Livin Las Vegas Loca ;)
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Posted:May 11, 2011 3:46 pm
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 4:21 am
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While I don't tend to get on here much anymore as I have had my fill of the lectures on what this site is "REALLY" for and why I "Dont belong here"; this place is like a train wreck for me. Im passing by and I don't want to watch and stare, but I have to. I can't stop myself. Morbid curiosity gets the best of me each and every time. Not to mention sheer boredom. lack of having anything in real life to keep me preoccupied at the moments I find myself logging in here, and so on.
But anywho.... I moved. I no longer live in San Diego I have finally managed to move to my version of Mecca  Las Vegas, NV!! So, I may be checking this place out a little more frequently while in Las Vegas because the people here are so much more open minded and less tight assed 
I look forward to making some new friends in Las Vegas!
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a medium rant
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Posted:Jul 20, 2010 8:33 pm
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2010 9:30 am
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I have not written a blog in a while. It is odd because this would be the only real reason I keep my profile active. And after today's small influx of messages I received, it is proven that no one reads profiles, or even the title of profiles (mine says I'm not here for the sex. It doesn't get any clearer than that). But worse IMHO than not reading my profile; is Not reading the profile, writing me a message regarding all the ways you wish to violate me (a complete stranger you haven't even talked to before) then when I write you back and sarcastically show you how much of a waste of time it is to write to me without having read the profile, you write me back yet with a nasty response about how you "wish me luck in pursuing interesting conversation on a find-em-and-fuck-em site" AND block me from responding to you. That takes BALLS (NOOTTTTTT!!!)
What a bunch of pussies honestly.
Own your attitude, ya know. Own your fuck ups. Own your laziness, own your indiscretion, own your asinine behavior, own whatever it is. Dont act like a fucking pussy and block people on the site before they can get a word in that's definitely worth getting the sting of. Your attitude warrants you getting your ass handed to you to teach you a lesson to just stop being such a lazy desperate piece of ass. It's not attractive and I really REALLY don't see you getting what it is you came here for being an ass.
Seriously, everyone comes here for something different. RESPECT That why dontcha!
And contrary to all those assholes opinions, LOTS of interesting conversations with NO FUCKING taking place before or after occurs here on this site all the time.
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Projection Strikes again
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Posted:May 2, 2010 9:37 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 4:21 am
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Thank you FriendFinder-x for the block feature. I have utilized this added feature that is thankfully accessible to everyone on here (paying members or not) more than I care to recollect honestly because its a sad thing that people get so bent when I politely say things like "Thanks for the chain message... but you didnt read my profile at all" or "I understand that this is a sex site, but Im not here for that". It just astonishes me still how negative people can be here. How do any of these nasty, negative, derogatory men get laid? I try super hard not to feed the negativity. I am a really positive person, super happy with my life and my connections I have made and continue to make so to be talked to like a online here.... is completely unacceptable. And its not just FriendFinder-x its the internet as a whole. I dont know whats going on in peoples' real lives that is so bad that they have to come online and be asinine to people they dont even know. What has the world come to when whaling on people virtually is acceptable,�and justified "cause its the internet"?
Get off this thing, get a life, and get happy. You will most likely find someone to have sex with alot easier being yourself in the real world rather than being a jacka$$ online.
*kttn*
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To the Business Travelers
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Posted:Mar 23, 2010 11:04 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 4:21 am
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I am still very unclear what about my profile indicates that even though I have said over and over and over I'm not here for the sex..... that you still think you could talk me into it..... but I'm not here for sex, I'm not here to random instafuck guys. I'm not running an service for those traveling through San Diego on business. I'm not interested in a booty call. I don't care that you are generous and willing to even pay ME for it. I try really really hard not to be judgmental about this. We are all here for what we are here for whatever it may be. Please respect the fact that I am not interested in being on call piece of ass while you are here on business.
Thank you!!
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AVN 2010
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Posted:Jan 15, 2010 2:41 pm
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2010 7:20 pm
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I just wanted to let everyone know (as if you read this like CNN LO that I attended the 2010 AVN Expo. It was good times, as it was last year with some awesome after parties that i was pretty stoked to be a part of. I was suppose to meet a friend there for business but he didnt make it. So that was a bummer but otherwise, good times were had by all. I posted some new pics in the albums of the event and some attire
Hope everyone is having an excellent 2010.
Also... is anyone here from San Diego a member of a cool swingers group? I have been looking around in SD since I dont get to Vegas as much anymore and I could use some suggestions.
Thanks again.
*kttn*
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New pictures
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Posted:Dec 18, 2009 2:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2010 2:37 pm
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well it was about time that I finally took down all the old pictures that just give the complete wrong impression of what sort of person I am and what I am truly looking for here on this site. And update them with some more recent stuff. I have a tendency to neglect posting recent pictures here because I don't spend a lot of time here as it is and the limit on photos is a drag.
But...... beyond all of that, I recently did a photo shoot that is going to be a Christmas present for my husband (he cant access the site right now so Im safe to post them and it wont ruin the surprise ). Pls feel free to comment and let me know what you think of them. I know they aren't perfect. these are proofs so they have had the wrinkles, fat rolls and scars airbrushed out. Just me, o'naturale LOL
Thank you for your time in advance.
*kttn*
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The woes of the standard user
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Posted:Dec 2, 2009 3:26 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2009 8:54 am
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You know.... I let my gold membership of 3 years expire in June. I havent truly missed the gold aspect of things minus all the extra "ads" now for "silver and gold upgrade" til...... today 
I finally started getting messages here from some interesting people that I have enjoyed communicating with..... and then all of a sudden today I get "Sorry! As a Standard Member, you may only reply to a limited amount of messages in a 24 hour period. If you wish to have the ability to reply to all emails, initiate contact with other members, and enjoy a wide variety of other exclusive benefits, please upgrade to a Gold or Silver membership. Click here to upgrade. Thanks"
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!
So..... if you wrote me today and I didnt get back to you...... I have met my limit for todays activity. See me tomorrow for round two
*kttn*
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Standard Members .... please take a moment to review:
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Posted:Nov 25, 2009 11:33 am
Last Updated:Jan 15, 2010 2:43 pm
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Since standard members can not generally see profiles (or so I have been told as the answer to "Why are you talking to me if you know we don't have similar interests?") I have decided to post a blog with my profile. I use to have some links in it to other versions of my profile but those have since disappeared (maybe because I myself am standard now after 3 years of gold membership). Without further adieu; My profile follows:
I am thinking that you guys need to lighten up a tad bit. It seems to me, that too many of you guys are so dead set on NSA (aka getting your nut off on some chic from this site that you don't know, don't wanna know, can't get past their first name with). I'm NOT interested in anything like this. I'm pretty open minded but this "obsession" that the majority of people here have for "instafuck": (I STILL think this is funny as sh*t---> "instafuck" - defined as what happens when 2 totally desperate strangers get together and as consenting adults (had to throw that in there for good measure) f*ck the sh*t outta each other never to speak to one another again and call it "fun" LMAO (if you aren't the sarcastic sort you are actually gonna read this and think I'm seriously interested in something like this ) is TOO MUCH! When I signed up for the site, I didn't think there would be so many people here so desperate to get laid. I mean come now.... Sure its a sex site, and there are plenty of videos and vag pictures to keep you busy for hours, but sex isn't everything, it's not even top 5. So get out there, get a social life, expand your intellectual horizons a bit, a hobby even? And seriously.... if you don't like what I have to say, I didn't want to hear from you in the first place.
My membership ran out. Thank you to all the kind, real, non-flakey, non-desperate people that I have met here over the years that made it worth staying considering how much I have had to deal with from the complete dickheads that have attacked me for being here.
With that said, if you get this far.... I am Cute psycho polyamorous kttn
For my Original Profile (this would be the long version) Original Profile
For the readers digest version of my original profile Readers Digest Vers.
I am definitely a walking contradiction and some have even said that Enigma fits me well... blah blah blah no one ever reads this anyways...
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My Ideal Person: I have an ideal, its listed below... but recently revamped my idea of at least what Id like to be interacting with at this time. I want someone adventurous, young at heart if not young in age, who is intellectual, spontaneous and can keep up with me on the dance floor all night (dancing for me is complete foreplay when there is a connection between us- hint hint). Additionally.... get into my head and my body will follow with a hunger. Its almost uncontrollable once someone can stimulate me intellectually then the rest of me just follows along.
Although this isn't completely necessary, as IDEAL is defined as "a standard of perfection or excellence" or better yet "something that exists only in the imagination"; I have a weakness for guys that have Shaved heads or ubershort hair, ripped/in great shape & have tattoos; an affinity for leather outfits, leather floggers, harley-davidson motorcycles, smell oh so good and possess a dominant side. I guess that's my Bad Boy.
However, it must be said that I like any combination of the above as well.... just bald, bald with tattoos but not ripped (lean), has hair but ripped or lean, ripped with no tattoos and enjoys the outdoors and has a Harley-- You get the idea. A strong mentality, with a willingness to control the situation is perfect.
I like 'em Adventurous, Witty and Sarcastic. I prefer intellectuals with good conversation skills (tease my brain) both on and off-line and likes chatting and getting to know each other prior to meeting (Chemistry again). An open mind with an understanding of polyamorous relations is a MUST.
You should be someone I can see more than once & understands my work has an odd schedule and is usually in other cities/states. Long term interactions is the idea here (really not into the happy hook up, sport fucking, instafuck, anonymous bang session or the like).
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Really not here for "fantasies" honestly.
I'm about people and interactions with ppl. If the
situation is exactly right.... we will do whatever our
hearts desire.... and that's definitely too much
to list.
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It is what it is.... or is it?
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Posted:Nov 25, 2009 9:07 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 4:21 am
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I don't know why I have to make things difficult (on myself and others I suppose) but I just can not seem to "go with the flow" when it comes to most things. I go to Vegas to party.... not to Gamble although gambling seems to be what Vegas was put on the planet for. I go to swing parties to socialize with open and like minded people, not to swing (heaven forbid). I like my tea cold, not hot. I go to sporting events for the atmosphere more than the game and I came to a site like FriendFinder-x merely to mingle with open minded and intellectual individuals for a chance to possibly make a non-judgmental friend, not to "instafuck". It is the latter that I am writing about in this venue because as much as we think that this is JUST a sex site and that EVERYONE on here wants sex, I don't agree with this mode of thinking most probably because I myself could careless if I ever get that kind of outcome from this site. I am more interested in the possibilities here. I know that I will run into many obstacles here to obtaining what interests me, but I really have faith that this arena, when sifted through and filtered appropriately, could be an excellent breeding ground for intellectual interaction, research and understanding regarding why everyone else comes here as well.
So, while this is advertised as a "find em and fuck em site" and a lot of the members here are on a mission to get laid at all costs without expending the least bit of energy to actually get to even know their partners name, much less anything else deep and meaningful about the person... there are still a handful of people that I would consider "curious" about what else might be going on here. So much so that they joined, are a standard member, and reaching out from time to time to see if something different exists in the mass of sexual desperation that seems to immerse the pages of this place.
I am here for all that is not within the norm or expected of this place. I have learned in my 3 years here that this is few and far between in most cases so I do not waste my money any longer on a gold account. I rarely receive communications here that meet my profile's requests; as most of the people who write me are not fond of paying to interact here and thus can not read my criteria and desires. Maybe if I were a simpler creature with more primal desires I could come here for the reasons the masses do and be quite satiated. But I love a challenge. So.... Im here for the challenge of meeting someone that goes against the grain, just like myself.
Thank you for your time.
*kttn*
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Yet another butthurt FriendFinder-x User
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Posted:Apr 12, 2009 7:39 pm
Last Updated:Nov 25, 2009 8:18 am
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Thanks to the "fabulous" FriendFinder-x community that we have here.... so open minded, and accepting of everyone's choice to come here and look for what it is THEY seek as an individual (what is pleasing to them that might not jive with someone else's reason for being here) I am back to blogging about some sexually depraved individual who contacted me and in the end when I realized we werent on the same page and politely tried to apologize for wasting his time considering we weren't looking for the same thing; instead of just thanking me for my honesty; this individual decided to go off on me in a text tirade. It was actually quite funny in retrospect. I could only imagine what meeting face to face and suffering rejection on that level would have caused the "cougarhunter" to do right there in front of me. I guess he might have found it so much easier to insult and bash me straight to my face considering he is "the best sex I would have ever had- cause hes the magic man" LMAO
Oh please...
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Polyamory vs Swing Lifestyle
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Posted:Dec 1, 2008 12:11 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2024 4:21 am
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I have been giving this subject matter some thought, given I am active in both lifestyles; Polyamory and the Swing Lifestyle. I think that sometimes there is some confusion when vanilla (a term used for those NOT participating in the lifestyle) people ask me about either of the lifestyles because they will ask me questions about polyamory and the questions lean toward swing. The two are completely different lifestyles that may or may not be combined to provide an even more complex dynamic in a couples’ relationships. I believe that it is the combination of the two in a lot of relationships that causes some to jump to conclusions when trying to put the pieces of the puzzle together for themselves in order to determine if the situation is something that is of interest to them (and they can get over the whole “living outside the box” aspect of things- Most can’t/won’t).
Polyamory, as I have provided the wikipedia references for before, is really not a sexually based lifestyle at its core. This is truly important to know because this misinterpretation is where the confusion begins usually. When I tell someone that I am polyamorous, 9 times out of 10 the next question is “So do you, your husband and your boyfriend all get together and play?” And instantly I roll my eyes and think… “Um, Hello? Get a clue already. Swinging is not Polyamory”. But it is important to always follow this thought with, some poly people swing and some swingers are polyamorous. But when I am discussing my Polyamory, I really don’t wish to get into discussing the unrelated fact that I am interested in swing as well. With that said…. I want to state it again, the fact that I am poly does not mean I am a swinger and my interest in swinging has nothing to do with my polyamory. I feel that it is really important to make this clear because Polyamory is just not “sexual” in its roots. Sure, Polyamorous people have sex. Maybe they even have more sex than your average vanilla monogamous Joe out there. But being Poly isn’t about swing parties every weekend at the house (although that would be a lot of fun- giggles).
Polyamorous is at bare minimum about loving more than one person. This love may be sexual, emotional, spiritual, or any combination thereof, according to the desires and agreements of those parties involved. But, as usual, I have to make it a little deeper and more complex and add that the love is unconditional and that those involved in my polyamory are upfront and honest with everyone involved. There is no competition, and ideally no jealousy but the world we live in somehow feeds the jealousy beast and thus people are attacked by this monster on a regular basis due to insecurities and our own worst enemy, self criticism. It is very important to begin to redefine how one sees jealousy and differentiate its true meaning from the meaning that society has put on it up to this point. Jealousy is neither a proof of love (and this is where polyamory differs from possessive or insecure monogamy) nor a moral failing (and this is where polyamory differs from emotionally manipulating one's partner(s) into relationships for which they are not ready). This is just my two cents worth on the jealousy thing because I believe that it’s a natural emotion that we feel based on maybe not having a handle on all the information but it is not a tool or a pawn to be used by other people to gain some sort of advantage.
I am actively involved in a vee relationship that has no real hierarchy to it. There are several types of polyamorous situations/relationships, this is just the one that I am in currently with my husband and partner that suits us best. To provide a better understanding of a vee; it is three people, where the structure puts one person at the bottom, or "hinge" of the vee, also called the pivot point. In a vee, the arm partners are not as commonly close to each other as each is to the pivot. It is my hope that my partners will become closer to one another as time goes by, but for now, this is just what is the arrangement that best suits everyone involved.
So as not to bore you by going on and on with my setup; let’s discuss the Swing lifestyle. Most “swingers” are couples by the way. I don’t usually participate in the lifestyle on that level. I usually attend functions as a single female. Now even more odd, I am not into girls. So ultimately, I’m as undesirable as a single male at these functions, Interestingly enough. But my curiosity gets the best of me. I am not even there for the sex. I am a huge voyeur and coupling that with my curiosity about the lifestyle and even where I want to go in my own adventures; I just like checking things out. So I have to say that I don’t particularly consider myself a swinger. I hang at swing events, I meet very cool swing couples and I love their openness, honesty and lack of judgment. Its absolutely liberating. To be able to be yourself, without people putting you under a microscope and trying to categorize you, judge you, sum you up without knowing the first thing about you other than what they witness through the looking glass.
Swing lifestyle is free from a world of frustration and lost loves. The swinger’s lifestyle is simple that gives and receive pleasure.
Being a swinger is defined as a form of recreational social and sexual intercourse between consenting adults. Swingers commonly consist of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimate play. But it seems that swinging has also taken on a sort of 3sum approach to things as well in that many single bi females and straight males will connect with a couple for mfm or fmf types of groupings. The benefits of being a swinger are:
Some advantages to swinging, as listed by a popular SwingerFAQ site are as follows:
• Getting to explore their sexuality and sensuality in new ways that they find are not easily to accept in traditional communities.
• It’s a good way for bi-curious women and men to explore their potential bisexuality without becoming involved in the lesbian or gay community where many feel uncomfortable or unwelcome.
• Swinging allows both men and women the opportunity to reject monogamy (which in my opinion puts us in a position to be rejecting our own human nature).
• Individuals can also explore and learn lots more about their sexual interests.
• Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship.
• Becoming a swinger allows you to make many new open minded and nonjudgmental friends.
In just the small amount of information I have provided regarding swinging, it seems so obvious to me how different swinging is from being in a polyamorous relationship. Most glaringly obvious is that polyamory is about “loving” others. So an emotion is involved (actually many) which is not taking place when a couple is swinging with other couples. Swinging is maybe a nice supplement to a polyamorous relationship which I am finding out, but its recreational at best. Polyamory isn’t even close to recreational as it is a relationship, with a connection and emotions and care and love.
So to me, it seems that it should be clear that like democrats and republicans, Polyamory and Swinging are on opposite ends of the spectrum. They could possibly work well together depending on the people involved in such situations, but I believe that it is so very important to understand the distinct differences between the two and how they are so separate of one another in order to even begin to understand why I am so adamant that these two not be linked together the way people do so as to understand more clearly what I am about. First and foremost I live my life polyamorously. Secondly, I am a very curious and open minded person by nature so Swinging, BDSM, and other Alternative lifestyles are of deep interest to me and I start all my interests with observation and if I feel comfortable then participation, and so on.
I hope this provides a little insight, a little information about me, how I think, and how I see the world anyways. If you’d be interested in learning more about polyamory and how people out there make it work; you should check out a podcast from itunes called “polyamory weekly” and it’s hosted by Minx. She has a website as well that is mentioned in every podcast she does. Thank you for taking the time to read what I have to say regarding this and feel free to comment or write me directly if there is anything else you might like to know.
kttn
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Ending an era
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Posted:Nov 26, 2008 4:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 28, 2008 12:58 pm
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I have decided not to continue my gold membership here. In this economy, being unemployed for the last 4 months, I just cant find a reason that I should even try to come up with the renewal fee to keep a profile going that is getting no attention, no reads, and since I changed the title to indicate I am not looking for "instafuck" the way everyone else here is, then I get no messages here any longer either. In the beginning I signed up for gold status so I could respond to all the messages I was getting in my mail. Even though most of them were from people who had NO IDEA what I was looking for here, I wanted to provide the courtesy of a response to anyone who took the time to message me. Well.... after 2 years, and becoming so ultimately jaded about the majority of people here, I guess I dont care to answer most of the people who use to write to me. And I guess not enough new people have joined that I could gain the attention of
So..... while my profile will still reside here, It wont be top billing anymore (if it ever was LO. Hopefully I will continue to stumble across the good people now and then.
Happy Holidays all...
*kttn*
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