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Ramblings of a middle aged man
 
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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Posted:Aug 28, 2012 11:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2012 11:43 pm
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This is my 100 post. Thanks to all that read and comment, AT least I know there are some other great minds out there, lol. So what have I not talked about that you would like to see?
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With A giant leap of faith
Posted:Aug 28, 2012 11:54 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2012 9:40 am
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Anyone else notice anything weird in the past couple of days? I would have thought Flags would have been at half staff. You know for Neil Armstrong. I guess the prez must be to busy campaigning, or maybe he is back off on Vacation. This is riduclous! We go out of our way for the Movie theater victums in Colorado. The first man on the moon gets no mention. Obama is a freakin JOKE!
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Thats one small step for a man...
Posted:Aug 27, 2012 1:08 am
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2012 10:44 am
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Seems hard to believe that the man who uttered those words is gone. Neil Armstrong dies at 82. We talk about courage and being brave. In my mind this defines it. Stop and think about this. There was no backup rescue plan if something happened. The Eagle may have landed in a rocky place. Rocks could have tipped over the lunar lander. Instead Mr. Armstrong took over and flew the lander by himself, almost running out of fuel. I remember watching and looking at the Moon every night they were there. Not really expecting to see anything, just looking in wonder meant.

Armstrong had a pilots licsence before he could drive. He learned to fly on a Piper Cub. The Plane is in his hometown Museam. He never showed up at most big public events. He was a private man. He taught some and ran different companies over time. Some did question his lack of public exposer. I think he was a humble man that did the Job he was given and got back home. So to my fellow Ohioan and hero, hats off. Now Neil takes that last giant leap into the great beyond. God speed Neil, we miss you more than perhaps you knew.
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Would you like another shoe?
Posted:Aug 21, 2012 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2012 10:25 am
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So this guy Akin running for a seat in Missori opens up his mouth about the other day. A woman can stop from getting pregnant by willing it? WTF, this dude has been watching way to much Star Wars. Come on this is not some Jedi Mind trick. One second thought perhaps he is really into Dune and thinks woman have this amazing Bene Gesserit body control. Either way what the hell was he thinking?

So he goes on TV and offers an apology. His opponent wants him to quit, of course she is a Democrat. Most of his party is screaming for him to quit. Funny if a Democrat said the same thing they would not be forced to quit. They would say that the people should decide. I agree, let the people decide not others outside.

I do not agree with his statement. However I do agree with freedom of speach. You have the right to say about anything you want. But then you are responsable for what you say. You are free to show others your ignorance or brillance.

Another heaping helping of crow Mr. Akins?
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So life after Divorce
Posted:Aug 21, 2012 12:10 am
Last Updated:Aug 23, 2012 11:17 pm
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Funny how everyone thinks because you are Divorced you hate women and you are just dying to get hitched again. It is shocking how many guys have asked me how bad I hate women? My reply is that one woman screwed me over, does that mean every woman should pay for her? Interesting the looks I get. Most often this confused expression. Then they ask me so are you getting married again soon?

Maybe I am missing something here. Why if you hate women, would you be in a rush to remarry? You just looking for easy sex and a hot meal? Sorry I expected my marriage to be more than just that. I mean if at first you doun't succeed, try try again is great. HOWERVER maybe one needs to step back and reflect on what went wroung. Its amazing how many people just dive right back in. True some find a real keeper the second time around. Some correct past mistakes and have a better second chance. But many are just as unhappy the second time as the first.

I just really at this point do not think I will ever remarry. Could that change, maybe. I am not actively looking that way. I have nothing against marriege in general. I have many friends that are happy in their marriages. I also have single friends too.

I just know now that marriage is not a Happy ever after for everyone. You can be married and be lonely. You can have a sexless marriage and just be frustrated. You can be so wrapped up in lies that you feel you never will see the light.

For years I heard stories from guys and divorces. Many were from guys that had cheated on their wifes. I thought, well they got what they deserved for cheating. I thought that things were equal. Instead I found out that even when I did everything right, followed all the rules, filled out all the paperwork, provided everything, often many times over, and showed up in Court, all I was treated as was a cash machine. I am over charged for my support by the County. I point this out, I am told I am greedy. Years of scrapping by, while my ex buys not one but three horses.

This is my personal problem with Marriage. It rewards the woman and punishes the man. In a couple of weeks I will go to a wedding. I will wish them the best and truely mean it. I have nothing against marriage. Its just no longer for me.
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Between a rock....
Posted:Aug 15, 2012 12:39 pm
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2012 7:54 am
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Well the season of strangeness must be here. So in the past few months I have noticed all kind of weird things going on. First I get hit up for money, no repayement, just give me cash, then some home repairs. Now I get referred to as a slut. Not once but several times in the past couple of months. If I am a male on FriendFinder-x then I am cheap, easy and just looking for one night sex. I was invited to a M&G and backed out. I just have not being feeling all that well and need to get my health checked out. This is how I operate, no need spreading anything, flu, colds, STDs or UTI to others at a party. Instead of being told, hope you feel better or hope everything checks out ok, I get smacked down! Made to feel like dirt and some kind of no call no show person.

I know lots of women complain about guys not reading their profiles. It is becoming clear that alot of woman are not reading profiles either. When I put in my profile that its about doing things together, a walk in the park, or wine and sushi that does not mean this is some sort of wham bang, I am out of here sexual interaction. Or is there something here I am missing.

Perhaps I am wroung, but I thought this was a place to meet people that were interested in their sexual sides. To be open and honest about themselves. I may not be looking for what you are, but at least we can be open about it from the start rather than hiding it in some closet like you are forced to do on other sites.

Some how throwing all the guys under the bus seems a waste..... and we wonder why this site is going down the drain?
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Its here!
Posted:Aug 12, 2012 11:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2012 10:08 pm
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The Olympics! what the hell 14 days of non stop every sport you do not give a shit about. All rebroad casted to drive you nuts. How many hours of this shit can you watch and stay sane? Then there is this Gabby the flying squirrel thing. Notice how the Black girl gets some put down name, the flying squirrel? If she was white it would have been Gabby the graceful Swan. I would have kicked the first dude in the nuts that called me that.

I really think that any Country in the world that wanted to invade us would wait till the Olympics are on. I can see it now, America is being invaded, we will have more right after the 100 and 200 mens run. Lets see every 4 years right before a Presidental Election. Well thats one way to take the Peoples eye off the News. Information? Forget about that we could not squeeze in all the Olympic news as it was. All that matters is the medal count. The world is burning around our feet, but whats the Medal count.

So sad and people ask why I hate sports.
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A huge interests
Posted:Aug 6, 2012 11:38 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2012 10:31 am
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I saw on another blog, things people do not know about you. I am very interested in Bigfoot. It seems that I live in a Bigfoot free area of Ohio. Well its just all flat. North of me in Monroe County Mich I see a couple of sightings, those are most likely UM fans, after a night of drinking.

Recently I saw a reaport from one place I know very well. Fort Hill in Highland county Ohio. I use to have a Farm down there, the ex got it in the divorce, not to far from Fort Hill. I did work down around the corner from there a couple of dozen years ago. Seems strange to think of Bigfoot there. Maybe they lost the lease to a better spot and got kicked out. You know how falling home prices have hit everyone.

I was watching the show on Animal Planet, Finding Bigfoot. The first time I heard knocking I thought, I have heard that sitting in a tree stand on the farm, but way down the Valley. So did I hear one or was it someone else making noiser far away? Hard to say. My question is what would you do if you saw one?
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Feet in two places
Posted:Aug 1, 2012 11:40 pm
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2012 10:38 pm
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I was chatting with a woman on here the other night. We started to talk abouit feeling like you have two sides of yourself. One a G rated the other R or X depending what you are after. We both agreed that it feels like living in two worlds at times.

So does anyone else feel this way too? I want to be honest with people. I read a funny joke on here I say someone sent it to me. People start to talk about sexual topics I try to correct misinformation to a point and say that others have told me things.

Not sure what stops me from just saying I am on here. Fear? shame? Privacy? I think a little of all those. I just like my life to be my life. It does make me feel like I have feet planted in two places.
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ISP problems
Posted:Jul 20, 2012 7:50 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 7:50 am
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Maybe off for awhile due to some issues between me and my provider. See ya all later!
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So you only see others in State?
Posted:Jul 20, 2012 12:20 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2012 11:38 am
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Someone explain this to me. I have over the years met others on here. However it seems like Miochigan people have something against Ohio people. I tried chatting the other day with A woman that was a whole 30 miles from me! Sorry you live in Ohio, was the reply. Come on I've got my passport. Believe it or not I have been across the border before even all the way through the State to Canada. I think I can even hum a couple of bars of the Michigan fight song.

Really 30 miles away and you refuse to chat because I am across a state line. Another reason this site does not work. So just wondering anyone ever have this experience with other states?
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The whole problem with Sports
Posted:Jul 15, 2012 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2012 10:49 pm
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I do not follow sports, I refuse to let them rule my life. Now that is out in the open, lets talk about Penn State. The recent reaport back from the first investigation of the Sandusky affair has come out. This is a sad comment on the state of sports today. This entire win at any costs mentality has got to stop. The reaport states that several high ranking people knew this was going on, yet none stepped forward. Why mess up a good program?

Major universities get big money for Bowl games and from Alumni after winning seasons. So the pressure is on to hide these things. But this was not a one time thing, this was destroying young mens lives. This is far above behavior that should be allowed. There is no excuse for this at all.

So what to do? Well a great start would be to have removed all things Paterno. Second everyone that knew, ex presidents, coachs, trustees, should all have jail time and BE FIRED. Thats rights not be allowed to resign and keep benefits, be flat out fired. I think ever cent Paterno made durning this sad history be taken from his family and given to the real victums. I think PennState should loss their football program for as long as the abuse was allowed to occur. In fact If my was going there they would be gone. There is no punishment too great for this type of scumbag behavior.

Maybe the NCAA will also make Penn melt down the statues and trophies to cast into one statue. That of Sandusky giving it to Papa Joe in the ass, just like these people allowed Jerry to give it to the whole program. Seems fitting, what do you think?
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Does my forehead have writing on it?
Posted:Jul 12, 2012 1:10 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2012 11:48 am
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How the hell do these people find me? I digress, sorry, here goes I meet a woman about 2 years ago. We chatted some, talked over the phone. Seemed ok, then one night she calls me. She wants a little loving. Long story short I went over to her place, a fight had broken out between her roomate and her. Goodbye evening, got a raincheck. So flash forward, I have chatted briefly a couple of times over the last couple of years. Never have met again. So tonight I get this message on my phone, are you in Toledo? I think damm, she wants to meet and I am at work. I tell her I am working. She texts back she needs a favor, like a couple of hundred dollar favor. What the hell I do not even know this person and she is hitting me up

What the hell, do I have sucker on my forehead? I like people that have some balls, but this takes the cake.
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