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Oh Oberlin, WTF???
Posted:Jun 17, 2019 9:46 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 4:9 am
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Anyone following the Court happens around Oberlin College? What a mess. I would love see some others take on it before I toss in my 2 cents.
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So you are a crappy in Bed because you are the wrong party?
Posted:Jun 5, 2019 9:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2019 8:41 pm
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In the last about three years I have seen profiles on here stating that if you did not vote for Clinton or if you are not a Democrat do not contact the person or us. First time I saw this on a couples profile I just shrugged and thought it was a joke. However I have seen more over the past two years. So my thoughts were how bigoted D's are. I have seen a You Tube video where people were asked about their political party then if they have friends from the other side. Many Democrats said they would not friend a Republican. Wonder where the grid lock in DC is really coming from???? Sorry I digress.

Last night I stumbled across a couple that flat out stated if you are not Republican do not bother to contact us. Wow this is getting ugly!

So does it matter what party you are in bed? Can only Democrats satisfy another Democrat and the same with Republicans? Shit I am a Libertarian we are few and far between. Maybe this is why I can not get any where on here??
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Your shadow is sooo hot
Posted:May 3, 2019 7:13 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2019 7:21 am
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So I am a slow learner, or maybe I just take longer study the situation. So years now I have been trying meet with shadow people. I was a shadow person once because I could not figure how send phone camera myself. Fact is I still can not, but then I got a digital camera and solved . I also had a concern regarding a family member. However, I did after some thought, put up some pictures. So I was trying cut other shadow people a little slac The result you ask? Nothing, no replies nothing. Now along comes our Government and takes the personal ads off Craigslist and now the constant shadows with sex club are in viewed list every day.

Whom are these shadow people? I think fakes, pervs and maybe 2 or 3 real people just trying find their way on here. I can not believe this site can not put a halt these sex club people. It just become another hurdle many on using this site.
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That line between Love and like
Posted:Apr 20, 2019 2:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2019 12:52 pm
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So meeting people on here over the years and talking with them has certainly had its ahhh moments. A huge one has been the times of Love and like. So I certainly get the nsa relationship. That is a like thing, no love no attachments just come in have sex and leave. Where it starts to get fuzzy for me is when people want a FWB to make love with them but not be in love with them. So I understand the lack of English words regarding love. The Greeks had several types of love, for some reason we just have one word for it all, love.

It seems as if many define love differently. I met a couple once that, she wanted to be loved he just thought she wanted a good screwing. I met another that confused me totally. I had to become his wingman to get her to the shower to bed her. Oh no kissing allowed. So whom am I trying to get to in this scene?

So do you regard kissing as Love? Saying certain things as Love? Is there a sexual love vs relationship love? Would like to know what others think about this. Let me know.
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So talk the talk?
Posted:Mar 12, 2019 8:18 am
Last Updated:May 1, 2019 9:25 am
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Over the years I have seen many on here complain about being contacted by people they have expressed no interest in. I get it as I seem to attract the attention of Bi and gay males on here. The thing I see more and more of, is how the profile pictures and or Videos do not match at all what they are looking for. Just today I looked at a couple of profiles where a woman was looking for just another woman. So what are the pictures mostly of? Well the Ladies getting screwed, giving bj's or handling a dick. I saw one recently of the Lady handling more than one guy only to read... Not interested in Men. The other one I like is the woman only looking for BBC. Then just to see every or almost all pictures of her with, yup you guessed right! White dick.

So while I am on topic here, let me also add about the comments from woman and couples post boob, vag and action pictures then complain about guys wanting to meet to for sex.

So for the record I do have one picture of my package on here, Two of me naked from the waist up. Am I disappointed when a Bi or gay guy contacts me? I am even though I have on my profile I am straight and not looking for guys. Do I understand many guys just perv the pictures and do not even read the short thumb nail profile. I do which amazes me why they think just putting out there hey man wanna screw, would work. Maybe they feel the shotgun approach works.

Pictures and videos work. We are creatures of visual stimulation. Why else does porn work? So for the posters, if you are looking for something then make the pictures and what you are looking for match. For the lookers... take a moment to read short profile. If they are not looking for me, I do not even comment not hit like. I am not paying them attention.

Then maybe its all about them just getting attention and not really meeting? Another topic another day.
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just no groove this year
Posted:Dec 24, 2018 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 4:9 am
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Happy holidays to all. Is it me or did this holiday season just do a belly flop? People seemed here , at least , to be kinder this year. But in spite of putting money in the Salvation Army Kettles, donating some hams to a Shelter and making some other donations it just never came together for me.

Not sure if it was just sitting here at home. I did get some house repair done. Well tomorrow is another day.
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Something new or not
Posted:Nov 19, 2018 9:44 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 4:9 am
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Well life has pretty much been moving along here. Summer ended hot as hell, fall seemed to pass to quick and as normal I never get e everything I want done. I had two projects which have sucked time away from me. The first was figuring out what the noise was from the rear of my Forester. Turned out to be a rear wheel bearing, which was the easy news. Two days of working on it got me nowhere, a friend offered to help. 7 hours of work and we gave in a removed the whole thing and had to press it out, which it almost did not want to press out on a 10 ton press. The other project is getting my work bench put together. This is on going.

Sexually well at least I have had a couple of woman say hi on IM. Other than that it been a dessert on here. Maybe someone out there is cold and needs warmed up?

So what is going on with the rest of you?
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Going, gone
Posted:Jun 26, 2018 12:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2018 10:53 pm
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So the Cat that my left here when she left with my ex-wife died over the weekend. No surprise as her health has been going down. Digging her hole bought up memories and some emotions.

So the Cat was a stray that wandered into our Barn. My kept her. in fact I think she was feeding it before we knew about the cat being in the Barn. So it was her whining about wanting a Cat to go along with her dog. As a year or so went by another cat and another came along with reasons why she needed more Pets. The sad truth was that she was not caring for the Animals. So it was one of us that fed and watered them.

This began the start of the end of the Marriage for us. My ex defended everything my did not do. I was mean and just did not understand little Girls. So once the snow ball got nudged down the Hill it just got bigger and bigger taking out everything with it. An old friend of mine told a similar story of her first marriage but for her it started with remodeling a Bathroom. Strange to think how much damage the little things can cause.

So I found me really resenting my today. I buried the Cat right next to the one of the Dogs she left. So the thoughts of being broke paying ungodly support to my ex and scrapping by with her pets and never a single penny from them to help cover them. Then the came over. Its this Terrier. She looked at me wagging her tail. Somehow it all seemed right. Not right in what happened but just right at that moment. Maybe one day my will realize how much pain she caused.
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Hey FriendFinder-x listen here
Posted:Jun 19, 2018 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 4:9 am
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So I get this offer from FriendFinder-x, you have been so loyal here is a special offer for 6 months. Well back I was a paid member for a few months. What did I get? Nothing, zip zero no dates no nothing anything else. I have asked lately about age limits on activity here. It appears that the general trend on here is to do nothing. Stand people up, cancel be a guy posing as a woman, etc, etc..

So does this site work anymore? Several people I have talked to have told me they rarely check in because the women on here do nothing. Couples are even worse!

Let me ask every here. What is it you are really looking for? Be hst, there are no right or wrong answers. I would like to hear from others what they are looking for. I have a idea, but will not say until there have been several responses.
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Does this picture make me look fat?
Posted:Apr 21, 2018 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2021 12:46 pm
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Right off the top, I know this picture is a couple of years old. Its hard to take a body picture like this by yourself. I have lost about ten lbs since that picture was taken. The other day I was called fat by a couple. I admit I am not as trim as I would like to be. I work out, I ride and I power walk. It is me, or am I really fat? Where is the line between fat and not fat?
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Jeez please, come on
Posted:Apr 16, 2018 10:01 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 4:9 am
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Its past the half way point in April and its f328ing snowing! For the love of God where the hell is some warmer weather????
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Is there an age limit on here?
Posted:Apr 4, 2018 12:03 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2021 12:46 pm
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Not saying that before November of 2017 I was getting much activity on here, but I have noticed a complete drop off since I turned 58. I understand the thing about guys not being able to preform the older they get. It takes me a few minutes to get reeved up myself. But what I find amazing is how many older woman think they are worth chasing while looking down on men the same age.

Perhaps I am not a average 58 year old male. I try to watch my diet, excersise and stay active. I have never been a minute man nor am I now. I understand and love fore play which is half in the mind. So what makes me now a throw away person?
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Man you Dayton people party!!!
Posted:Feb 8, 2018 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2018 10:58 am
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So I am sitting here waiting for the Storm to hit. Missed making it to Menards for some wood rews for a project. So I went to the store for popcorn and soup. So I got home after a couple of drinks and feeling bored I checked Craigslist. Every so often I find a funny ad on there.

So tonight under MWfor M I see an add out of Dayton for men to SHEAR this guys wife. Yup thats correct to SHEAR his wife. Wonder if she is a sheep???
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