymore!!!

Jon Donahey says

February 14, 2020 at 8:42 am

Love the comments as I’m in 15 yr marriage and we’re getting really open when didn’t realize how important it was. I want to please her in every way and doing well now , any good advice on her to have your experience would be great. Her pussy is so beautiful I cant keep my mouth hands and cock off it. I may get so excited that we move to fast. Any good pointers for me,us? She wants me in it with my tongue and mouth so bad these days. Everyday lol..she’s hot and deserves the best.

David Dawison says

May 6, 2020 at 1:12 pm

I really loved your comment and it’s really so enjoyable to squirt on the face of boyfriend’s face also much pleasure for woman too.
If you could please tell me that how can I find that my girlfriend/wife is squirter?
How can I know this and what would be the best way to get her squirted?

Lori says

December 11, 2018 at 7:24 pm

My husband wants me to teach him to do this me reading this and then telling him what to do.. .. how about he read this and learn himself.. why are men so fking lazy? Is there a print out link of this that I can give to him?

Sean Jameson says

December 12, 2018 at 9:48 am

Just hit ⌘+P (mac) and Control+P (PC, I think) and it will print. Have fun.

Idiots these days says

March 2, 2019 at 8:20 am

Just cause your dumb guy is lazy and stupid doesn’t mean we all are take your comments back to Facebook

Robert W. says

January 3, 2019 at 4:29 pm

Hi, I got a couple things to say. One, Thanks for the tips on how to eat a girl out (I did The Pancake)! I gave my girlfriend her first orgasm and it was amazing. Her legs were twitching, she grabbed the back of my head and shoved it, she started to grind a little bit, and then she came. It was great, I honestly wanted to eat her out again or at any random time. There is one problem though, I do all the work. She doesn’t just lay there, she wraps her legs around me, scratches my back, and kissed me. She doesn’t know much of what she is doing but I took the time to look up things and even told her to come here and look things up. I don’t know what to do, also I haven’t came anytime we’ve had sex and had to fake it. I don’t want to make her feel bad.

Sean Jameson says

January 7, 2019 at 8:58 am

The main thing is that you both talk to each other in an open, non-judgemental, non-confrontational way so that you can both ensure that you are meeting each others needs.

If you have trouble reaching orgasm during sex, then try avoiding masturbation for a few weeks. You will eventually become so sensitive, that climaxing during intercourse will be easy.

Sharon says

January 4, 2019 at 12:51 am

Pussy is gross. It smells like rotten tuna and gym socks. You pussy eaters like sushi I would guess. Yuccchhh!

Matters says

January 12, 2019 at 1:33 am

Only if someone has bad hygiene or a yeast infection otherwise no vaginas don’t normally stink when there took care of

David says

February 1, 2019 at 4:14 am

Yea she must have a nasty pussy if she thinks that

Jessie B. says

January 13, 2019 at 2:17 am

Hi Sharon, maybe YOU should HAVE better hygiene. Did you ever consider that possibility?

Akira says

March 17, 2019 at 5:00 am

You straight up stupid, pussy smells good if you treat it right and sushi is a gift from god

Rachel says

May 27, 2020 at 4:42 pm


Tririder says

March 13, 2020 at 1:33 am

Wow! Coming from a woman. I have found that women who maintain good hygiene have pussy’s that have no smell to very little smell and usually it’s an attractive smell. Although I have been with some who smelled so bad I couldn’t eat them out. I know it was keeping the pussy clean.

FamousYB says

January 17, 2019 at 2:51 pm

I wanna learn how to make my girl cum ??‍♂️I’m the worst at it I can make her have an orgasm but we Once we’re getting nasty and down and she said she fills the cum but it didn’t wanna come out what should I do when this happens again ?

Sean Jameson says

January 21, 2019 at 12:58 pm

Talk to her and see if you can get her to the point where she wants to ejaculate

AW says

January 26, 2019 at 5:41 pm

Even many women want it very badly these days. Go figure.

Paige says

January 27, 2019 at 8:22 pm

So what do you do if your husband “hates” it and yet honestly I doubt he ever really tried it. Meaning we have been together for 14 years, not once has it tried or wanted too. Now, giving head is fine for me… I mean the kinky-er the sex the better, we can make 50 shades of gray boring well before it ever was written. But I don’t get the rest of it. Any ideas? I mean I don’t want to force him and I won’t push the issue… but seriously, is that it? Please don’t say talk, his answer is he won’t eat anything that bleeds and won’t die. :-\

Sean Jameson says

January 28, 2019 at 7:53 am

First, I’m sorry to hear about your situation. It must feel very frustrating for you!

For guys, the more you “push” them to do something they don’t want to do (or are on the fence about something), the more they resist it. So, you need to figure out a way that makes him excited to eat you out.

Here’s a few tips:

1) Suggest that you watch some pornography together. Then choose a video that involves lots of cunnilingus and while watching it, tell him how horny it makes you and also get more physical with him during this time.
2) Praise his adventurousness and willingness to try new things (even if he isn’t particularly adventurous!). Try not to be too over the top and somewhat realistic. Once he starts to associate positive feelings with being adventurous, it can help to actually make him more adventurous.

Let me know how it goes 🙂

pikachu says

March 21, 2019 at 5:14 am

Yeah, when you watch rest your head on his shoulder and ask him slowly like a cute woman, can i have it pleaseeee. May be not literally but you get it. No man can resist this. Eating a pussy is the best dish a man can have in his life. LOL I love it.

Sassy says

May 20, 2019 at 12:35 am

can u convince him to kiss your inner things and over your panties? if he gets in the right area and you get super excited and make lots of fun noises….maybe he will go all the way! 😉

Steve says

February 9, 2020 at 12:28 pm

He sounds a bit insecure if you ask me. After all that time, he hasnt learned wow!!!!

rich green says

January 30, 2019 at 7:01 pm

Thank You. I am always looking for information on how to and Of course my wife always asks where did you learn that from.

Sean Jameson says

February 4, 2019 at 8:00 am

My pleasure! And what do you tell her?

Pansexual666 says

June 17, 2020 at 9:00 am

Me at 1:57am reading this
I wanna eat some pussy
Also me
I am in the closet ❤️?????
And no one will ever love me


February 2, 2019 at 5:18 pm


Sean Jameson says

February 4, 2019 at 7:53 am

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Arika says

February 7, 2019 at 9:27 am

Hi, me and my girlfriend has been together 4 months and we still haven’t been to that part of a relationship yet. But this weekend we planned on it, I’m so confused idk what to do, don’t get me wrong I’ve done it before with other females but it just seem like I’m doing something wrong while giving head. Any ideas on how to be better or to spice things up?

Sean Jameson says

February 11, 2019 at 8:23 am

Just follow the tips in the guide. They should help a lot. And, as I always say, make sure to talk to your partner and get her feedback so you can figure out what she needs.

Joe says

February 16, 2019 at 4:09 pm

My wife likes to have her pussy licked, like most women. But licking her asshole is what really drives her nuts. A few minutes of ass licking while fingering her pussy makes her cum like crazy. Of course this all includes very good hygiene. Nobody likes to eat shit!

pikachu says

March 21, 2019 at 5:16 am

LOL, you are a legend

Mama says

October 15, 2019 at 3:18 am

Joe mama likes to have her pussy licked

James says

March 14, 2019 at 4:04 am

My wife loves to be eaten from behind she says she likes the way my nose goes up inside her combined with my mouth and tounge. I can get my nose and mouth in her pussy just sucks I have to come out for air. She is about 5’2 385. My favorite is when she comes home after a long day and pulls her pants down bends over and says I rubbed myself the whole way home so this is whats for dinner.

Tony says

May 8, 2019 at 7:46 am

My wife loves for me to suck and lick her hot juicy wet pussy until she cum over and over again in my mouth and I swallow every drop of cunt juice then I flip her around and place my penis in her pussy until I cum in her pussy then I eat her pussy out again

SandraDee says

November 23, 2019 at 6:18 pm

Damn I think I just came a lil !!!!!

pec says

November 28, 2019 at 7:38 am

Tony your wife is lucky, my husband don’t lick pussy at all

Mike says

May 15, 2019 at 4:42 pm

Ya’ll need jesus lol

Parker says

August 22, 2019 at 1:58 am


Catlyn says

July 4, 2019 at 11:50 am

Woman love to get the pussy licked. My favorite is getting my clit sucked while getting fingered slow. Makes my pussy come over and over again dripping wet so he can slid in and pound my pussy dry

Shane says

July 21, 2019 at 2:03 am

Damn all this reading from the females is getting me hard. Think ill take care of buisness. My wife thinks its gross for me to eat her pussy. She will let me doesnt like it.

Someone says

August 1, 2019 at 7:17 am

It worked bro.. especially when I was just working all over her body before touching her pussy.. Damn she was almost crying after every touch on her pussy???.. I did the blindfold trick

William McBride says

August 7, 2019 at 6:03 pm


Coleton says

August 9, 2019 at 12:38 pm

I tested alot of these out on my girlfriend……. I don’t know if you guys really know what you’re talking about. She loves the clit flick and she hated the pancake.

Sean Jameson says

August 12, 2019 at 10:27 am

Turns out that not all 3.5 billion women enjoy the same thing 😉 The key is finding out what works for your girl and going with that.

Avinash says

October 15, 2019 at 12:03 pm

I tried this with my wifes sister. She wanted to do this few times earlier but i didnt. Yesterday i licked her body then to her pussy for about 20 mins. She started shaking to orgasm grabbing my head and grinding her pussy. First time she sqirted. She and she started crying and thanking me. She said she didn’t even know her body could feel

edward mcdonald says

August 18, 2019 at 2:31 am

Thank you, It’s an art, one which I’ve always enjoyed. I’ve read several books, articles, always trying to improve! Your guidance is excellent! I actually truly enjoy going down, seeing the pleasure of my partner, knowing I’m making her happy. Thank you again for sharing your knowledge and best practices.

hannah says

August 22, 2019 at 4:49 am

I tried to teach my friend with benefits this and he did not catch on I think he should go gay

molly with the trolley says

September 1, 2019 at 3:09 pm

uhhh that’s not how it works lol

Tririder says

March 13, 2020 at 1:43 am

Sounds like he is the only one with benefits.

Anom says

August 31, 2019 at 1:37 pm

I just did this to my girl and she started crying and thanking me. She said she didn’t even know her body could feel that good. Thank you!!!!

Sean Jameson says

September 2, 2019 at 8:10 am

Happy to help 😉

Gary says

September 24, 2019 at 1:40 am

Really? Guys need to be instructed? I have not gone down on a woman and them not climaxed, I don’t use the two techniques and also can get them to orgasm while riding me… end of the day (from a males point of view) I’d say their all different and react different, write the alphabet with your younger on the clit works, some days kissing it works.
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