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The occasional blog about what strikes me as interesting, which is usually my BBW hotwife...thanks for all those that read them.
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Free Pass
Posted:May 20, 2014 5:31 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2014 5:44 pm
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My wife and I are giving each other a free pass over the summer for three days. I will be staying in Tampa and who knows where she will be. However, on the second day (I've already told her this) she will be given an envelope by me to be at a bar where I hit on her. Of course, to spice things up I'm going to send a guy over to talk to her that she won't know about. I'll be in the distance watching because she thinks I'll be meeting her at X time.

The other two days we will be apart from each other. I'm sure we will send texts throughout the day but I want each of us to have a great time apart. Then when we do get together on the fourth day, it will be like the first time we were dating.

That's it for now. Hope to hear from you. We are both trying to get laid separately, by the way. So any ladies want to meet with me for a drink? Any guys want to hang with the wife?

Next Sexual Bucket list coming soon. It will be things we've done. #21-#30

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Sexual Bucket List 11 thru 20...What we want to do through the 2014 summer!
Posted:May 1, 2014 7:00 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2014 7:04 am
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Hello FriendFinder-x nation...here's our 2nd installment of our Top 100 Sexual Bucket List (11-20) we'd like to do through the 2014 summer:

11. Come over to someone's house and have them watch us (having sex, of course).

12. Go to a swinger's club like Eyez Wide Shut or the Loop 2 (Sarasota) and participate in group sex.

13. Have dinner with a couple and afterward full swap in separate rooms at a house, hotel, etc.

14. Baseball sex with a couple...I take her in one dugout and my wife takes your husband in the other dugout.

15. Strip poker with a few couples...winner gets his/her choice. Runner-up and so forth get who's left.

16. Meet at a parking lot (say like the Hard Rock) and exchange partners. Cars are side by side as we have our fun.

17. We have a big tent and find a nice secluded area in the forest and exchange partners.

18. Skype or Yahoo video sex with different partners. We can then watch on video as your partner has sex with one of the other couple.

19. We meet and exchange partners. Then go back to separate locations and video tape the encounter. Make copies of the tape and then you can watch your partner having sex with the other in the privacy of your home for later.

20. Open to suggestions on full-couple swap!

Alright FriendFinder-x nation, let's see if we can make this happen over the next four months (May through August 2014).
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Personal Life Quote
Posted:Apr 21, 2014 5:39 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2014 7:18 pm
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Here it is my own personal life quote: I don't want to go back to where I've been. I want to go forward to where I've never been.
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Sexual Bucket List 1 thru 10 of 100...what we have done so far!
Posted:Mar 27, 2014 3:48 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2014 8:29 am
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Sexual Bucket List
1-10 of 100


1. Our first threesome...Adrian came over via Craigslist. I, the boyfriend at the time, had my own apartment after my divorce. My girlfriend, the wife now, fulfilled my fantasy (and hers too). He, the first, was perfect. Everything you could wish for happened. He worshipped her body and couldn't get enough of her 44 DDDs. I also participated as we fucked her in every position. She was our toy. Or was it we were her toys???

2. Unknowingly, this becomes #2. My apartment neighbor was outside smoking a cigarette and we were inside as I had her bent over my couch. My window shades happened to be open and he got a free a show. He would tell me later he only need popcorn to make it perfect. By the way, he was gay. He loved her breasts flopping against the black leather couch.

3. She didn't know what I had set up (at the apartment) and was laying in bed, snuggled under the covers with the lights out, as she anticipated something. He texted me from outside and I gave an excuse to leave the room. With the video camera rolling on night vision, he entered the room naked and slithered under said covers. Sexual pleasure ensued. I also participated and she sucked two cocks at the same time for the first time.

4. First visit to a pool hall that was a sex store. It started out that night to get a vibrator and led us to playing pool. Didn't realize a sex store also had pool table. In this case it was Fantasyland II. We played many games of pool and the guys followed in to watch us (I mean her) to play. This leads directly into #5, #6 and #7.

5. Her first BBC...he would become a regular (that is more than once). He greeted us outside on the deck and started small talk. Next thing you know we are closing the door to the pool area and those two are thoroughly enjoying each other as I video taped from my phone.
Remember, we were looking for a vibrator and I didn't have my video camera. #5 leads directly into #6.

6. Her first romp in a swing at a sex store. I know, I know. They are coming fast and furious this bucket list. Again, I participated and loved watching her fuck her first BBC. With his 10" cock he slowly plunged it into her as she had her legs spread wide open. Her orgasm was intense. My go around culminated in a quickie.

7. The first time she kissed a BBC. Never before had she kissed a black man. Oh, how she enjoys kissing. He tongued her and she gave it right back. With their bodies embraced in the swing, she was his to devour and she gave it all to him. She loved the intimacy of it, even if she had never done this before. Sadly that would be the last time she has used the swing.

8. Our first regular. The gentleman from Fantasyland II we would met at Fantasyland I a few weeks later. While we played pool, he came over and said hello. So you could say, "he had her at hello." Within 10 minutes I am watching those two fuck like rabbits. Her moans, coupled with his seismic orgasm, made me jerk off as I watched them. This would become a regular theme from here on out. That is me watching as she played.

9. Her second BBC. Can you say hooked on BBC??? This time we played at the apartment and set it up through Craigslist. I played too but wanted to see her with another man. As the video cam rolled he took her to my room and laid her on the bed after we started the ball rolling on the black leather couch...hehe. In my room she beckoned his cock toward her mouth. She stroked him a few times and sucked gently on his cock. Then, BAM!. He came. That must be a record. Literally, 10 seconds and he came.

10. A SURPRISE!!! A neighbor from an another apartment complex that I knew. This time through POF. We created an alternate site where she was very sexual. She had one on POF that I had met her, which was tame to what we put on there. Throw out the cast line and see who bites? Who knew it was a former neighbor. This time I watched from outside my window. When I couldn't stand not telling him our little secret, I entered my apartment and he heard the door shut she would tell me. He freaked when he saw me. From that point forward I watched and video taped.

Numbers 11 through 20 coming soon!!!
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Sexual Bucket List
Posted:Mar 16, 2014 12:36 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2014 5:19 pm
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We haven't started a Sexual Bucket List, yet. But I need to start one! Here is one that we HAVE talked about and she is okay with:

A random man I pick, preferably a BBC, comes over in the middle of the night while she is sleeping, or early morning before she wakes to get ready for work, and fucks her without saying a word. Just slip into bed, pull up her nightie, suck on her 44 DDDs to arouse her, then gently pull off her panties, spread her legs, get on top, and slowly penetrate and thrust. Repeat thrusting until you cum. After you cum, dress and leave. That simple.

We can then mark that off our list. So what I need to do is create our list later this week. We will create 100 and figure how to do them all. Just not all at one time...lol. I'm sure we would have already done about 10 of them, starting with our 1st threesome...check.

Alright guys and gals that is all for this blog. Just a QUICKIE like the one I just described above. Let me see if I can make it happen by next Sunday!

BY THE WAY...it will be video taped. So if you're not okay with me video taping then it is a deal breaker. Sorry. If you read our profile, then you know what we like and do.

I'll post the list next week...stay tuned and thanks for reading our blogs.
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Music 4 The Soul
Posted:Mar 8, 2014 2:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2014 11:00 am
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It is a Saturday at the house...my wife and I are on our porch and I have set up my speakers. We are just hanging out and I thought as I play Wisin y Yandel's Abusadora how it just wants to make you dance. And it got me thinking how music is wonderful for the soul. It can take you places that are just your own memories.

Now it's Pitbull and Christina Aguilera's Feel This Moment...what an amazing song at a club. The background starts with A-Ha's Take On Me (my favorite song growing up) and kicks into what great music is...music for the soul. It is something that everyone experiences when they hear a song from the past...memories that are simply a part of who you are.

My life has always been music. When I was nine I was already creating my own Top 40 list of songs that for me were my favorites. Of course those favorites have always leaned toward pop/Top40 music. I grew up on Rick Springfield, Journey, a-ha, Def Leppard...now it is Pitbull, Maroon 5, Wisin y Yandel, Keane, One Republic, Linkin Park and my guilty pleasure, the soundtrack to Pitch Perfect. Also, can't forget my all-time favorite artist: ADELE. Check out her remixes especially the Thomas Gold Remix to Set Fire To The Rain. One more Fun's We Are Young (the Alvin Risk Remix). Incredible.

Favorite song right now...probably Wisin y Yandel's Algo Me Gusta De Ti w/Chris Brown and T-Pain. I think I'll play it again right now and watch Michelle start grooving in her seat...let's see if this happens. She's watching the pool boy. He is stripping and she's laughing. I just winked at her. My wife knows spanish...I only know "Dame Mucho Besitos" lol. The beat is playing loud...she's rocking her head and body back and forth (maybe I should have titled this Music 4 Sexually Healing). Hold my hands, move your body...can i take you there? will you be the love of my life?

I think I'll just create my own dance club and rent out a building. Play all my favorites...lights, camera, action! Feel the music and it takes you off to pleasure. That's what music does for me. It is definitely music for your soul.

If you're in a romantic mood check out Collin McLoughlin's Stereo Hearts.

Talk to you soon gang. Gotta go dance...

Mike

Update: almost forgot my other guilty pleasure: One Direction...man crush...lol
Update 2: How could have possibly forgotten my favorite group: THE KILLERS. Saw them in concert and what a performance from Brandon Flowers and the band. Check them out on Youtube when they performed at the T In The Park in Scotland (2013 version or any of the years they performed at this yearly festival).
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My Life As A Nudist-Resort DJ
Posted:Mar 4, 2014 8:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2014 1:48 pm
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In 1995 I saw an ad in the paper looking for a wedding DJ for a nudist resort club. "Hmmm," I thought. I had already been a wedding DJ for three years and I thought this would be right down my alley. They were looking for someone from Sunday through Thursday. Perfect for me because I could still continue my business and keep busy throughout the week.

For the next 13 years I experienced what most people paid to see.

Now one little caveat. I never crossed the boundry to playtime. This was my job. And you know the old adage: Never play where you work. But what I saw and could have explored is for a book. The title would be "My Life As Nudist Resort DJ."

Starting in '95 I was a new father with bills and a wife who worked the usual 40-hour week. She had no problem with me making extra money. By the way it was $500 a week for the five days I was there to entertain the guests. They entertained me just as much.

As I write this I have on a split screen The Killers at the T In The Park full concert. So my memories are mixed with pleasure.

I made close friends but never that close. Everyone knew me and I knew them because I kept index cards on them and their favorite songs to dance to. It was the best of both worlds. I love meeting new people. I'm intrigued by them and the honest life they lived. Most of them back in the day were in their 40s. I was only 28 at the time. For the next 13 years I became like family to them and vice versa. I miss those days but realize life moves forward at a fast clip.

Okay...here is what you want to know. Sex happened on the dance floor. Sex happened in the hot tub. Sex happened in the private rooms. What do you expect for a nudist resort? Now could I have explored? Of course I could have. But I was newly married with a family. So I sat back and watched. Just like today with my new wife.

Maybe someday I'll write a book on my life. I think it might be something that you'll want to know because I've lived several lifetimes in just my 46 years on this planet. Starting with being a professional baseball player, sports writer, wedding DJ, and soon to be a paralegal for fathers. Now that's another story for all fathers whose ex has kept their from them.

Okay...nudist resort DJ. One time I had a fine-ass lady come up to me in the DJ booth and ask if her boobs looked real? "They look great," I said. She went one step further. Grabbed my hand and placed it on her tit. "Do they feel real?" she said. "Uh, yes, they feel real." Now I do not like fake breasts. But I lied. Real is better. Sorry girls. I'm sure if I added three more inches of a prosthetic penis and said how does it feel you would probably say it is not the real thing. I love women for what they were given. That's just my preference. I once had a girlfriend with A cups...did not matter. I got off on HER. Not the boobs.

Another story...everyone in the club got naked, even the DJ, the bar staff, my boss, etc. I had never seen everyone completely nude at one time because it was clothing-optional resort. Nothing to hide. It was the most surreal moment.

Another story...he is 5'7 and she is 6'...she would show up in lingerie and he would have his business suit on. An hour later she's nude with only high heels and he would wear just a vest. He would just tweak her breasts while she danced in front of him.

Another story..."I'm a just a perve, Mike!" he told me as he watched his wife dance with her boyfriend. He was a retired farmer.

Another story...retired fireman in his 40s loved Maroon 5 and always asked for the same songs when they came down from the Midwest.

Another story...retired policeman watched me dance with his wife. She I could have easily said, "Why not!!!!"

Another story...couple in their 70s danced at 7:00p and left by 8:00p...that's why I know about Steve Tyrell.

Another story...the Fluffer. She was my second boss and had I believe breasts that you couldn't find in the alphabet. No lie. Her breasts were so big they probably weighed 25 pounds each. Her former life she was a Fluffer in the porn industry. Look up fluffer if you don't know what I'm talking about.

Another story...I was the karaoke DJ. One woman would belt it out that would make Simon Cowell and The Voice book her in a heartbeat.

Another story...one guy loved it when I danced with his wife during karaoke and loved it when I wrapped my hands around her belly and breasts.

Another story...the HOT TUB....use your imagination.

Another story...the Bucs winning the Super Bowl. OMG...we had so much fun that night.

Alright gang. That's it for now. I've got so many stories over 13 years that, again, it would fill a book.

Mike
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Rant (first and hopefully last one)/The Golden Rule
Posted:Mar 2, 2014 7:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2014 12:03 am
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We are normal people who enjoy posting our videos and having adult playtime with fellow members. It is right in our introduction for BBW lovers - very simple. However, one member of FriendFinder-x decided to abandon the Golden Rule that our parents learned from their parents: "If you don't have nothing nice to say, then don't say nothing at all."

Here is what he said (along with his name) to our "He Continued To Rock Her World."
Zippo253  37M
Graham, WA
obese ass on a pencil dick.

Really? What did we do to you? Freedom of expression is American's greatest advantage but I think this was a tad out of line. And here I paraphrase from his introduction to prove my point.

I just went to copy and paste it but he has blocked anyone from viewing him after I just responded to his "uncalled for" comments. Basically, he wasn't living by his introduction rules. Comes down to it he felt it was rude if you said something derogatory if he never has contacted you. Well, live by the Golden Rule.

So far I've seen around four or five that leaves my head scratching. I can't figure out why the negativity to certain videos we posted without a clear warrant for such venom. Who cares? It is just a post of pics and vids! If you don't like it, kind of like poetry or art, then keep your opinions to yourself, especially if the person doesn't know who you are. And then you hide behind a veil of secrecy yourself with no vids or pics.

We love the comments!!! Please keep them coming but at least read your own introduction, so that it matches your personality for what you're looking for in a mate or playmate. Okay, this was just a quick post. Hopefully the last on it. This site is about living in the moment at our age and meeting some wonderful people on this site. We hope to talk to you soon and gain an insight into your life that we just created two years ago.

Talk to you very soon. Mike and Michelle
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How My Wife Became A Swinger...and it's OKAY
Posted:Feb 28, 2014 4:53 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2014 11:49 pm
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Not too long ago I met my wife on a dating site. I was looking for a wife and I put on my profile I was giving myself one year. Before I knew it I was dating four girls at the same time - and they all knew about each other. Each one had their day with me or the weekend. Nothing was hidden. But one clearly went to the top after just two weeks.

Now what exactly set her apart? Well, after my first wife cheated on me, no less on our 15th wedding anniversary, I wanted to be completely honest with my next wife. As we were dating I told her I had fantasies about watching other men fuck my wife. "Hmmm," I think my current wife was thinking when we were dating.

She was also seeing other men at the time. Only fair! But she did one better with my fantasy, she made it a reality within two weeks of us dating. I had an apartment at the time and she came over one night with a surprise for me. She agreed to my fantasy of a threesome. Oh, my, god. I never had a threesome before and all that I can tell you was that I was in sexual heaven. And it was taped.

So off we went into a world neither one of us had explored. Two years later we are comfortable now for her to go alone. I usually speak with the guy to kind of make sure we were all on the same page. If I liked him, then my wife only need feel attracted to him. She still has final say but I know what she likes and she knows what I like.

I'm not going into details in this blog, only because I am not the type of writer to ooze sexy detail. More like this guy came over and my wife (girlfriend at the time) had a glass of wine or liquor of choice to feel relaxed for both of them. After that it was usually off to foreplay in the living room then to the bedroom where I watched or sometimes participated.

Now before you go thinking we do this every day or even every weekend, it is not like that. Right now we average about once every month or two months. Of course, I want to see it all the time. However, realistically it is not possible because she works Monday thru Friday and is usually plumb tired when she gets home. So I tend to watch the same videos of her when we get frisky. Lately it is almost every day now.

As I write this she is planning something for tomorrow without me knowing...it is a secret. Awesome. I've already told her I want her to set it up without me knowing. I'll just be in the wings. We've become relaxed when it comes to me not being there. For the first time I got to listen in on the fun from my cell phone while I was at home and she was in the hotel. Talk about erotic. You have no idea what they are doing other than the moans and the bed creaking. Fucking amazing.

Okay, back to the main point of how my wife became a swinger. Timing. Her first marriage was a disaster and I wanted something my first wife would never had done, although she fucked another guy for three years. Go figure. Call it the stars lining up to find the perfect mate. She loves pleasing me and she loves the thrill of meeting someone new from time to time. It is simply an outlet for the love we have for each other that we trust each other implicitly.

It wasn't rocket science. Two people who enjoyed sex and wanted to explore what life has to offer with someone they are in love with. That's the thrill everyone. I wish I could express it like poetry but I'm not a poet. I just know what I want and have the best of both worlds.

Tomorrow night she is setting something up...can't wait to see the video she brings home so we can make love to it until the morning. Again, and again, and again.

And that's how my wife became a Swinger...and it's Ok with me.>>!

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BBW 4 Me/Growing Up
Posted:Feb 27, 2014 4:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2014 2:42 am
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When I was a I dated only thin girls. In college I dated thin girls. Then my first wife was borderline BBW at 150 5'7". After three she was 250. I wasn't happy because I was still stuck in my teenage thoughts of what I wanted a woman's shape to be.

Then as I approached 40 my thoughts changed. Call it growing up. It was as if I had an Earth shift with my desires. Now I couldn't get enough of a BBW.

My second wife I met on a dating site. I liked what I saw: BBW type, ample breasts (always been a breast man), round ass, and a nice belly. We only texted. Our first date was the next day and when she showed up, I knew right then - perfect for me. When she left the next morning after three bed romps, I was hooked on her.

Now if I was stuck in my teenage desires, then I wouldn't have met the most amazing woman for me. But because I wanted only BBWs, it happened. I am sure if a woman with 44 DDDs showed up in your bed you wouldn't say NO because she was a larger woman. For some guys it would have been a nice bed notch and then back to thinner women. By the way, nothing wrong with any shape of a woman. However, if you enjoy a certain type, why not stick with that?

So here I am in my mid 40s with exactly what I want in a woman's shape. I have told her on many occasions I love her shape and to not change a thing. She is happy with that. Of course, there is more to it than her having an amazing figure that I crave. We talk all the time. We thoroughly enjoy each others company.

Call it BBW 4 Me.
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Infidelity/Honesty/BBW
Posted:Feb 26, 2014 1:15 am
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2014 11:54 am
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If you have come across us, then you know my wife is a BBW and I am most definitely the luckiest man because I love BBWs. But that is not what this first blog is about. This is our second marriages and we found something that a lot of first-marriage couples don't express until it is too late.

That is being honest with your partner. Infidelity I am sure has ruined more relationships other than finances. If only the other spouse who cheated would have just come forward and said, "Hey, I am interested in ________ (fill in the blank) and would like to go out for a drink and see where it leads." Or, "An old friend contacted me on __________ (again, fill in the blank) and wanted to get together sometime. I've always had a crush on ____________ (you get it by now) and wanted to see what it would be like in bed, car, etc."

I think most guys, and a few ladies, would say sure. As long as it is audio taped, video taped, or you get to be at the place they meet to watch from a distance. I really believe the cheating spouse would be pleasantly surprised that the other spouse has fantasized about them going out on a date with their approval. And then being able to watch and listen from afar. Now that's erotic.

Luckily for me I have the most amazing wife who allows me to live out my fantasy (and hers too.) I get to watch the video she will shoot with the guy she has gone on a date for our sexual pleasure later. Or for one awesome guy I listened on the phone while they had amazing sex. Only her moans broke the silence or if I asked to see a position for my viewing later on the video they would respond. OMG...talk about your guilty pleasure. And for those in this "lifestyle", I really wouldn't call it that. I call this more like being honest with who you are. Is reading a lifestyle? Eating? Taking a shower? Driving?

Our marriage is, I believe, stronger for the reason we communicate what we want. I want to watch her with another man and she really enjoys the feel of another man from time to time. She likes dressing up and expressing her sexual desires with the gentleman she may have met just the week before. By the end of the night she is back in bed with me and we relive their entire time together (all over the bed...lol.)

Of course, our marriage is more than just sex. We thoroughly enjoy each other and appreciate what the other does. I have brought her out of her BBW shell to let her feel sexy. As I've told her daily, men like what they want (not that she needs the approval of men, you get the idea ladies) and they want a woman like you...a BBW with 44 DDDs (new update 6/1/14: they are 44Fs now). If they wanted a thinner woman, then they wouldn't contact you. That simple.

Most importantly, as she has said to me, I want her and love her figure. It's obviously more than that but that's for another blog.

Okay, first blog done. Let's see who reads this. Key words, HONESTY, Married Couples, Infidelity, BBW, Lucky Man.
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