Where have all the good Men gone?
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Posted:Mar 16, 2011 12:11 am
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2011 1:17 pm
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A friend of mine shared with me an Article from the Wall Street Journal with the same title. In the story it discussed how more women graduate from College than men. It also discussed how younger men are refusing to shoulder marriage, careers and growing up until later in life.
Sadly the article did not give much reason for any of this sad state of affairs. So allow me to offer some thoughts. First off the alarm over more women than men graduating from College is a bit over blown. After all there are more women than men. The greater crisis is the failure of Society to see the damage that was beening done to . In the past 15 years we have been told that Women can have it all and Men should feel quilty for wanting it all. Some how it has become fashionable to hang the Mill Stone of past Mens behaviors around the young men of today. As more women have raised boys on their own, the lack of good male role models have also played a role. I understand that in some cases this has happened because Dad did not want to be part of their 's life. However in many cases the Mother has done this out of spite to the Father. Even Girls benefit from having a positive male model around.
We are raising a nation of Wusses! Be honest how well do you think this country would fare today if World War two occured right now? We allow our boys to sit in frount of some video game all day. No more tinkering with the go cart or running out in the fields. I remember having chores as a . You know mowing, taking out the trash, feeding the Dog, stuff like that. It taught responabilty. Some thing sorely lacking in many boys today. Several years ago I went to a Therapist. This woman told me that in order to have a successful Marriage I had to be more like a woman. I was to stop being logical and rational and just learn to feel more. I was only to exist to pamper my Wife. Nothing against pampering the woman in my life with some special attention, but this was going tooo far. It is this kind of thought and teaching that is stripping the masculinity out of our boys.
Part two coming up.
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To dodge Valetines Day
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Posted:Feb 13, 2011 1:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2011 8:38 am
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Well went out with a friend last night for sushi. Oh was it good! I like to set at the bar and watch the Chef work. We had tempura shrimp, my friend does not like peppers or the yams with it. I got the veggies and she kindly gave me a shrimp too. The sushi was good. I even got to try something new, sea urchin. Not bad, not bad at all. Looks a little wierd. The award for best fish was Salmon. I could have ate just that. After the Japanesse dinner we stopped at an Irish pub for desert. We were told at the frount they were still serving. However the server told us they were not serving desert, so off went the visions of whiskey topping on bread pudding.
Seems odd to go out on a non romatic dinner for Valentine weekend. Back years ago I just hid on this weekend. Now I feel like, so what I am going to go out and enjoy myself. And that is what we did.
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NO MAS, please NO MAS
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Posted:Feb 6, 2011 11:26 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2011 11:02 am
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OMG where in the hell did all this snow come from? Flurries became for me about 12 inches of the white stuff. I still have not cleaned out from the last storm. The other day I shoveled the same sidewalk 4 times just to have it look the same within minutes of taking a break.
How does anyone else feel about all this white stuff?
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Swinging and FriendFinder-x, rules of the road for newbies
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Posted:Jan 31, 2011 12:26 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 9:51 pm
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Over a period of time I have noticed on blogs and in the advice line comments, usally from women regarding mens behavior on here. I am certainly no living legion in the swinging world! But here is what my exposure to that has taught me. This should be helpful to newbies.
As it was explained to me there are rules to doing most anything. Even though you may not try swinging or be interested in it, many of the rules from that are applicable to success on this site. If you think that rules are not important, think what would happen if you drove on the wroung side of the road?
Rule number One; NO means NO! This is probably the biggest one. If you get no for an answer, move on. If you get an explanation, listen to it. For example if you see a woman that is part of a couple, it usally means that she does not play alone. Most often the husband likes to be part of sharing his wife. No matter how much you argue with the person, you are not going to change their mind. In fact there are ways to block you on here. Another example, when I first joined I sent out a number of messages to women that caught my eye. One local lady kindly wrote back to me saying that we would not be a good match. In my haste I had overlooked her body type which went against what I was looking for. No amount of badgering or arguing would change that. Say thanks and move on.
Which leads me to rule number Two; Act like a decent person! If you are wroung admit it! Some words are best left in the bedroom. In the lifestyle the word play is used instead of f***. Much more class. Contribute, ask if you need to bring something. You are responsable for your own sexually protection. Acting like a will earn you no respect.
Funny that leads me to rule number Three. Respect the people around you! Guys just because some lady from here talks to you or agrees to meet you it does not mean she is easy or sleezy. When you do not respect others, you do not get invites to come back.
Rule number four, most parties are for socializing. As a single person going to a swingers you may not even get asked to join in. Same thing with meeting others on here. You may meet but put your ideas of scoring on hold. Take a bit of time to talk, you may not like what you hear and decide its just best to go separt ways.
Rule number five, is this a good one! If you set a meeting call if you can not make it! This can become a real deal breaker to giving you a second chance. Car breaks down, call as soon as you can. Boss forces you to work over time? Call as soon as possible. This goes back to rule number three. Respect the people you are meeting.
Rule number six, what are the local rules? Same here, what are your partners rules? Some may be, no kissing, protection only, no oral, no spanking, no anal, hair pulling, no drugs, 420 friendly, I could go on you get the idea. A couple of minutes of honest conversation goes a long way.
That pretty much sums up those rules. Now those are not too hard are they?? If I may I would like to close with a couple of more things. I am not hugely endowed. I know that there are men on here that are. Just because you are, do not think this alone will allow you to score with every woman on here. As a Lady friend of mine once told me, "its not the size of the wand its how much magic thats in it". Also for everyones safety meet at some place public for your first time. If the person you are meeting turns out to be a bit wierd, you can safely walk out of there and no one knows where you live.
I hope this helps, play safe and have fun!
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Just not cranking over
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Posted:Jan 23, 2011 9:15 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2011 8:24 am
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This cold spell has really put a big dampner on my activity. Just seems like I can sleep for half the day, putter around, watch TV and get so little done. I actually have several projects to do.
I have noticed that lots of interesting people have been checking me out lately. Seems like this cold and snow has some benefits. So is it me or just the time of year? Do we start to get that cabin fever itch this time of year? Or is it something deeper, more biological that starts to drive us? I remember reading back a couple of years ago how much birth rates go up 9 months after big storms and power outages. If you can't log in to FriendFinder-x, you gotta have fun some how, lol. So is this what is going on here or something else?
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A little good clean.......lawsuit?
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Posted:Jan 21, 2011 11:12 am
Last Updated:Jan 27, 2011 12:02 pm
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I just saw a link to a video that was making its rounds last week. Seems that I am just now catching up, Hey the kerosene tank on my Computer was low and I just could not bring myself to walking barefoot through 2 miles of snow to get some more. I digress, this woman texting falls over a wall and into a Mall fountain. Mildly funny no matter what angle it is played back at.
It amazes me how this woman thinks it has hurt her pride. I curled up for days. Hmmm wonder if she did the same thing when she stole money from another woman and was caught. In fact it seems that this woman has never repaided the other woman yet. Sure smells like a money grab to me.
What should be the real message here? When you are walking or driving put the freaking phone down!
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Looks like house work time
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Posted:Jan 5, 2011 12:04 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 5:58 am
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Ok I am looking to get a bunch of things done around the house this winter. I found the perfect odd sized interior Door this fall at a local lumber store for the amazing price of $25.00. Right now I am staining it and getting it ready for hanging. Then another project that has been sitting on the back burner for way to long are some shelves for around my Kitchen to display old stuff. The Oak boards have been sitting here for about 3 years now. Then for the grand final project. Build an over the stairwell cabinet for kitchen stuff.
I need to use the winter for doing this because come spring, I have a footer to pour and a porch roof to redo. Sigh the joys of owning a home.
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So how can you mend a broken heart?
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Posted:Dec 9, 2010 12:04 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2011 8:31 am
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Maybe the toughest part after the divorce is not seeing my . It has been a couple of years. Recently I was down in my 's neck of the woods. I tried to make a dinner date but no such luck. Seems that mom and have each other all wrapped around one another.
I just do not have the money to fight this in Court. It seems that somehow the state thinks I am rich and has saddled me with a big chunk of support. Of course when your ex lies about what she pays for rent ( lives with her parents ). It just seems that all a dad is good for is making sure that the cash stays flowing. I want to throw up when someone talks about divorced dads that do not keep up with their . I want to scream, FIX THE LAW. My ex has never complaided with one thing in the decree. When I have said something to services, all I get is hire a lawyer.
So I ask this holiday season, how do you mend a broken heart?
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Help me, I'm sooo confused!
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Posted:Nov 28, 2010 12:13 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 9:54 pm
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In an age of equality what is wroung here? The older I get the more confused I get about this. You see woman on here bashing men for emailing them,then bashing standard members as cheap for not joining. If all the guys joined, how much more mail would you have? Nothing against the women on here, but it seems like a lot of dead weight at times. You have one Lady posting every so often about wanting a gangbang, then when responded to, just fades away for awhile. I have no problem being a gentleman. Being used as a whipping boy/ door mat is a different story.
If you ladies are so unhappy about your treatment, then by all means please show us how to do it. Why do we men have to pony up all the money and do all the typing just to be ingored? If you want the change you say you do then start to lead. My Grandfather used to say that the best lession was by example. So far I have seen some great and some not so great examples on here.
I would love to hear any civil replies.
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A day of Thanks
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Posted:Nov 25, 2010 12:13 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 5:58 am
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Well another Thanksgiving for the books. What are you thankful for? I always thought it is often the small things. Right now I am grateful that I got my Porch jack up and new Posts put in. My yard got some new plantings in it this fall. And maybe just as important my pair of Downey Woodpeckers are back feeding at the suet feeder.
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can you be too old for sex?
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Posted:Nov 20, 2010 11:07 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 9:56 pm
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I have found myself asking this question. After all it does seem like older guys get shunned on here. How do we as a society raise up MILFS and cougers, while saying nothing about its men? I do have to admit that in my younger years the idea of someone as "old" as my parents doing it did seem absurd. Now that I am older than 50 its seems strange not to think about having a sex life.
Recently a Wall Street Journal article, titled Desire in the Twilight of Life, shined a bit of light on this. It seems that I have not been the only one thinking about this. Recent research is showing that although sexual activity does decline with age, it does not stop. In fact they have found that half of those between 65 and 74 remain active.
Also it seems that amoung women, the lack of an able partner is ranked higher than having a loss of desire, as reasons for not having sex more often. When it came to health problems being listed as a reason, it was noted that the problem was not theirs but their partners.
So it appears that us guys better start taking better care of ourselves. Of course all type of interesting things come to mind at this point. As my generation gets older how will this affect society? Will we see DO NOT DISTRUB signs at retirement homes? Or maybe sex toy marketing for older people?
Years ago I remember a TV special on sex. They asked an older couple if they still had sex. The gentlemans reply was that what they used to do all night, now took them all night to do. His wife agreed. I hope we all can look forward to such future enjoyment.
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you just can not this stuff up!
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Posted:Nov 17, 2010 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 5:58 am
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Ok I am still laughing my ass off! I read on here last week that single Female Bigfoots are from time to time taking human males for sex. Seems that when it comes to Mr. Bigfoot, big feet do not equal a big penis. I guess size does matter to Ms. Bigfoot. Now the article says several things which brought up several questions. First off, how the hell do you tell a single from a commited Bigfoot? Do they wear a ring? They state that witnesses have seen that a male Bigfoot has a small penis. I know if I was kidnapped by Bigfoot something tells me that, the last thing on my mind would be checking out how well hung he is. Unless the Mr. is gay or Bi. Then I probably would be taking a peek.
Just one more thing to worry about out in the woods next time.
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