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Ramblings of a middle aged man
 
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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So this is summer?
Posted:Jul 10, 2012 1:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2012 8:53 am
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Hot as hell, storms all over, which have missed me so far. I thought maybe it would be interesting. So far nothing new, that goes sexually too. I have been doing yard work for one friend. Cutting up a tree that fell next to her house durning a recent storm. Just came back from Michigan and spent a day tossing firewood, fixing a swing and installing an AC unit. On the radar is installing two fences, pruning work, painting and guard rail instalation. Thats not even at my place!

So recently one of my favorite things to do has left a bitter taste in my mouth. Seems like all the farther I can go with this group is offical flunky, common worker. Not that I have anything against doing some honest work. Just gets tried that I feel thats all that I will ever get from these people. Mean while others who have rarely lifted a finger seem to get showered with perks, pleasure and respect. So I am thinking of boycotting the local event this year. Let someone else do some work. I harbor no thoughts that this will get everyone to take notice. Some will be too drunk, to self absorbed to even look around. It may dawn on 2 or 3 people. Just enough for a question down the line.

I do love what I do for fun. I work hard at it, try to learn what I can about it then help others to experience it. So for me not to go, is really hard for me. But being used as a door mat is hard too! I have done the dirty work and the hot work for several years now. I see people half my age that have done almost no work get to have all the fun. It is just to much for me to take right now. Maybe backing off for this year will increase my desire for next year. Sometimes you do need a break, maybe this is my time.

UPDATE 17 July 2012
First off I was not talking about sex! I had two friends from on herev ask me that question. Sex is passion but not that passion. This is my other thing I love to do, sorry can not say what that is. So I missed the show. Felt kinda good, of course no body called. Instead I got some of my other stuff done. Maybe I need to try this for the rest or the summer!
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starts with a kiss
Posted:Jul 3, 2012 9:51 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2012 11:06 pm
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The other day I got thinking about the simple act of the kiss. Funny how many different roles a kiss can take. From the kiss goodnight for a to the full blow kiss of passion. So what makes us great kissers? Are we born into it? I never had a class but yet I have been told I am a great kisser. Maybe it was follow the leader. You know, you do what the other person does.

I do think guys are not as aroused by kissing as women. Still I do think its the most unrated part of foreplay. Or durning play! or after play, well hell anytime!

So I am interested, what do you think of kissing?
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My pic
Posted:Jun 27, 2012 8:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 19, 2012 10:51 pm
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Seemed so simple of an idea. Put up one body shot, slightly racy but in good tastes. I do have my little crowd that stops by and looks at it, to bad they are not local. Seems like the Homosexual crowd is always hitting on me. Then there are some of the comments over the past couple of months, can you shave all that off? WHAT, I thought it was just a joke at first, but several woman have told me I am too hairy to meet! I get the shave and grooming part for down below. But really you want the whole body too?

So I am thinking maybe I need a new picture. So what should I take? My legs are hairless, My butt or something else? Weight in I would like your input.
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Happy Fathers day
Posted:Jun 17, 2012 7:55 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2024 3:37 am
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To all the guys and single Moms without a dad, happy Fathers day. Being a Dad is one of the most thankless jobs out there. Often it means doing work that wrecks our bodies in order to provide for our families and .

Just because you were the sperm donor to your does not make you a Dad. So what is a Dad? You protect your , you also allow your to take chances to grow and learn. You are the Bad guy when Mom says "wait till your Father gets home". You rough house, you teach being tough. Dad fixes your tree house, bike then later the Car. Dad usally has the adventure trips the fun stuff. Dad gets you up and outside.

Dad is usally the one person that when they are gone, we wished we had spent more time with.
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Do you want to know why FriendFinder-x is not working?
Posted:Jun 16, 2012 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2012 12:16 am
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There are a lot of reasons but its time to take off the gloves and state the really big reason. The woman on here. Yup its the ladies on here. I have never seen a more liberated bunch of woman think that the men owe them everything on here. I have seen posts on here slamming men for being cheap. All because they do not have a gold membership, all the while the very woman is a standard member herself. Ever stop and think that we all are not made out of money? We save some on here its more to spend on you.

I understand how rude the men can be on here, I get the "wanna bj" all the time on here. It just seems that if you are polite you get used as a door mat. Then you have to love the IM conversations when in the middle of the conversation a lady just signs off. Ok so I didn't get to the wanna run over and bang you fast enough?

So the solution? Well its up to you. If you want the nicer guys to win, then look for them. We are here it just can not be us that are only looking for you. Fill out your profiles! I do not like seeing prefer not to say on every answer. You like sex, great then say so. You want a date then stop putting some sexy title or racy pictures up and moan over what response you get. You women have the power to make this site work better, nowe its time you step up.

My two cents worth......
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Thing that make you go...... What the hell!
Posted:Jun 12, 2012 7:04 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2012 9:15 am
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So I go into Myers the other night. Just trying to run in and out. I was short some cherries for canning. So here I am waiting for two women in frount of me picking out cherries. The one woman is letting her two help her. She is explaining how she picks out the best bag. The other woman is just busy. Then I see why. She is dumping bags out and picking out certain cheeries. Then only filling her bags half full. My mental list of things to do just flew out my mental window. WTF! Now we are not talking about some white trash here, she was dressed nicely in here mid to upper 50s. So she looks around really quick then leaves. Now the cherries are all bagged with no extra bags around. There are loose cherries all over in the bins.

Well I did something I normal do not do. I went over and asked her if I could come over and shit on her door step. You live like this at home, I bet you do not! I was on her like White on rice! Something just snapped. She just seemed shocked until I said I was reporting her to the store, maybe they would pitch her out onto her dead head. Thats when she started to move, she stammered about not calling the store. I went over got my cherries and left. As I walkerd out the door, she was still putting cherriers into bags.

What is it about people today? Its way past just some punk doing dumb things, it has now creeped into people of all colors and ages doing dumb things. Have we become so self absorbed that we no longer think of others?
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Now what is a slut?
Posted:Jun 4, 2012 7:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2012 9:16 am
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Guess this has been simmering in the back of my mind for the past week. I have alway found it interesting how if a guy sleeps around, well he is a stud. No down side or negitive words there. However if a woman does the same thing, she is a slut or , easy, sleazy, skank and so forth. What gives here? So are we to allow men as much experience as they want and women nothing? Perhaps its deeper yet. Men just do not want to be compaired to others for fear they would not measure up to others. I think alot of that shows on here when couples only want women.

I understand that men want good women on the outside with wild sex inside the bedroom. But honestly guys how does a woman get that kind of experience? It does seem like society is freeing woman more for sexual expression. We now seem to want MILFS and cougers to show us how sex can be. But yet this stigma stills hangs around. I almost feel at times women continue this name calling more than the men.

All this seems a bit bizarre coming from a sex site. As always I would love to hear what you all think.
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ENOUGH with the slut thing
Posted:May 30, 2012 8:35 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2012 10:26 pm
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I hope I do not need to rehash the present debate about people being placed on the Fuck a slut site. As a man I am pretty upset about this whole thing. Anyone that has read my post knows that I want to go out and do other things. Sex is great but it needs to be part of the larger package. I have never been one to see how many women I could bed.

My feelings too about any other sites out there like grab a girl, nail a chick or what ever marketing names they use! I want a woman. A real live woman, not a girl! This is not what I signed up for nor what I seek. So how does a place like FriendFinder-x justify doing this? I know a couple that got booted for using proper anatomical terms to answer a question. Meanwhile its ok to throw all the woman on here into the slut category. Now the lastest wrinkle, try to turn off your profile on the fuck a slut site and it turns it off here.

For some time it has appeared that this site has been getting less active. Perhaps as the powers that be, have diluted our profiles with other sites, this is the end effect. One has to wonder, is this why woman get treated so poorly? Some guy is on Fuck a Slut and thinks that she is easy and can say whatever he wants, not really knowing this is not what she signed up for?

So what now? Well for starters I saw a great post where someone suggested putting in your profile something about being only on FriendFinder-x. Great idea! Next write, flood em with complaints. I know you just get back some can message crap, but its the thought that counts. By this time I know some guy out there is reading this thinking, big deal it doesn't affect me. It does because if you chase the woman away from the site then down goes your chances of meeting someone. Besides I really do not want to find a new site called Mash a man with my picture on it!
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A question for Veterans
Posted:May 28, 2012 8:41 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2012 7:15 am
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So at your age, if your Country needed you would go back into any branch of the Service? Why or why not? I would like a few replies before I answer.

To all that have or are serving thank you. To those that gave all may your loss be our constent reminder that freedom is not free.
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So easy even a Caveman can do it
Posted:May 27, 2012 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2012 3:03 pm
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So I see guys on here complaining all the time about never finding anyone. As a standard member I have struggled over the years. So in the interest of other men on here I offer the following advice. 1 have a profile, fill it out. 2 have a decent picture not some cock shot. 3 respond to people 4 Offer to meet like a real man. Shaving, showering and offering to meet for Coffee or lunch is not out for this site. Asking some woman to show up in some hotel room is not cool.5 Show up or shut up
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Why is Toledo so retarded?
Posted:May 17, 2012 10:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2012 10:28 pm
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Over my time here on FriendFinder-x I have had a chance to chat with and meet some nice people. Along with a couple of not so nice, so much for them. I was thinking the other day that I have talked with or met Women from Sandusky, Findlay, Fostoria, Clyde, Sylvania, Temperance, Dundee and recently Rockwood. Plot these on a map and you will notice this huge hole. The black hole of sexual death. Why are Toledo Women so opposed to talking? As often as I have sent messages or IMed, the result stays the same silence.

Maybe I am not the best looking but come on there are only so many hunks to go around. If this the case, give us other guys a chance here every once in awhile.

Can anyone tell me why Toledo Women think they are above the rest of us?
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catching up
Posted:May 16, 2012 9:42 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2012 5:51 pm
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Ok all 5 of my watchers. The foot is healing. My Mom is doing better maybe gets moved out of ICU in a day or so. Nice getting to eat out so much, hard on the wallet. maybe I can be up and cooking next week. Thanks you for all you kind comments!
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ARRRRR and thats not Pirate talk
Posted:May 12, 2012 1:40 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2012 5:44 pm
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First my Foot now my Mom is in really bad shape. Tooo much on my plate. Wish me a little luck here, please.
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