An August Update  

daddysmichele 47F  
802 posts
8/21/2021 6:47 am
An August Update

Hi you who read my drivel. I'm here with a short update.

I've been working kinds of overtime and weird hours so I haven't been for much more than check in, answer the couple of messages I get, and then go. It's exhausting, but only temporary. Until the end of the year is what I'm told. Please bear with me. I'd so rather just relax on here for a few hours chatting. Trust me. I would.

Last weekend we met with our prospective close friends. The girl that I have my sights set on had warned me that her husband is hot for me. She said that he's been feeling neglected with us spending our time talking one another. So this time she sat across from me while he sat right beside me. At first it was awkward since I don't feel I know him quite like I know her, but we chatted cordially. His hands wandered in a gentlemanly manner. He wasn't trying cop a feel, but he was touching my back, legs, and arms.

My husband sat beside her, and she was captivating his attention. She is a great conversationalist. AKA she can talk about most anything and it'll be interesting. They seemed to be getting along just great so I wasn't too concerned. The guy by the end of the night was really laying it on about how sexy he thinks I am, and how much I turn him on. It was starting to get annoying to be honest. By the end of the night I was ready to go.

I talked with her on Tuesday, and she apologized for her husband. She said he felt bad that he was being the way he was. I accepted the apology, and she went on to try to convince me to let him be more intimate with me so he would feel more relaxed around me. I couldn't promise that though. She told me that after we left the last time she told him what we did, and he sucked her fingers while he fucked her "like a bull in heat." Her words, not mine. Ever since that he's been telling her how much he wants to taste me.

Honestly my mind has been going over the many scenarios this could entail, but with as bad as the night together went I'm not so sure it'll get that far. My husband said he was happy to with her night, and that he would do it again. He finds her fun and interesting, but he wouldn't say if he would go any further than chatting when I asked. He said that the thought of getting fucked by the husband doesn't sit well with him, but he'd deal with it if it ever happened. I don't like that. that means he's going try keep everything in, and it'll get be too much some day.

I've told my husband that I won't do anything unless he's okay with it, and if he would ever do anything I'd just want him to feel comfortable enough to tell me truthfully what is going on. In other words to communicate fully like we have been. He's much more comfortable talking to me like this, but not so much about sexual stuff yet. We're working on it though. He told me that the husband has been asking when we're coming over again. I guess he's hoping it'll go further. I won't promise that with him. Lol.

Sorry it's a long winded way to say nothing happened, but to me something did happen. It's progress in some distorted way. anyway, here's some captions for you like or hate. Please let know which.

Stay safe, be healthy, and make you sex be good. Until my next post, later.

12914 posts
8/21/2021 4:38 pm

hey now !

Humanity peaked during the 20th century.
We can't even make a decent starter solenoid any longer.

daddysmichele replies on 8/23/2021 1:06 pm:
Are you saying that I'm an all star because I got my game on? Lol.

scoupe42 58M  
12797 posts
8/21/2021 4:56 pm

Nice pictures!

daddysmichele replies on 8/23/2021 1:07 pm:
Thank you.

packageman57 64M
1084 posts
8/21/2021 9:02 pm

Hey Hon.....sounds interesting with the way things are progressing. Is it turning you on? Haven't heard back from you in a bit so shoot a text when you get a chance.

daddysmichele replies on 8/23/2021 1:09 pm:
Things are super uber busy for me, but this situation is a slow process. I'm okay with that. Does being with him turn me on? In a small way. With her? Definitely. Does the situation as a whole turn me on? Not really.

Prof10001 61M  
3986 posts
8/22/2021 5:23 am

I've been hoping to read an update on your progress. It sounds exciting but proceeding with caution would be wise. You don't want to screw up the good stuff you have going with your husband by moving too fast.

There is a swingers group on Reddit, that has lots of good discussions about proceeding into the lifestyle, There might be some good things for you to read there.

Best of luck,


daddysmichele replies on 8/23/2021 1:14 pm:
I'm not too worried about myself in this situation in all honesty. It's the hubby that has the biggest issues. I actually wouldn't mind if he had a girlfriend to care for him as well as myself. He's the traditional one so the thought of me seeing anyone outside of our marriage is a huge step for him. He won't be interested in anything like a chat site or anything like that. I've tried those things before will no luck. Hopefully he'll take the plunge, and discover it's a good thing for both of us.

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