One Week Until Vacation  

daddysmichele 47F  
859 posts
11/15/2021 1:03 pm
One Week Until Vacation

I plan enjoy the fullest!

Hi people. I hope you are all doing well out in AFFland? Things been still so damn busy I haven't had time think. The relief was this last weekend we went our friend's house for their<b> party. </font></b>was fun, and we met a few of their friends. I know of one couple that were into the lifestyle like our friends are. The subject never came up with the rest, and I know of the one because as I was chatting with the wife of the couple when my female friend brought it up telling me that they too had an open marriage. I don't consider mine open, but it's on it's way. I hope.

Anyway, ever since our last "date" with the other couple I've occasionally asked my husband questions here and . I seem get more answers that way. He confessed that he gets uncomfortable and jealous when I'm with the other guy, but he just lives with it. He likes the wife, but in a friend way. I'd expect no more out of him. I asked him what he'd do if I gave the guy a BJ. He said he wouldn't kiss me. Normal I think. I know he wants bed me, but I'd rather her be honest. I don't deny that at all. I find her fun, interesting, sweet, and she's cute too. She says she likes me too, and we kissed. So I'm sure can happen. She just seems try push me her husband more than anything.

When I asked my husband how he'd feel if I had with the man, and he just told me that he wants to really bad. I don't know what they talk about when they're at work, but I think my man knows way more than what he tells me. He doesn't like when I tell him that he should the wife. I know she would. She's told me. I think my husband just has a lot of deep seeded issues he has to deal with since his brain is wired different than mine. I knew nothing much would happen at the<b> party. </font></b>I don't know anything about their friends so it was nice to meet the other couple, and ask tons of questions. Some my husband didn't feel comfortable with, but it was all good. It sounds like they had very similar issues we do, but the wife was the reluctant one even though she was also the wild one. I hope to chat with them again, and my husband said he thought they were informative.

We left the<b> party </font></b>around eleven even though we didn't want to. When we left she asked me if I wanted to go for a coffee next Wednesday since she has a day off. My husband said it was okay with him. On the way home I asked if he was afraid something might happen, and he told me the him and her hubby work so he's not worried. I was kind of taken by this so I asked him about if something would happen between her and I. He said I was gross, and changed the subject. From what I gathered from that is he doesn't think women can or should be together, and men just want . When I asked him about seeing us kiss he told me to not remind him. That was when I told him that I was going to let her get me naked, and I started describing what I think would happen in detail. He knew I was fooling, but I wasn't totally full of . I hope something would happen, but he made me promise I wouldn't let her get me naked. I don't much time Wednesday anyway. Just a half hour or so unless something happens. Then could be more or less depending.

So 's the update in a nut shell. Nothing has happened, the future is still optimistic, and my husband still has a stick up his butt so speak. With the holidays coming up, and my schedule is supposed lighten right after I'm hoping for something closer a forty hour week at work. 's been a long time since I've done that. When that happens I will be able be on more, and chat a lot more. Until then keep safe, and stay healthy. I do care about you all. Even those I don't yet know. My future friends so speak. Here's more of my "gross and disgusting" thoughts as my husband would say. Lol. I often remind him that he knew I was a lot handle when he married me, and now since I'm three times the I was 's even more handle. They're also known as CAPTIONS, or pictures with a short story or scene. Don't forget to like and comment! I don't often reply to the comments on the pictures when they're in my profile folder, but I do read them. I'm such an attention . LOL!

naughtynate77 44M  
677 posts
11/15/2021 5:30 pm

The pics and captions are hot as always. Too bad your tale hasn't heated up yet, but it sounds like there is still a chance.

The few times my (soon to be ex) wife involved another woman, watching them together was always one of the best parts of the encounter. I think a lot of guys (my opinion) don't see woman on woman action as 'gross' or 'gay', especially when it's part of a FMF.

As much as I enjoyed having two women at once, there was always a downside. I found that at various points, one person feels left out. All parties can do their best to attend to everyone's needs, but there are only so many hands, mouths and genitals to go around.

It also became fairly obvious that my (soon to be ex) wife was always jealous if I for any reason lasted longer with the other partner, or if I came more than a few times or if they came more than she did.

The few times that she had another guy (with my permission, but not participation), I felt her frustration. I was always a bit insecure about my body and such and was always uncomfortable hearing that his performance or endowment was equal to or better than mine. There was also another big concern for her having her own playmate, and that is the main reason we are splitting.

The lifestyle can be a load of fun, but not everyone has what it takes for it to really work. Kudos to those that do.

daddysmichele replies on 11/16/2021 8:53 am:
I'm not really interested in a three way art this point. I'd just like her to be my first female lover. My husband would never join in, but her's would. She's told me so. I believe that if you start with a strong base you can build on it, but if the foundation begins to shake you have to stop building and shore it up. Most guys just want two women. It's not about more than the sex with them. I'm sorry to hear your marriage didn't work out, and that's the exact reason we're going so slow.

packageman57 64M
1090 posts
11/15/2021 9:26 pm

Great captions as always. Can't wait to hear the rest of the story as things unfold. Text when you can....

daddysmichele replies on 11/16/2021 8:54 am:
Thank you, and I'll keep you all posted.

bi1946 75M  
193 posts
11/16/2021 6:04 am

Great story

daddysmichele replies on 11/16/2021 8:54 am:
It's a long story of frustration. Lol.

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