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Reaction to being turned down!!!  

fancy_legs 52F  
147 posts
4/20/2021 2:27 pm
Reaction to being turned down!!!
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pussyllove 56M
5 posts
4/20/2021 2:43 pm

 If someone says there not interested i wish them good luck with there search and to have a great day. There is no reason to act stupid.


fancy_legs replies on 4/20/2021 6:02 pm:
Yes, that is what I normally write...* No thanks I am not interested good luck with your search *.
Just would be a lot easier dating if people would be polite and respectful to others.
Thank you for responding.

BiSubBitch2use 41M
2 posts
4/20/2021 3:17 pm

 That’s my biggest issue. I am just now exploring my Bi and sub side but that doesn’t define me. I love women and the minute they see my profile pics they stop talking because a few are me with guys. I shouldn’t have to take them down to talk to women


fancy_legs replies on 4/21/2021 7:33 am:
Just be yourself. There are plenty of other people on the internet looking. Just move to the next person on the list. You will find your match at some point. We are all looking for something different. Lots of options on the internet.

Thanks for responding.

elderberry50 73M

4/20/2021 3:29 pm

 Getting turned down by someone you haven't met yet ? You just keep looking for someone who is looking for the same thing.


fancy_legs replies on 4/20/2021 6:08 pm:
Yes, people hide behind the internet screen. Not everyone will be a match. Plenty of people out there.
Show respect to everyone you talk with. Yes, I agree I need to find someone with a common interest.
Thank you for responding

Mdonson57 63M
504 posts
4/20/2021 4:14 pm

 No is no. My expectation ends at possibly sharing a drink. Just because you drive to meet someone doesn’t mean anything. People need to realize that your partner has the right to say no at any time. Be a decent person and accept it.
MDonson
Kiik Myonguy


fancy_legs replies on 4/20/2021 6:09 pm:
Yes exactly. No expectations.

Thank you for responding

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
4/20/2021 4:39 pm

 Have received a few messages from men calling me names that I have not turned down. They read my profile and saw they do not meet my preferences. Yes SOME men do read them. The rest that wrote either ignored what I have or didn't read.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


fancy_legs replies on 4/30/2021 6:32 pm:
Sadly yes I have had that happen also. I have a profile with details of what I am looking for. No EXCEPTIONS. I have had people respond rudely when I tell them I am not interested. They might wish to read the profile before wasting their time and mine. They don't seem to like that answer, but it is what it is. Grow Up...LOL

Thank you for responding. Hope you find what you are looking for.

voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
4/21/2021 4:47 am

 Crazy, sad, and disappointing to come up with just 3 words for how people act. That sucks that you have to deal with it. I’m sure it’s frustration, but that hardly excuses being an idiot. And it goes without saying, just one more reason to not meet someone...


fancy_legs replies on 4/21/2021 7:37 am:
Thanks. There are always a few bad apples amongst the mix. It's the internet. People seem to hide behind the screen and say whatever they wish.
Would be nice if everyone was taught the respectful way
* if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all *

Thanks for your response.

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
4/21/2021 10:42 am

 Some people have egos made of spun sugar. It's a shame a few undermine the fun other are having. By the way, I was raised to believe respect is not situational or relative.
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


fancy_legs replies on 4/21/2021 11:05 am:
Thank you for your response

Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
4/29/2021 2:31 pm

 Yes, I agree. If someone is not in the same mindset, move on. Plenty of fish in the ocean.


fancy_legs replies on 4/30/2021 10:07 am:
Absolutely.

Thank you for responding.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/1/2022 6:03 pm

 Are you opening messages that come after your initial no thanks or uninterested?
If so why?You could eliminate about ninety five percent of all that B S .Say your "NO'S" and let it go!You could always block them!
Using more than all the road!


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