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Ramblings of a middle aged man
 
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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Age
Posted:Nov 16, 2013 2:47 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2013 6:42 am
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In the last couple of years, specially this week I have been hit with the age thing several times. What amazes me is how woman just a couple years younger than me can say I am to old but then they are after a person 10, 15 even 20 years younger than they are. I am at a loss for an explanation. I do understand how many guys are out of shape at 50. However I post a torso picture so that people can see what I look like.

With age should come experience. That experience should make a better partner. I also understand that everyones experience are different. If you find that those young people are unable to meet or are very skilled. Why would you not look at someone a couple of years older than yourself?

Maybe one day you will find yourself on the to old side, then what??
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this week
Posted:Nov 16, 2013 2:28 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2013 6:42 am
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This week was my birthday and the last couple of weeks have been full of all kinds of rejection. So for the next week I will be looking at different thoughts about age, size, respect for starters. My profile will also be changing. Hand on it could be a bumpy ride!
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just depressing
Posted:Nov 11, 2013 9:20 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2013 11:36 pm
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Well another year older and another year of disappointment. I guess I must be to old to be desirable to anyone on here. In some ways this place can drive me nuts at times. Be respectful and it gets you no where. Just seems I am always what someone does not want, Body hair, balding, not hung enough, white etc, etc. Many on here are just talk. Thats great to start with but sooner or later the rubber needs to hit the road. So at my age is it just hopeless to be here??
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Another ever notice
Posted:Nov 6, 2013 2:16 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 3:27 pm
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Ever notice how many couples cams are really just some guy pulling on his dick? Just a thought for today.
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Time of year
Posted:Oct 28, 2013 10:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 3:27 pm
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Well its that nip in the air that pushes me to getting the last outdoor chores for the year done. This year is different in that after years of waiting I got a floor poured that I can make my shop on. At last get my bench built and cabinets hung. All my large pieces in place for work. I still have insulation and wiring to do but its closer than I was just a few weeks ago. So I am racing against the weather to pull forms, and back fill. Funny how quickly summer slipped by.
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O joy a Wedding!
Posted:Oct 20, 2013 5:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2013 7:42 am
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No not mine, lol. I have been really tied up lately so I thought I would post a rant over my weekend activity. I went to a friend's childs wedding. Ok I am divorced. This may color my views some. Why is it that people in general get so stupid over weddings? Please do not use the word tradition here without explaining why. So years ago when I got married, I refused a best man. I never had a party. I had no desire to get drug into a strip bar. I understood the "facts of Life" so no buddy had to explain that to me. The Gazebo was small and space was limited. Folks easily seated themselves with some family members helping. The rings sat on a small table behind the Pastor. Any time I objected to costs or something else I was told , well its the Brides day. REALLY, I thought when you got married it was the man and woman coming together? I can see a maid of honor and a best man, but the rest of the leeches hanging around up there? Everyone knows the bridesmaids always have to wear the uglist dresses or colors to make the Bride look better.

So The Groom and rest of the guys come in the front of the church, no one cares. No one stands nor do they get to come up the Aisle. No music, nothing. Suddenly when the bridesmaids come in, everyone is suppose to turn around and watch them come in. Then when the Bride comes in everyone stands? What makes her so special? Oh yeah she is getting married. I thought the guy up front waiting for her is getting married today too?? Talk about sexist. Not that I go to that many weddings, but I refuse to turn around to watch the bridesmaids come in. I also refuse to stand for the Bride.

As the role of women and men has changed and with that Marriage why are we so stuck in the past? Any wonder why men feel less inclined toward marriage? Any wonder why men often do not feel the commitment durning the Marriage? Or are we really telling guys they are second rate citizens. Anyone guy that has went through a divorce can tell you the answer to that one. If we truly are seeking marriage that is a commitment of both parties with shared responsabilty then why do we allow this to go on?

Anyone care to share??
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A womans touch
Posted:Jul 11, 2013 11:11 pm
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2013 12:04 pm
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Been reading alot of womens blogs lately. My mind has been rather preoccupied with all my things going on. However it did occur to me how I noticed one thread missing. Touch, just the act of simple touch. What power it has. I find for myself that it can be better than a blow job. It can get me very hard and ready to play. Not sure if other men have the same experience or not. How about you ladies? How important is touch to you?
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Is there a reason for all this crap???
Posted:Jun 10, 2013 10:57 pm
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2013 11:42 am
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So Friday was the big day, the Dr. took a scope and looked inside of me, via my penis. I have a health bouncing bladder with some prostate blockage. Everything looks very good and NO CANCER! Yea, but OMG did having that done hurt like hell! Thank God the nurses had some humor or I would have been toast.

However still waiting on the lawyer to get his act together so that I can start working on my relatives estate. I never knew there was so much to do. I think I am working to much and becoming boring. Hmmm what to do?
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Moving on
Posted:May 23, 2013 12:45 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2013 10:17 pm
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Despite being under the weather I am still putting my garden in. I am about half way done and have sweet corn, lima beans, green beans, cabbage, melons, onions, and squash in so far. I need to tuck in a few tomatoes and Sun Flowers tomarrow. Then up to my show garden. This will have more beans and tomatoes. But it will also have some different stuff too.

My Garden and growing has been important in my life and I hope will be part of it for years to come. I was out walking in the moon light tonight and making bigger plans for the near future.

Anyone else garden on here? What do you find pleasing about it?
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Here is the topic for FriendFinder-x!
Posted:May 19, 2013 9:45 pm
Last Updated:May 31, 2013 11:28 am
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Boobies and dicks! Until a few days ago I would have thought they had nothing in common. So I find out that breast cancer and prostate cancer is almost the same cancer. So to start off, it appears that I do not have prostate cancer. This is the news I have been waiting on for several weeks.

But my meeting with the Doc was very interesting. So guys pay attention here. In the next couple of years they will have a genetic screening test for the prostate cancer gene. Several of the breast cancer treatments are showing alot of promise in also treating Prostate cancer. So My Doc also told me there are 5 things every guy can do to lower his risk. Unless you are allergic to any of these items. As always talk to your Dr. first.

1 Take a baby asprin a day

2 eat tomatoes

3 take 400 IU of vitamin E daily

4 Take selenium

5 eat broccoli once a week.

Thats it! seems easy enough. Now if I can get over this crud I have now.
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What could be next?
Posted:Apr 23, 2013 10:19 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2013 11:03 pm
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As I am cleaning up after the death of a family member comes more shocking news. My Dr. thinks I may have cancer. I am waiting to go in and see a specialist in a couple of weeks.
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Been awhile
Posted:Mar 27, 2013 1:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2013 8:26 am
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It has been awhile since I have posted much. I recently lost a family member and I am dealing with the aftermath. Just trying to organize and get ride of things. I am sorry, but you may have to wait for a few weeks.
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A little odd question.
Posted:Mar 5, 2013 12:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 9, 2013 11:48 pm
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For those that actually know me this is gonna seem really odd. I have this friend that met a woman on Craig's List. They chatted some then she sent him pictures. From what he said they were pretty hot. There was nudity, not sure about anything else. So he asks to meet her. She says yes, then tells him that she has this fantasy. So he asks her what it is. Her reply is to be paided for sex. So he asks me, what should he do?

So I tell him find out how much, then set it up that he "pays" her then she buys dinner later. I thought case closed. He asks she replies its her money if she gets it. Mean while she is sending him all kind of pictures and messages. I did find out she never would name a price, told my friend to make an offer. So something here just did not pass the sniff test. So I tell him, maybe you are getting set up here. You show up and are going to get robbed or this is a police sting. So my advice, meet in public for coffee and ask if she is a cop. Well he did, now he has heard nothing from her and I am to blame. Was I wrong giving this advice? I thought it was the best at the time.
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