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Feb 2021
Posted:Feb 2, 2021 3:42 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2021 2:27 pm
Can you help with this...?
For a few photos more
Posted:Jan 27, 2021 9:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2022 3:31 pm
The crop top shot was today 27/01/21. The others are just a little pick n mix from the last three years to cheer viewers up (I hope!) in these weird times!
Have fun with them! x

And another set. Hope you enjoy them!
Posted:Jan 25, 2021 10:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2022 4:52 am
Some of these are a few years old, some very recent. If there's anything you'd like see, let know!.

A few more photos
Posted:Jan 25, 2021 5:52 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2021 2:29 pm
These are from the last couple of years

And a couple more full size photos
Posted:Oct 17, 2020 11:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2021 1:56 am
Does this count as social distancing? x

How to get cuckolded Pt 2
Posted:Oct 12, 2020 10:51 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 3:53 pm

Here are some more tips about how get another man into your wife’s sex life. The route you go down will - obviously - vary, depending the sex life you and your wife already have.

Paramount is try gauge her response to the things you say and do - and be adaptable.

One game is to get an airline-style eye mask . And no, not the sort of mask you’re wearing now… Think more Lone Ranger. If you pretend to be someone else, make sure you’re doing things that she definitely finds arousing. Associate your fantasy with her excitement, not her anxiety. The best route to satisfying your fantasies about other men fucking your wife is by first making those fantasies EASY for her enjoy.

Ask her to make a story about something she might have done while you were out… Listen carefully to how she frames the story.

Another game, only if you have a good and slightly experimental sex life, is to try touching her while wearing gloves. It introduces the idea of an unfamiliar touch in circumstances where it is completely safe. She might find it creepy of course! So listen carefully.

Many women, no matter how beautiful, lack confidence. In some women that makes them “shy” around men. In other women, it makes them eager for reaffirmation from men. In some women it’s both! You have to carefully consider how your wife feels about confidence. You want to create a game that encourages her to feel confident - and the kind of man you choose is important. Some women want a man who tells her she’s lovely. Not many women - certainly not on a first encounter - want a man who tells them she’s a slut. Even though it’s 2020, women often don’t want to do things that make them feel slutty. You must NEVER say or do anything that makes her feel ashamed about fucking other men.

Trust is everything. Your wife needs to know that it is a game that you are BOTH playing together, a game that strengthens your relationship - not weakens it.

While most women are comfortable with having gay friends, women are often less comfortable with being married to a bisexual. Whatever your views might be about same sex fun, bear in mind that this game is about what your wife wants - and feels easy with. If you have bi feelings that your wife doesn't know about, you will have plenty of time to subtly change things later… when she has got her head around playing cuck games at .

Similarly, but conversely, women are often less inhibited about FF contact than men are about MM contact. But it is vital find out what your wife feels. Never bounce her into unknown territory. Time spent in reconnaissance is never wasted!

Hope some of those tips help…

Have fun out there…!
How to get cuckolded...
Posted:Oct 11, 2020 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2021 5:33 am

Men often tell me how envious they are of my fella - having a girlfriend who meets other men... But it's not as impossible as you might think. Most women can be persuaded at some level. And here are a few concrete tips.

Certain conditions apply making it happen. And because everyone is different, some will apply more than others… Some are non-negotiable!

You must have a good, trusting relationship. It’s your job ensure that she is COMPLETELY confident that you are not trying find an excuse see other women or dump her.

You must develop a sense of what kind of men she finds attractive. Much better tell her that someone was giving her a look when it's someone that she would want look at her.

You must understand that it is a game you play TOGETHER. It’s about HER as much as about you. When you tell her that other men think she is attractive, she needs to know that you think so too. Be affectionate out in public. Even make out in public - lightly. Touch her in front of a mirror - it will give you a sense of what it would be like to watch someone else touch her.

Don't tell her about your fantasy of seeing her do an anal gang bang first time out. Just tell her that you find the idea of someone else making out with her a turn on. Ease her into it... Softly softly… It's an act of patient persuasion NOT browbeating or pressurising. She may be willing to go out on a no-commitment date - if you make it easy and feel like it’s a fun part of YOUR relationship… “I can’t tell you how much I love you - but I can’t help how much I’d get turned on watching someone else touch you.”

It’s VERY VERY VERY important that she knows you can handle it without getting jealous. Many women are nervous about starting something that could run out of control and cause arguments. Once you open the box there might be no closing it. And this means that YOU need to be completely sure about what you can handle.

You might consider setting a female profile for her a site like this. Be upfront… Tell readers that you, the husband, have posted it and tell them what you want. You might meet exactly the right man for your wife. And, if nothing else, you’ll get some great jerking material. If you post photos of her, make sure it’s nothing that someone might easily recognise. And make an effort to reply to people who write - you never know where it might lead!

Good luck with it… Happy to add anything to clarify!

More photos
Posted:Sep 10, 2020 10:00 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2021 8:53 am
Here are a few more pictures in full size.

Some photos
Posted:Sep 9, 2020 12:26 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 3:56 pm
I think everyone can see these... x

Cuck games
Posted:Sep 6, 2019 10:04 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2021 12:21 pm
I'm curious... How many men who visit this site would like - or explicitly fantasises about - the idea of another man fucking his wife/girlfriend? My fella loves it...
Goldilocks and the three virgins
Posted:Sep 9, 2018 12:37 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2021 4:19 am
I've had the pleasure of meeting three male virgins since I've been on here. None of them have been especially young - 22,23 and 24.

Quite a few men would think that would be about as hot as it gets - lucky guys... But although times change, people don't. Despite all the 'knowledge' that young people have today, they find it as difficult and awkward starting on the sexual adventure as I did 45 years ago.

In 2018 some are still very shy, others try to compensate for shyness by being over-confident and others just find the whole sex-thing weird - especially in my unusual situation. Hehe.

But despite all that, I like virgins for a number of reasons... You definitely won't catch anything from them, they have nice hard bodies and - well, just look at the pictures.

Happily, the fella in the third picture is a no-viagra 70. All is not lost!


It's just a fuck...
Posted:Apr 30, 2017 6:20 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 3:57 pm
Met a very nice fella the other week. He's very overweight and - as you can imagine - struggling on here. He hasn't had sex for several years and only been with two women in his life (the first one 20 years ago). A lovely fella - humble and self-effacing and missing sex in his life. But no chance... Every woman on here get loadsa mails from good looking blokes all the time.
He wrote me a few nice mails - and...
Well, balls to it. I invited him to come round... and I let him fuck me for his 'number three'. Certainly not gonna catch an STD off this gentle man.
He got very hard (always a good thing) - and pushed it in. I liked the feel of his thick cock twitching as he spunked in me for Britain. He went away very happy. And I had a nice leaky sensation for the rest of the day.
Every has his day... And it is just a fuck, after all.
What I really really wanna... see in a first message and a profile?
Posted:Apr 10, 2017 3:13 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2021 8:54 am

Blokes often ask what women are looking for in their messages and profile.

So, here is some - entirely well-meant - advice...

First thing to say is that messages with just "hi" or "how are you" don't make any impression at all - especially if there are no photos. Simple truth is that every woman on here gets messaged 10+++ times a day. If you can't be arsed to tell a women something interesting (or even say anything at all), why would they bother writing back? True, it's hard to get a reply, so cut and paste is ok... but personalise it a bit too.

Second, make your first message friendly. Women aren't like blokes... Telling women that you'd like to fuck them in the ass is fine so long as you are getting off on it - because that's as far as it will ever go!

Third, any photos are better than no photos. If you want to include a dick-pic (much better if it's not your main pic) don't make it a limp dick shot! Hard dicks can look good if the pic is taken well. If it's a face pic, look UP at the camera not down. A gentle smile is nice... A grim face may suit models, but on here it just makes you look like a sex offender. Take a few until you get a good one. Remember, you'll usually only get one shot when you write to women on here.

Fourth, read your message before you hit send! Auto-correct can make an arse of you. I couldn't care less whether you can spell so long as I can understand what you're saying.

Finally, fill in the fekkin profile page completely! If you can't even be arsed to tick a few drop-boxes, what's the likelihood that you wash regularly?

If women click on your profile, make sure there's something to read... Inviting them to "if you want to know anything, just ask" is fine - but they won't bother unless you look like Brad Pitt. If you can't be bothered they won't either.

Happy hunting everybody!

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