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I Now Pronounce U Indyman&wife
 
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What is wrong with people?
Posted:Apr 25, 2009 10:06 pm
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2012 10:46 am
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So.. Seriously, why do people message you on the messenger here? I know when I message people on the messenger, it is to actually chat with people to get to know them. I got this message from a person asking me if I want to cam? The minute I tell people I do not have a cam, (let alone would I cam 2 cam with people anyway) they immediately leave the chatroom.. To me, I just think that is RUDE!!!!! I mean how old are we??? Just be upfront and say.. Well I am just looking for people to cam with, so I am sorry to bother you, or kiss my ass or something!!!
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OMG....
Posted:Apr 8, 2009 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2009 2:16 pm
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Ok.. so I am driving home from work today. I was getting on the highway, and of course have my signal on to merge onto the highway. Next thing I know, I am damn near squashed between the idiot semi driver ( because he decides it is better to speed up and try and pass me ) and the barricade. My heart was racing a mile a minute, because there was nothing I could do.. Luckily I was safe, and no damage done, but it could have easily turned ugly.. I just don't understand.. do these people not realize the trauma they can cause to someone, or do they just not care. Anyway.. had to get that off my chest..

Indywife
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A lot of baloney going on
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 4:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2009 9:05 pm
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Baloney---Noun

1. Slang. foolishness; nonsense.

My wife tells me about a lot of the stuff going on here on the site. I don't understand why there is so much drama. I know being grown doesn't equal being an adult. Maybe I have higher expectations for people than I should. I just know that hearing about all of the sabre rattling and peacock strutting that goes on in the groups on here is crazy. I don't know what people think talking crap to other people on the boards here accomplishes. This is a place where adults are supposed to get to know each other and meet and see if there is more. It is not a place for a bunch of red assed monkeys to puff up their chests and walk around throwing coconuts.

While I am on the topic, It bothers me when people say FriendFinder-x is a swingers site. Yes it is for swingers. But if you read the black words right up at the top left of your screen you will see that it says "Swingers, Free Adult Chat & Adult Personals Site". I get tired of hearing people go on and on about "the lifestyle" and the fact that people on here are not freaks or swingers or live up to whatever standard they think they have and have randomly set for others. If you look up swinging there are many different definitions. There are also a ton of single men and single women that are looking for a variety of different things. Not everyone wants an orgy, a full swap, or whatever someone else's expectation or definition of this site and swinging is. There are not a lot of places in our uptight country that allows people to let their guard down and cut through the bullshit that is meeting and dating someone that is probably as horny as you are, but are afraid of the social expectations that restrict the way you can go about finding partners. So to all the single girls that just want dick and no pussy. All the single guys that want pussy and no dick. All of the couples that just want women and not a full swap. Rock on. To everyone else that fits into the other categories-- Rock on. Let's just get along on here and keep your opinions and expectations to yourself.

Whew. That was a bunch. Glad I got that out. LOL
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Snow sucks
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 4:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2009 6:37 pm
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Just got done shoveling. It sucks. I'm sick of the snow. I hear it is going to warm up over the next few days. I can't wait. I just hope my backyard doesn't flood and enter my basement. Damn. Indiana sucks. LOL.
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Co-workers
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 4:28 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2009 3:19 pm
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I think my wife blogged about this topic before. Mine is a little different. I am in a position where I share a lot of job responsibilities with one other person. There is no clear delineation of duties so it is basically a point where either the job is done and done right, or it isn't.

The person I share jobs with has way lower ethical standards than I do. She has a very low work ethic. She apparently has little care about me, when I am busting my ass doing 75% of the work and making "us" look good. My boss is pretty hands off. I do think that she has a pretty realistic perspective on the difference between the jobs the two of us do. I think the gap between what she thinks we do, vs. what actually happens is greater than what she thinks.

This co-worker is constantly talking about things in a very public manner that she shouldn't be. She is constantly on the phone an internet handling personal business and socializing. She has a constant parade of friends that comes down to her desk and visits. On top of this, she shows up 15-30 minutes late, takes an extra 5-15 minutes on her two breaks per day and normally takes a lunch that is 15-30 minutes longer than she is supposed to. All of this and she is putting in that she works her full 8 hours every day. She also has a habit of requesting to leave early or take off Monday or Friday or both. It never fails. If she doesn't ask off, sometimes she has a "crisis" that comes up. My boss is really nice and just allows her off as long as I am there.

I am getting fed up. I am not sure if I should sit her down and just tell her how I feel and spare no feelings. Mind you I have to keep working with this person. My other choice is to talk to our boss. I don't want to come off as a complainer or tattle tell or someone that is petty. The issues I have are things that there really is not a lot of proof on.

Hmmmmmm. what to do?
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Do you ever wonder
Posted:Feb 4, 2009 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2024 11:16 pm
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OK, I know the plight of the homeless is very rough and no, i have never been homeless. I do know that I have seen some things on TV where people with signs panhandling actually have better cars and homes than the people they are getting money from. I also know that there are some legitimate people that are down on their luck.

So with that said. Here is my question.

Do you ever wonder where the homeless guys get the magic markers they use to make their signs?

OK. Thanks for humoring my twisted mind.

Indyman
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