Social Media???
|
Posted:Sep 23, 2015 10:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 5:41 am
4865 Views
|
Disclaimer: Please pardon any grammatical errors you may find. I'm still getting used to journaling again. Thank you your patience 
Recently one of FL's Royalty, as I like to call the most popular people on that website, posted on their profile all their social media information and it got me thinking about social media and how it pertains to not only the BDSM world but the Swinging Lifestyle. As I was quickly adding them so I could drool over them from the easy accessibility of my phone, I had to ponder this with a serious face while taking a break from work.
Can you imagine, being at work, the gym, or wherever and *BAM* up pops a notification with something from one of your favorite people on the site??? Now this could be a good and a bad thing depending on what you were doing at the time, and knowing my luck I would be in the middle of a faculty meeting checking my email when I'd get the notification and I would need to change because I just made a mess of myself drooling over their respective photos, videos, or whatever they posted. This brought up a memory from a few weeks back when I was all giggly and fan-girling at work when I got the notification that MasterAvery favorited one of my Tweets. And the same thing happened earlier today when The_Wolf_ was now following me on Instagram.
Anyway, back to social media ... now I may not be as popular as other people on here, but if you want to know what my social media information is all you have to do is ask nicely. Unless of course you are one off the aforementioned Royals then just tell me and I'll gladly give you the information 
I know there are millions of people on here that I don't know, and I probably should, but I've only recently started logging on here more after a stint in a relationship so I'm sure I'll get around to viewing your profile and checking out what's to be seen and read.
Hell I don't even know how many people actually look at my profile, so if you took the time to read this then thank you for your time.
Be well and play safe,
V
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
Writing blues ...
|
Posted:Sep 21, 2015 11:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2015 9:13 am
5026 Views
|
I wish I had more time to commit to my writing, but being a full-time parent, and full-time employee cuts into my writing time. So alas my writings go unfinished until my life calms down.
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
|
|
|
|
How to earn points to a GOLD Membership
|
Posted:Sep 5, 2015 10:09 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2018 1:47 am
17785 Views
|
Here is a guide on how to earn 4000 points on FriendFinder-x to get a free 1 month GOLD membership in 11 easy steps.
Step 1 – Upload 5 pictures (each one will earn you 100 points, max earned is 500)
Step 2 – Upload 5-10 videos (each one will earn you between 100-200 points, max earned 1,000)
Step 3 – Answer all “Additional Questions” (this will earn you an easy 300 points)
Step 4 – Create 10 blog posts (each one will earn you 30 points, max earned is 300)
Step 5 – Comment on 10 blog posts (each one will earn you 30 points, max earned is 300)
Step 6 – Create 10 group posts on any group of your choosing, but it must be approved so even if it’s a hello, I’m new the group type post. (each one will earn you 30 points, max earned is 300)
Step 7 – Comment on 10 group posts, most groups have an introduction post so just say hello on there and introduce yourself (each one will earn you 30 points, max earned is 300)
Step 8 – Reply to Magazine questions, located under the community tab. (each one will earn you 30 points, max earned is 300)
Step 9 – Vote on replies to Magazine questions (each one will earn you 20 points, max earned is 200)
Step 10 – Vote on articles in the Magazine section (each one will earn you 20 points, max earned is 200)
Step 11 – Post comments on 150 photos or videos (each one will earn you 2 points, max earned is 1,000)
If you do the math: 500+1,000+300+300+300+300+300+300+200+200+300 = 4,000 points You can now use those points to purchase one free month of GOLD Membership.
I hope this helps those who are looking for help getting at least a free month.
|
|
|
35
Comments
|
|
Local event 9/19/2015
|
Posted:Sep 5, 2015 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2015 11:16 pm
5308 Views
|
The East Idaho Group is hosting their monthly meet & greet. For more information click on the link below -
Meet and Greet in Idaho Falls on Saturday 9/19
The purpose of their Meet & Greets is to give their group members a chance to socialize with each other in a public, no-pressure, social atmosphere. This includes new members, current members, and potential members alike. One of the other benefits of a Meet & Greet is the chance to find out who is real and who is active in the lifestyle.
a)Their Meet & Greet events are open to all members of the group and potential members of the group. Therefore, invitations to their Meet & Greets are not required. However, we would love it if people would comment on the event announcements to let others know they intend to show up so we have an idea of who is going to be there.
b) Since their Meet & Greets are primarily a social events, there will be no organized, group-sponsored "After Party" at our Meet & Greets (unless it is also being billed as a Group Event), so please do NOT expect to come to a Meet & Greet with the expectation of getting laid.
c) Members are free to invite guests, or potential new group members, to a Meet & Greet, but please keep in mind while you may not be personally held responsible for the conduct of your guests, if they do become a problem we will ask you and them to leave so that the rest of us can enjoy ourselves.
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
FriendFinder-x Ambassador Program
|
Posted:Sep 5, 2015 1:18 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2015 9:05 pm
13390 Views
|
Well FriendFinder-x has introduced a new thing to their website ... FriendFinder-x Ambassador ... I decided to check it out. So far it's very similar to the Icebreaker program that allows people to get a free GOLD membership for a year, but instead of automatically sending out your chosen message you select who you want to send messages to and then earn points after the recipient reads your message.
My Icebreaker message is:
Please join the groups in your area to meet and mingle with other members.Feel free to message me if you have any questions. I might be able to point you in the right direction on where to meet people.
My FriendFinder-x Ambassador message is:
Welcome to FriendFinder-x! My name is Veronica and I am one of the local FriendFinder-x Ambassadors for SE Idaho. I encourage you to join the groups in your area to meet and mingle with other members. Also feel free to message me if you have any questions. I might be able to point you in the right direction on where to meet people. **This message was not sent to show my personal interest in you but as a welcome message to the website**
So far I've earned over 1000 points ... time will tell how this program will continue to benefit my membership on FriendFinder-x.
|
|
|
5
Comments
|
|
4 men .. one weekend ....
|
Posted:Aug 23, 2015 9:53 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2015 7:27 pm
5513 Views
|
Intrigued? Well I'll have to tell you about it once I've recovered from a weekend filled with fun,debauchery, and lots of sex .... -free weekend at it's finest ..
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
Decisions .. decisions ...
|
Posted:Aug 20, 2015 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2015 7:27 pm
5593 Views
|
Well I did have a date for this weekend, but alas he has to work. Being a responsible adult can suck sometimes. I understand completely though because I too have responsibilities. Now I'm stuck with no date for this -free weekend, whatever shall I do????
|
|
|
2
Comments
|
|
Local event 8/21/15
|
Posted:Aug 9, 2015 8:59 am
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2015 5:03 pm
5812 Views
|
In conjunction with the East Idaho Group and Idaho Swingers R US.
Meet & Greet in Pocatello on 8/21
I will be attending as a moderator for my Pocatello Friends groups.
Feel free to come join us.
================================================================
The purpose of their Meet & Greets is to give our group members a chance to socialize with each other in a public, no-pressure, social atmosphere. This includes new members, current members, and potential members alike. One of the other benefits of a Meet & Greet is the chance to find out who is real and who is active in the lifestyle.
a) Our Meet & Greet events are open to all members of the group and potential members of the group. Therefore, invitations to our Meet & Greets are not required. However, we would love it if people would comment on the event announcements to let others know they intend to show up so we have an idea of who is going to be there.
b) Since our Meet & Greets are primarily a social events, there will be no organized, group-sponsored "After Party" at our Meet & Greets (unless it is also being billed as a Group Event), so please do NOT expect to come to a Meet & Greet with the expectation of getting laid.
c) Members are free to invite guests, or potential new group members, to a Meet & Greet, but please keep in mind while you may not be personally held responsible for the conduct of your guests, if they do become a problem we will ask you and them to leave so that the rest of us can enjoy ourselves.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
BDSM and sex
|
Posted:Jul 30, 2015 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2015 9:52 pm
5801 Views
|
A friend brought up an interesting question just the other day. Do BDSM and sex go hand in hand? Is sex required when you have a scene? What is your opinion? I've posted this on my Fetlife profile as well, so I'm interested to know what people outside the BDSM community think on this topic.
As for myself, sex can be used as a reward or a punishment depending on the submissive or slave. Sex has never played a major part in the many scenes I've been involved in over the years, it was always a bonus something we didn't even think about until later.
One of my most intense scenes didn't involved sex at all - it was a full body beating done inside Paddles (NYC) while my submissive was suspended from the ceiling blindfolded and naked. I used a heavy flogger on her to mark all along her naked body. It was an emotionally, mentally, and physically exhausting scene so needless to say no one got laid that night.
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
Mr. Dapper and Mr. SEE - Part 1
|
Posted:Jul 27, 2015 1:56 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2016 10:21 pm
6490 Views
|
Walking into the bar she paused at the entrance to slowly look around at all the patrons within. This woman was worth a second glance for quite a few reasons. Her raven black hair tumbled down her back in thick ringlets to stop mid-back. She had eyes that were so dark that a person could get lost in their depths. Her lips were painted the color of deep wine, their full sensuality apparent to all. Tonight she had chosen to impress her lover by adding a little flair to her outfit, something different that was sure to drive him wild. She chose a fire-engine red dress that slithered along her body, her breasts cupped nicely by the corset she wore underneath the silk material. The empress waist flowed freely and caressed all the right curves to stop at mid-thigh. Black silk stockings are visible through the slits on either side of her dress. Matching ebony shoes completed her chosen look for tonight. A slow smile formed on her lips as her gaze fell upon her lover’s familiar form.
Even in the low light of the room she knew the shape of his body anywhere. The lights overhead reflected off his shaved head, just the way she liked it, smooth and as soft as a baby’s bottom. He wore a sapphire blue button-down shirt that fit close to his body, the muscle definition evident to her and others around him. Black denim jeans encased his lean hips and thighs, and she knew when he stood up they would outline his ass perfectly. A stray thought came to her just then and she had to lick her lips gently… why yes she will have to spank that ass later. Looking back at his face she takes note of his profile, at just how attractive her lover can be. His square jaw with a bit of scruff, full lips, steely gray eyes were almost more than she could resist; but she will for now because it was still illegal to have sex in a public place.
But her Dapper Fellow wasn’t alone as he promised he would be, there was someone else at the table with him. Someone she had never met before. Although his friend was quite intriguing from afar, at about 6’2, short dark hair, and a chiseled jaw. A white t-shirt clung to his broad shoulders and denim jeans fit nicely over his trim waist. She could only assume he had an ass just as spankable as her lovers. She wound her way through the bar towards them, and continued to look over her lover’s friend. The mystery fellow turned suddenly as if feeling her eyes on him and she had to stop dead in her track at the intensity of his gaze. His eyes were more than just blue, they reminded her of the eye of the storm, a tumultuous blue that she almost got sucked into. He seemed amused that he could stop her mid-stride from the smile that he gave her, dimples appearing on either side of his face. Damn, she thought to herself, who the hell was he; but she was sure her lover would tell her momentarily.
Both men stood up from their seats as she reached their table. Her lover, ever the gentleman, held out a chair between them for her. She settles into the seat and crosses her legs languidly, the slit on one side of her dress revealing the top of her stocking to both men. Smiling at her lover, she leans over and brushes her lips along his jaw, “Hola, papi, I thought it was just you and me tonight.” Her eyes flit over to his friend and she offers him her hand, “And you are?” Mr. Sexy Eyes chuckled deeply and took her hand in his to grip it gently before saying, “I’m his best friend and he’s told me about his Latin beauty, but his descriptions did not do you justice.” Now it was her turn to laugh as she removed her hand from his and she looked back at her lover, “Your Latin beauty, eh? I don’t remember that being the job title you offered me when we first met.” Her lover smiled at her and merely shrugged before motioning the waitress over to order them all a few drinks.
After a few drinks, the group appeared relaxed and comfortable with each other so her lover had no problem taking her hand in his and kissing her wrist lightly. He looked at her and asked, “So do you remember how I told you that there would be other friends of mine that would be interested in meeting you?” She finishes off her vodka/cranberry and looked between the men curiously, “Yes, I do, why?” Mr. Sexy Eyes slides his hand onto her leg and leans in closer to her as he whispers into her ear, “Because I would be very interested in finding out what exactly is under that dress.” She blinks a few times and licks her lips as her eyes flit between them both again pondering what was just said. Her eyes lock with her lovers as she asks him, “Are you okay with sharing me with your best friend?” All he had to do was nod and she had an idea quickly form in her mind, saying, “Then we’d better go find a hotel room, before I change my mind.”
|
|
|
0
Comments
|
|
My rules .. revisited ..
|
Posted:Jul 22, 2015 7:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2023 3:25 pm
14579 Views
|
I originally posted this back in October 2014, but it seems like I need to re-post it for clarification.
For this type of site it's hard to explain to someone that I'm not on here to sleep with every Tom, Dick, and Larry that hits on me ... I'm a Lady and I have standards ...
Attraction is important to me .. I can usually tell right away from just a person's picture whether or not I will be attracted to them in anyway. If I am I'll set up a meeting. Usually it will be in a public place or at a local event going on in the area. Makes it safe for everyone all around.
Chemistry is also important to me .. I will know as soon as I meet a person whether their is any between us. I'll either want to ravage them instantly or say damn and he was so attractive in his pictures.
Irregardless of how I feel I will let the other person know in a polite fashion that yes I'm interested or no I'm not interested. I know being rejected can be a blow to the ego, but no one is perfect so everyone knows that feeling I'm talking about.
That's all for now ... be well and play safe everyone ..
|
|
|
1
comment
|
|
To link to this blog (darknesswins) use [blog darknesswins] in your messages.
|
|
|
| Sun |
Mon |
Tue |
Wed |
Thu |
Fri |
Sat |
| |
1
|
2
|
31
|
4
|
5
|
6
|
7
|
8
|
9
|
10
|
11
|
12
|
13
|
14
|
15
|
16
|
17
|
18
|
19
|
20
|
21
|
22
|
23
|
24
|
25
|
26
|
27
|
28
|
29
|
30
|
|
|
|
|
|
