OMG I actually made it entirely past the half century mark!
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Posted:Nov 14, 2010 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 7:32 am
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Well Saturday was the big day, I turned 51. I was still shaking my head over making it to 50 last year. Thinking back I still am amazed that despite High School beatings, Almost being struck by lighting, being kicked by a big Buck (like in Deer), Having a physco dude chase me around with a loaded gun, putting my mouth over a shotgun barrel, 6 years in the service, falling off Trucks and trailers, I survived. HOW THE HELL did that happen??
So Sat. night I get invited out to dinner. It was tasty and a great night out. 3 of my friends and myself went over to Tiffin to eat. Without going into details over who ate what, the seafood, steak and chicken was good. The Cheesecake was a great ending! It was a nice place, it really was a great fit. The place was this old Mill. All that old stuff like that just fascinates me. Alot of it I knew what it was so that was fun.
As with any of my Birthdays, I find myself thinking about past, present and future. In the next week or so I think I will post some thoughts on here. I look forward to seeing your comments.
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How self defeating is this......
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Posted:Oct 30, 2010 9:59 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 7:32 am
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Back several months ago I saw a local post from a woman. In it she complained about not being able to find someone local. She seemed attractive and I remember reading her profile from some time ago. So off I send something like, Hey I am local lets meet for coffee or lunch sometime. I kept checking back. Nothing meanwhile I see this pending note at the bottom. Then I check again and zip ohh. This woman just up and deleated my post. Mind you I could understand if I did the old 'hey baby lets f***'. I thought it was a tasteful offer. I have met other women from here, and lunch or coffee was pleasent and a nice break. It didn't have to have sex involded.
So this whole excerise has been on my mind since I recently ran across her blog again. I guess that she must have her reason for doing so. Maybe she just likes to flirt. The other thought is perhaps she likes to play the victum. Oh whoa is me, no one contacts me, except that she deleats the local guys.
This site does, at times bring out strange behavior in people. And this has got to be one of the strangest.
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thinking about this one
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Posted:Oct 21, 2010 12:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 7:32 am
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If a swinger falls dead in the forest and no one is there to hear them, do they make a noise?
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Leo got me thinking
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Posted:Oct 4, 2010 10:56 am
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2010 12:11 am
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Recently a post on another blog got me thinking. What am I looking for on here? What do I really want? And almost as important if not more importantly, what will I not accept??
In one word, companionship. Easy to say, seems much harder to look for. I think most women on here are looking for the same thing. Companionship with sex. As in life its the shades of grey that get you. Everyone has different wants and tastes. Mine are no different. I want to have someone in my life maybe even a couple of women that I can have fun with. I have always felt that sex is more meaningful with someone you care about. Flirting while cooking has always been a huge turn on for me. Maybe because the centers for food and sex are so close in the brain? Knowing where the meal is going to lead to, causes a great deal of arousal in me.
I like just sharing time with someone. Having lunch, going to a festival, walking in the snow, chilling, doing yard work. Lifes little things, even chores seem less so with someone just chatting with you. Make no mistake I am not looking for 24/7. I do think time with self is just as important. But sometimes it does take others to get us to grow. People seem to come into our lifes for many reasons. Sometimes it is to teach us a lession. Sometimes for a short time of often intense teaching. Then there are long term. I feel open to any and all of these. Somehow I feel a bit like I am drifting around looking for more. Looking to be a friend then lover for someone.
It is almost easier to say what I am not looking for. For starters married women. It surprises me the number that are on here. If you are ok with this thats cool. Myself after going through a divorce, I can not bring myself to breaking up any ones marriage. If you are unhappy with it.. get out! I also dislike people that lie, are shallow and only look out for themselves. In my view not at all good for any relationship.
I am really not sure if you can find someone that is stable but has a wild side at times too! I read about adventure and trying things, but it seems like that just lasts so long. How do friends, or FWB keep that spark going? Does one always have to lead and one always follows? What does it really take to get something going with someone on here? All questions I find myself asking.
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Taking off this weekend
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Posted:Sep 28, 2010 5:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2010 9:38 am
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Well this weekend I am taking off. My get aways have been really thin for the past four years or so. I got invited to go on a trip to check out a festival and do some wine tasting. I find myself looking forward to this. Work has been a drag and I have been busy helping to move a friend. My time just to chill has been rather thin. Plus maybe I may get some additional fun, we will see,
Update Monday Mourning:
Nice trip, the colores were just changing on the trees. Our Wine tasting was a bust, sorry we are doing diner not wine tasting. Even though they were doing Wine tasting for Dinner folks. This was part of Ohio I call my second home. I spent many years living there. It has been so long since I went back. We had a wonderful Dinner In Wilmington at a old reopened Hotel. Everything was perfect in a nice relaxing place. The Ohio Renaissance Festival was a major disappointment. My advice, it is not worth the 20 bucks to go. Most of it is vendors selling premade crafts, many of which do not have any ties to that period. The food is over priced and lacklustered at best. This is not to say there are good things. Real stonecravers at work, the highland games and the Joust. Very cool watching the horses and the Knights. It just got very tiring of everyone asking for money to pay for their show. I felt like screaming, what the hell did my 20 dollars pay for??.
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Let me tell you about my latest weekend adventure
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Posted:Sep 7, 2010 9:51 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 10:02 pm
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The past holiday weekend was brimming with promise of sexual adventure and excitement. I was ready for anything to happen. I went to my Labor Day gatherings. I could not believe what happened next,
After all that I headed off to bed to try again some other day.
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hun ,its over already?
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Posted:Sep 1, 2010 12:09 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2010 11:27 pm
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No not that! I mean summer. It is hard to believe that summer is coming to a close. The last couple of weeks have found me tied to my canner, putting up tomatoes, salsa, peaches and Brandy pears. The fruit tress have done well this year, so well that I could not keep up with some of it. It seems this summer of 2010 will go down as a tossed and beaten one. With several storms that hit me, it seems that my summer has been filled with working on claims. Well and letting my Docter send me off to all my 50 year old tests. It just seems that the summer fun has slipped through my fingers.
Last weekend a friend of mine drug me off to see the movie Eat, Pray, Love. I enjoyed it more than I thought. I find myself still reflecting on the message. Now more than two years after my Divorce I still am trying to put that part to its final rest. Others have told me to forget and move on. Still others to forgive. I have always been one to believe that to forgive and forget means repeating the same mistake over again. So how do I lay this part of my life out? Not sure, but the trip still goes on. I know this from my younger days of backpacking, one can carry only so much. You either make no progress carrying that much or you lighten the load.
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Its the summer of my life
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Posted:Jul 5, 2010 11:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 4, 2010 11:18 pm
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I have been pondering summer. Most of you do not know that I practice the Native American religion. Summer means many things to us. Summer in our lifes means getting on with the work of the world. In deed,the work has been carrying me away! House work, cooking, throwing a house party, mowing and my gardens. How can I feel so content about parts of my life, yet so unsure about others? I still am searching for that balance. Getting the work of the world done, keeping my spirit side alive and my sex life going. My friends kind of, hell just flat out have told me, that I need to be more dominant in my sex life. So one of my lady friends offer to be of assistance. As much as I thought it would not be a turn on, god it was. Especially when we did it doggy and she begged me to smack her ass and pull her hair. The moans really turned me on! It was all in all very good. I would love to work on this some more.
Now I just have to figure out why pulling weeds has me thinking so much about sex...........
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Another kicking
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Posted:May 22, 2010 12:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2024 7:32 am
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Is it just me or does anyone else feel like everyone else is standing in line for their shot at kicking the shit out of you? It just is not ending. The cars are broken, The house got hit with a bunch of damage, mower is running poorly, TV burned out in the last storm. Thats not even going into work stuff.
As much as I would love a great night in bed with some woman, it on some levels just does not seem like the total fix. So I wonder ,if a night of someone pampering me with kisses and sweet nothings whispered in my ears would help kick me out of this funk. Somehow it does not seem like the cure, just a small distraction.
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spring again
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Posted:Mar 17, 2010 11:56 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 10:03 pm
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Well another spring has found me on this site. The longer days and warmer weather has certainly got something of mine to take notice. Always wondered, is the surge of sexual need I feel just me? Does anyone else feel it too? I doun't think this is cabin fever, its just that rush of sexual charge and feelings.
Anyhow anyone else like to chime in?
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Sorry but I've got to get cheetah woods off my chest!
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Posted:Feb 20, 2010 12:48 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2010 1:11 pm
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Rarely do I comment on Sports. My belief is that they are worthless and a waste of time. This whole thing with cheetah woods has really pissed me off!
First off its not the sex, come on this is a sex site! It is this whole warped sense of right and wroung. I could care less how many bimbos Cheetah screwed before he got married. My problem is after he got married. To all you with opem marriages, god bless you. At least you are honest about it. It was just how one lie feed another lie which went on and on. Hell it now appears that many of his good buddies in the press knew about this double life and kept it silent.
Then when this happened all the short of beening honest comments. How freaking dumb does this guy think we are? He gets major injuries in a car crash without the air bag going off and a golf club smashed window? I saw right through that one.
So along comes Cheetah Woods press conferance today. No questions, his mom seated up frount with a bunch of women. A screened group of special people. I am sorry. Ya sorry I got dropped as spokesman from so many companies. Thats like a huge chunk of money I just lost. Leave my wife and alone, so that you don't find out how many more lies are out there. I will return to Golf someday, when I think someone in the crowd will not make fun of me and my lieing bad behavior.
Guess the moral of this story is be honest. If you are not in an open marriage keep to yourself or get out of it.
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lovers
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Posted:Jan 10, 2010 6:53 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 10:03 pm
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what makes someone a great love for us? How does one woman turn our head and another one doesn't? I remember resisting one woman, then finally giving in and discovering what a great lover she was! Our selfs are so complex. I am not sure that it ever has been the same thing to attract me. This lover had the sweetest smile, that one a flawless pear shaped butt. A saucey laugh from another. Each one a different memory. I guess that is what each one of them such a sweet memory.
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