My Wife- This has come up
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Posted:Jan 26, 2019 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2019 11:54 pm
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Ok. so one of the things that comes up when I am chatting with people is that I have a wife.
I identify as single, as my wife of 20 years *yes, been together sine I was in my teens) decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. For me, that means the relationship is over.
However, my wife is an artist, and depends upon me for financial support, insurance, etc.
So....yeah. We remain together, but I identify as single. We live to together, and I support her financially and practically. I have her support in seeking sexual and emotional fulfillment. Provided that the people I am involved with accept that I have a wife, and do not tr to alter that reality. She also prefers that I have more than one female partner.
I think this is her way of trying to prevent me from falling head over heels in love with another woman.
That said, I am available. I have given my wife a boundary in that I will continue to support her as long as she supports my needs being fulfilled. The second she stands between me and what I need to be healthy in my life, I will terminate the relationship. I care about her. I support her.
And she will want to meet anyone that I am fucking. It is your choice, but honestly? I kinda get a kick out of watching her try to decide whether to make friends or to indulge her jealousy.
And yes, I provide goodies to those who put up with her bullshit. She's a good person, but drama much? lol!
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The elephant in the relationship
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Posted:Jan 26, 2019 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 3:25 am
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It's weird having achieved wealth. The mentality of everyone you date seems to be that there is some sort of obligation to allow everyone to waste what I have built. Don't get me wrong- I enjoy being able to afford luxuries. But at the same time, I am able to help my community in ways that matter to me, and I will not jeopardize that for a passing fancy's passing fancies.
But there is also this thing where people want me to prove it. No. Not happening.
Get to know me, and you will find out what I am worth. I am able to take care fo those that I love. I am there for those who are there for me. And sex partners count.
I love to spoil those who are mine, but have ZERO obligation to spend on those who are not. Fair warning.
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The elephant in the relationship
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Posted:Jan 26, 2019 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 3:25 am
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It's weird having achieved wealth. The mentality of everyone you date seems to be that there is some sort of obligation to allow everyone to waste what I have built. Don't get me wrong- I enjoy being able to afford luxuries. But at the same time, I am able to help my community in ways that matter to me, and I will not jeopardize that for a passing fancy's passing fancies.
But there is also this thing where people want me to prove it. No. Not happening.
Get to know me, and you will find out what I am worth. I am able to take care fo those that I love. I am there for those who are there for me. And sex partners count.
I love to spoil those who are mine, but have ZERO obligation to spend on those who are not. Fair warning.
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Men who want to meet NOW
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Posted:Dec 3, 2018 2:20 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2019 12:53 pm
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sorry, do you not read the news? What planet are you from?
Because here, in the US, in the real world, women get killed that way. You to expect to spend some time establishing trust, then you to expect to provide some proof of who you are, plus a way for the woman to confirm you are not an axe murderer, PLUS a way for her friends to alert the police if there is a problem... all of this takes time, and negotiation, in order to establish what is needed and what will work.
Then there is the first meeting. And yeah, you really need to expect there to be AT LEAST one meeting in public before you get to stick it in her. Becayse sex may be great, but being alive is kind of important to most of us.
If you do not understand that a woman's first priority is protecting her life, then you need to get a grip. And stop posting on sex sites, because, seriously? You are too dumb to fuck.
So, please, gentlemen, do all of us on here a favor: Read our ads. Respond to our questions. And please, please , please refrain from messaging us with your phone number and a request to fuck NOW. Because that ain't happening. Not in the real world.
Seriously, if you want someone who is so desperate that she will risk her life, drive down Lake Street in the middle of the night- and know that any contact with that kind of woman means your life is likely to be at risk as well, if not in the short term, then definitely in the long term.
So let's be real. Let's be respectful. Read the ads, respind to the questions and requests, and realize that this will take some time. If you are not ok with that- well, again, this is the real world, so if you want to live in your fantasy realm, go for it, but please don't waste my time.
Thank you.
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