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Ramblings of a middle aged man
 
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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Why is it.....
Posted:Feb 26, 2013 10:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2013 10:47 pm
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Women laugh at a guy with three inches of dick but freak out over 3 inches of snow?
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sorry folks
Posted:Feb 11, 2013 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2013 10:55 pm
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I have had alot on my table here lately. My Mom, the house, some Issues with a board I sit on and working on the house. It just never seems to end. I hope to be to blogging soon.
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Oh joy another stuper bowl!
Posted:Feb 3, 2013 9:56 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2013 11:16 pm
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Well as most of the rest of the Country stands or sits watching the end of yet another Football season, I will be off doing my thing. Which will be shopping and working around here. For me its a great day, no phone calls, just peace.

I still do not understand what forces brings people together. Lets face it alot of people say "Well my team is not in it this year". Some say they just tune in for the commercials. I understand the part of gathering with friends. But over teams you could care less about? Sadly it does appear this sports thing is just not linked to the Male chromosome as women are coming down with it too.

Guys do not try to explain this to me. I could care less about grown people sitting and wasting their time week after week on something that matters shit.
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Oh so bring it on....
Posted:Jan 25, 2013 1:46 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2013 11:11 pm
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So I made this choice to walk away from a group I belonged to for several years. I put up a post on another site regarding some additional learning. So this person posts some smart ass reply. I reply back and he starts babbling. It appears this back stabbing bully can say what he wants to, but you can not respond back. He wants me to come to his place and tell him off. Ya right... and they wonder why I am leaving for greener pastures?

This guy can and probably will kick my ass. Not the first time in my life I have been beaten. I never learned much in High School. I did learn that you can never placate a bully or abuser. You back down they just step closer. Not that I am advocating physical violence here. But there does come a point when the line needs to be drawn. One needs to stand up verbally for one self. So its my time, so bring it on.......
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I just do not remember it like that
Posted:Jan 24, 2013 10:38 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2013 11:10 pm
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That is turning 40. I went and saw, This is 40. First off it was ok. Some funny parts but not alot of thoughtful meat to chew on. Not to give away the movie but its about a couple. She turns 40 but refuses to admit it then the show drifts away about the age thing and goes into family issues. So for those of you that have hit 40, was it a big deal? For me 50 was much more of a big deal. Still there comes a time in our lives that the truth starts to soak in. We are not young anymore and we are going down hill. I try to keep doing things. My Grandfather told me, that if you stop learning you are dead. Well I am trying not to be dead, lol.
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A formal goodbye
Posted:Jan 7, 2013 12:40 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2013 11:19 pm
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back a couple of weeks ago I shared that my Botany Prof had passed away. Well this weekend was the offical service for him. It was interesting to hear from others. I was stuck by how we remember people like snap shots. or in short Video clips. Moments of laughter, surprise, wonder whatever life tossed at us. Many people spoke about his interests in many things. He spanned the most learned to the common guy.

It is a rarity to find someone that meant so much to so many. A person that affected real change. As I was driving away from the service it occurred to me that now it was our time to pick up and continue his work. What better memory than to continue what he started? For one is never gone till they are forgotten.
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Of all the places!
Posted:Jan 1, 2013 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2013 11:29 pm
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So last night I get invited out for New Years. When the clock struck midnight I was in a Casino surrounded by strange people. Kinda like being on FriendFinder-x. So after giving it some thought it occurred to me Life is like a Casino. How many times are we looking more at the lights and noise and less at what we should be watching? We all go out into the world every day and take our chances. We lose, win and draw all the time. Some come in with a lot of money others not so much. Its how you leave that says more about you.

Happy New Year, may all your wishes come true this year.
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Post Christmas
Posted:Dec 27, 2012 12:02 pm
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2012 11:13 pm
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Anyone else get shafted out there? I have worked on being bad all year. Of course a little extra help would have been nice, lol. Any how I was expecting a lot of coal this year. That fat dude in the red suit didn't bring me even one lump! What the hell!
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A simpler time
Posted:Dec 22, 2012 10:44 pm
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2012 11:16 pm
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When I was a I remember Christmas with great joy. It was a time of lights, parties, cookies and joy. It was a special time, you could just feel it. With a couple of bucks in your pocket, from Dad, you went out and looked for the best gift for others. At the end if you were short a dollar or change, Mom or Dad seemed just to have that. Christmas mourning was maybe the best day of the whole year!. Then I got older. Christmas took on more a Religous meaning. The gifts just were more of a hassle. Some where along the line, I think about the third or forth year in retail, the holiday lost all meaning. I think it was just feeling like people just were unhappy and tired. It was all just a huge chore. Of course being screamed at because you ran out of blue mini lights or red bulb lights and you personally had just destroyed Christmas for that person, took a lot out of the season too.

So what changed? I guess after my divorce not seeing my . That you have to top last year, with more. My ex telling me how little I spent on her. Even though she got everything on her list. She had kept track of all the sales and knew close to what I had spent. I just gave up, gave in. I was tired of the yelling, pushing screaming and pressure. So I walked away.

Then back a few years ago, a man I knew was killed at a street corner collecting money. money for Coats and hats for . It took a couple of years but one year sitting waiting for a light at the very corner he died at this thought popped in my head. Greater love was shown by he who gave his life for those he did not know.

I have a friend that is broke. The holidays are such a strain on her. So now for several years I go and buy gifts for the family. They say I get the best stuff. Two years ago after I got flashlights for everyone as stocking stuffers, they got the lights turned off for non payment. We go out looking at lights and just enjoy our time together. It is nice to sit back and watch as they open packages. The real joy is giving. What I get back is the feeling of giving a little something to someone else.

In the back of my closet I have this box. inside there is a Christmas ornament. It was specially made with my daughters name on it. I got it back a couple of years ago. It sets there until maybe someday she sees me or one day I am gone and she gets it then. Maybe it will bring back memories of a simpler time for her.

Happy Holidays, to all.
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goodbye to a teacher and friend
Posted:Dec 17, 2012 11:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2012 11:46 pm
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Sad news in the house today as I have learned that my Biology teacher and friend crossed over on Saturday. What can I say about this wonderful man? He was a bit perplexing at first. He had a different teaching style. One that I would come to like and appreciate. He was truly a man of the world, traveling about seeing things. He was my Botany and ecology Prof, along with my adviser.

The adventures we had. Wading through chest high water and finding a fresh rattlesnake shed. Being hung by my legs off a Cliff to scrape some moss off the rocks. Hiking all over Southern Ohio, the Smokies, parts of Mich. He was just as interested in animals as the plant life.

Of course his dry sense of humor was never far. I being the source of some of it. He was an artist at one time, living in New York City. He was a published Poet. He also did stunt work at one time too.

He was a great teacher above all. He gave us these take home tests. 4 or five questions long. It sounds easy, but the questions were very detailed and he expected perfection, along with a dash of you filling in the blanks of what he did not cover. A single question would take 4 to 8 pages to cover. He really wanted to see how much you learned and could apply.

Even after college I still worked with him. Learning more and over the years started to teach him a thing or two. It felt good to feel that the circle that had started that fall day in 1981 had come back so that I could give something back to him.

I will see you some day friend. Help me to remember what you taught me.
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This time of year
Posted:Dec 11, 2012 1:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2012 11:04 pm
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Not sure if I can explain this. Does something just feel strange, out of place right now. I thought maybe at the end of the Elections that feeling would settle down, Instead I have this feeling that something is just below the surface. Just this feeling of dread. Not so much one of doom, just something bad right around the corner. I have my ideas what this might be, but for right now I will keep them to myself.

Anyone else feel this?
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Catch up
Posted:Dec 4, 2012 11:46 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:28 am
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Been busy with the house. Shelved the front Storm door for right now needs to much shimming and cutting. So instead I have been cleaning up and getting interior doors fixed. Had lights put up in the attic the other day. Now I can see up there! Still alot to do, just only so much time......
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what the hell is wrong with Michigan People?
Posted:Nov 26, 2012 10:10 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2012 11:59 am
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I am a friendly guy often looking to chat on IM. So why are Mich people as a general rule so rude? It amazes me the times that people north of the border have stated they do not talk to Ohio people. It is a freaking state border! It is not a national border, for goodness sake! Do you feel upset at the recent game loss, or inferior to Ohio in some way?

This is just so sad, and for no reason.
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