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Ramblings of a middle aged man
 
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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how do you find what you seek?
Posted:Nov 1, 2011 1:21 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 9:45 pm
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Recently I was contacted by two women. First one seemed like something would click. Second seemed filled with promise. My first one turned out to be a tease. Pity as I had promised dinner and a massage. Left me high and dry. The second seemed like she was asking the right questions, then just went spass on me. Maybe it was my charming personality.

Point being how do you really click when many on here seem like they are just here for the show? It has never been just about the sex for me. Its also about the trip getting there. It is sushi and wine, or a walk in the snow. Sitting inder a Ginko tree in the fall when the leaves all fall off at the same time. Friends watching a movie together or passing me a wrench while I work on a car. Shareing interests, exploring new things. Its working on their house or just sitting on the porch drinking a beer on a hot day.

You can find just sex on here, Join today get laided tonight! I seek something more, friends. I want co-travelers in life. Lets do something we enjoy. How can this be so hard to find?
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I thought I was the catch???
Posted:Oct 19, 2011 8:51 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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I know that this site has a bit of everything on it. However if you listen to conventional wisdom, then I should be pretty hot property. I am employed, never been to jail or prison, live by myself ( And NO not alone by myself in my parents basement or garage ) hetro and yes I do have a longer than average penis to go with that. I also can go along time and am in good shape. Well not bragging there on those last couple counts, but if that turned you on contact me, lol.

All joking aside, in a world that women walk around openly wishing for these things, I wonder, is this what they really want? Or is the end of society as we know it? Have we become so overloaded that what we mouth as our wants are just so much as that plastic wrapper you tear off and throw away from some product. That thing that makes you feel good, but what does it really do for you. It appears that Woman are now become much like guys sexually. For example in the past couple of weeks I have been trying out the IM feature on here. I have chatted with several folks. Out of the women I have been stood up by one, emailed by another how much she wanted to talk to me, but does not and asked by a couple just to drop my pants and jerk off via webcam for them.

Makes you wonder, what is todays catch?
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spinning around
Posted:Oct 11, 2011 11:22 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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Still kinda healing up from an auto crash I was in on Labor Day weekend. The last few weeks have felt crazy. Crazy because I have a ton of stuff to do and either have hurt to much or can not get to it. Then I was talking to two separt women on here. Seemed good, things were progressing and now POW, they just up and will not return messages. What is a guy to do?? Next week I am on vacation for a couple of days. I am going with a friend on a Wine tour in NE Ohio. We have about 6 to 8 places picked out. I am really looking forward to this. Our Fall color is just showing up. Should be a blast to get away and relax.
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a old memory
Posted:Aug 3, 2011 11:48 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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You call me on the Phone and seemed shocked I picked up. Why are you home? she asked? Weird work week I answered. It did not take long for you to ask for a back rub. So out I go at 11:00 at night driving over to your place. You are on the Couch, naked asleep. I start by kissing your back and neck then rubbing your back. I keep going to your neck, legs, hands, feet. Back and when you roll over I know you are awake. I finish with a kiss. I ask you if you want anything else you run your hand over my chest. I stand up and your hand rubs my Dick through my pants. I strip and dive in for a taste of you. You are delicous! I lick and use 2 fingers to excite you. Your face has that blissful look. After awhile I let you taste me then spin around and insert my self into that wetness of yours. The couch made it a bit more difficult but it was great. Slow, fast it all felt good. I needed a break you needed sleep, off I went into the night dreaming about the next time. How long will it be?
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NSA and FWB
Posted:Jul 12, 2011 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2011 10:25 am
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Well my friend Slow and easy asked that I explained a couple of more terms to all you dumb ass guys out there. Then I thought there are no dumb ass guys out there just woefully misinformed guys.
A couple of terms that pop up often are NSA and FWB. FWB stands for Friends With Benefits. This is regarding friends that have a sexual relationship along with the friendship. PLease note that I said sex is part of the friendship. So it goes without saying that the friendship comes before the sex does. This means you are friends first sex partners later.
In contrast we have NSA. This stands for No Strings Attached. This does not involve friendship or dating. This is just meeting for sex. This could be a one time meeting or more. Here both sides are not suppose to develop feelings or emotional attachments to the other person. There are no expectations of dinner or dating, in fact that is usally seen as a sign that feelings are developing.
Questions? Feel free to ask.
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Things that make you go hmmmm
Posted:Jul 8, 2011 11:31 am
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2011 10:17 am
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Should you go to a meet a woman if she tells you that she will bring the meat? Hmmmmm
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Time for the 4th
Posted:Jul 3, 2011 11:09 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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Hi all, hope you take some time out to think about our history and sometime this week read the at least one document from our founding. It is interesting what our founders were thinking.
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loss and lost
Posted:Jul 2, 2011 12:20 pm
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2011 11:57 pm
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Recently a friend of mine crossed over, passed on. We had been close at one time, drifting apart a couple of years ago. His passing has triggered a swell of feelings. Its not so much his passing, its the thoughts of others that have left me in a state of sadness. So many that I turned to for advice are. I have always been more able to friend older people more than my age. Call it having an old soul, or being on the same page. Now I feel like the a lost guy.
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Memorial Day 2011
Posted:May 30, 2011 11:17 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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Well the rain has stopped for now and the sky is clear and blue. Just reflecting on today. I hope all pause with some thoughts of today.
War is a terrible thing and should be entered into only when all else has failed. My Father in law would tell each of the grand when they would make a comment about just going in some place else and taking over. By the grace Of God I was never called into combat durning my time in the Military. I served with others that had been in combat. I had Uncles which served in WW 2 and a next door neighbor that was in the Big One (WW1). I have heard the stories of loss. I have stood looking down the Wall in DC watching my Father in law run his fingers across names. I remember a question he once asked me one Christmas eve night while making that last trip to the store. All the men that perished around me, why did I live and they did not?

I told him that maybe God had a higher calling for him. In truth does anyone know the right answer to that question? As I grow older I think that our combat Veterns want one thing. Not medals, or new cars. The chance to come home and find peace. At the end of the Movie, Saving Private Ryan, Ryan now an old Man stands in the American Cementary in Normandy France. He asks but one simple question of his Wife. Have I been a good man and lived my life well?

So to all my brothers and sisters who have served. Yes you have been good people and I wish you all happy and long lifes. Find your peace all of you.
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weekend adventure
Posted:May 22, 2011 10:58 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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So one of my friends calls me to tell me that they have a "date" to go on. Well truth be told I really like her so I do about anything for her. So she gives me the details, guys name and stuff like that. Why? For safety reasons, I call if I do not hear anything from her by a certain time. So this gentleman pays for everything. She has a wonderful Dinner, great conversation, some good wine and go back to his hotel room. Guess it went pretty well.

So she is driving home the next mourning and calls me for her safety check in. She is fine, well kinda fine. So she stops at my house for a visit. Actually more like more play time. Who am I to complain? Guess this guy hit her G spot. He was pretty good at it, pressing on it then backing off for a few seconds before pressing on it again. So with this new experience under her belt she wanted to know if I could do the same thing. We played and kissed for a bit. When I hit it, there was no mistaking it. This was all well and good, but I had developed some needs of my own. If you get my drift. So the time came for me to take care of those needs. She was laying down and I pushed her legs back againist her and slowly entered her. We found to everyones delight that this position allowed me to hit her G spot with the head of my penis. Life was good, very good. What a wild ride! It was all exciting between the moans, groans, twitching, laughter and wild look in those bright blue eyes of hers. It did not matter one bit that I could not cum. I felt at the top of the World right then. I knew that I was making her a very happy Woman! That alone was worth it.

Break time was spent naked next to one another, talking. Feeling that soft skin against mine. Then in the interest of Science we had to repeat the experiment to double check the results. Yup it worked the same again. So after some more kissing we played some more then went off to lunch. What a great day that turned out to be.
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A story
Posted:Apr 14, 2011 12:08 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 9:48 pm
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Every had a really sweet lover? The kind that you swear that you can tell that its her when the Phone rings. The ring seems different, lighter. This lover of mine calls me and tells me to come on down for a 4 oclock surprise. I get busy taking care of things and do not show up till 5. Well there goes the 4 surprise I think. To my surprise its a work list of stuff to do. Staining, fixing dry wall, hanging a light, patching old nail holes and looking at replacing a door. Well I take the door off and outside for the staining. One side done then I look at a small landscaping project around the porch, upstairs for a look at the old door, back out to flip the door for a stain coat on the other side. Then its her and I off to the hardware store. So I ask about this surprise. Patience I am told. Across town we go but just as we get to the store She turns. The traffic light was really backed up and since I arrived late, She is just getting us to the store quicker. To my surprise we pull up in frount of a Hotel. " Not a word" She says to me as she gets out of the car. We go in pick up the key and then I find out she booked this earlier in the day. So up to the room we go, you know just to check it out. What a room! A kiss then a suggestion we should make sure the bed is ok. No arguement from me. Off come the clothes on separt sides of the bed. Flesh met flesh on the center of the mattress. Hands and lips on skin. "Not to long, you have work to do". I was already hard. I put my face into her pussy and licked. It didn't take long she was wet, she was ready. I mounted her and had a wonderful time. It just never seems long enough with her. After a hour or so we get dressed and leave. Off to the store then instead of taking me back to her place, we go out to this wonderful little fushion eatier. Back to her place to check on the Door then back to the room. After a little TV, her hands started to roam across my body. I returned the favor. Soon she went back to the bed with me in tow. It was giving and recieving for both from both. We did it different ways. I tried something new when we 69ed. After licking for awhile I gently put my finger in her ass. That got a reaction! Not far just enough to be felt. I loved hearing her gasp! The best was yet to come. She wanted to be done doggie style. I told her to get a pillow in frount of her. This lover of mine has a wonderful looking ass. Its round, beautiful and a delight to behold. Someone was smiling on me that day. I grabbed hold and started off slow then just kept picking up. Faster and harder, slowing down for a moment when she came then picking right back up. For this once my problem, my inability to come, seemed a blessing. Soon a wail started, the screaming was researved for the pillow. It was play rest, play more, rest till 2 am.. After some sleep mourning found us right back at it again.

We made it down to the office right before the noon check out. Back to her place. Re hung the stained door, sanding, priming the ceiling and pruning some trees. By late afternoon she took me upstairs to her bedroom. We stripped again just so that we could cuddle. She fell asleep next to me, with her head on my shoulder, arm across my chest. What a wonderful feeling of its self. After a short nap and one more for the road, she told me that she wanted one more thing from me. I was going to come before I left. She told me to jack myself off. "I like watching guys play with themselves" So with a quick blow job from her I started. It did take awhile. The whole time she laided next to me smiling. I did come. She got up got some tissues and cleaned me up. Gently rubbing my body as she cleaned it.
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A good song always helps out doesn't?
Posted:Apr 3, 2011 10:08 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2024 2:1 am
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what a rollar coaster weekend this was. Racked my head for a song that captured hope and hope lost. Originaly done by King Crimson then by Adrian Beleuu on his solo album.
Heartbeat

I need to feel your heartbeat, heart beat
so close it feels like my own
I need to feel your heart beat heart beat
so close it feels like my own, girl

I remember the feeling of your hands in my hair
hands in my hair
I remember the rhythum, the rhythum we made, the rhythum we made
I need to spend some time,
with your heart beat, heart beat,
right next to me

repeat once more. I did this from memory so please excuse any any slight errors that may have occured.
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Part 2 Of where have all the good Men gone?
Posted:Mar 21, 2011 11:20 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2011 1:14 am
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In this part I would like to talk about the Womanizing of society. What I mean is how much woman are and have changed the work place.

First I think we need to look at the differences between Men and Women. I am not looking at the obivous physical differences. I think no one can argue that in general Men are stronger, think more along logical lines. Women are more nuturing and usally smaller. Nothing wroung with this. There are jobs that men do better in, jobs women excell in and jobs that both can do. When you lower the bar to allow people into certain jobs, then you send a message. The message is why try hard when you can get by with less effort?

We also have tilted the field to where in many places, feelings count for more than what actually happens. For example, where I work has a policy that even if you feel like you are harrased then you are harrased! Before you say nuts, think back to what the Therapist said to me, woman are about feelings. Guess who lined up first to say they felt wrounged? I am not for harrasment in the work place. I do not support it at all. It is what is passing in some cases as harrasment. We are almost to the point of being told that feelings are more important than our job.

By tilting this field toward women like behavior we are helping to create woman like behavior. Stop for a moment and think about qualites that women look for in men. For the most part they are the very things that are being driven out by Women!

Part three how the legal system has contributed to this.
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