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Jealousy, Envy...Feelings that get in the way of where you want to go.
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Posted:Aug 18, 2017 6:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2018 1:32 am
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I learned that jealousy and envy can really put a damper on your night. I tend to have more envious feelings as I wish I was able to go somewhere or hang with someone who I like when I want. Not so jealous that they are out with others especially if I get the recap of the night...actually takes away my negative feelings.
I find that I experience jealousy from others, which I don't quite understand...and I have had a couple of stalkers. It's not fun. I do my best right upfront to express my self and share what I want and I feel. I am open to hear who I keeping company with, their feelings. I don't want to infringe on anyone's freedom or enjoyment in life...hell life is short...and if I like you, even love you why would I want to rein you in?
So, why would another want to do that to me? I think communicating is an absolute, even the tough stuff. It's a must as I do like relationships...maybe not traditional, maybe not exactly what's expected but nevertheless...
Have a great day!
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Sexual Bucket List
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Posted:Jun 25, 2017 8:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2017 9:31 pm
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Been thinking about what is on my sexual bucket list...
1. MFM
2. Swing Party
3. Pegging without have to reciprocate.
4. Sex under a waterfall.
5. Outdoor sex
6. Sex in the car.
What's on your bucket list?
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Hotlist
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Posted:Feb 28, 2016 10:47 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2016 1:28 pm
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My Hotlist has disappeared. Not that I don't know who I hotlisted but it was just sad not to be able to look at men I decided to look at all at once. A hot visual treat.
I am a very visual female. I go visual, audio, then tactile which is interesting as during all the "testing" I scored higher on more male components (if I was male I would be average as female I am high) I did a lot of testing while I was becoming an educator. They test you are the subjects they want you to text others and with a minor in Psychology I got a lot of personality testing. The thing about testing is individual humans are still unpredictable...we just have preferences. Back to my hotlist...I notice a nice variety.
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Adjusting a thought about
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Posted:Feb 27, 2016 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2017 8:45 am
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So I wrote a little while ago about FWB and FB etc...and realized I have a different term ...Friendship Fucking.
It's basically the need to feel friendly towards whomever I am going to have sex with. A "friend" so to speak. Someone I think would be fun to have a beer with, go to a ballgame, share a meal, and talk about the day...the work...the adventures if we were going to talk. Someone you trust to do things right by you because you can talk to them about it. Give you an honest opinion. tell you what's great and such even if you are never going to hook up again. You have a fun connection Someone you can share your bucket list with.
Friends don't get jealous of other friends and the more friends you have the better.
I realize sometimes i talk too much...I like to think I am a communicator. The more I talk the more things become clear and the idea because much more real. I do once I am convince I would enjoy follow through. I don't like to write checks I can't cash.
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BDSM Test
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Posted:Feb 26, 2016 8:03 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2016 3:26 pm
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Thought this was interesting added some comments after the label. 
93% Non-monogamist ...I have never cheated on anyone when I was in a traditional relationship and now I am pretty clear about not wanting to be in a monogamous relationship.
80% Switch--yes. I agree...topping from the bottom...
76% Voyeur--more than I would like to be.
68% Dominant --want to more than I have in my life.
60% Experimentalist
59% Bondage giver --took a class 
52% Vanilla--with sprinkles.
49% Exhibitionist
49% Submissive
42% Degradation receiver
39% Bondage receiver
32% Degradation giver
32% Brat
29% Brat tamer
28% Ageplayer
27% Master/Mistress
23% Primal (Hunter)
19% Primal (Prey)
19% Daddy/Mommy
18% Sadist
12% Masochist
7% All-Rounder
5% Owner
4% girl/boy
1% Slave
0% Pet
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