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Part two, Oh Harvey.....
Posted:Dec 24, 2017 10:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2018 9:58 pm

Well as I thought, more to come. Sorry to the 63 viewers that have been waiting for part two. Things have been getting stranger so I thought I should wait.

So it appears from what I am reading, several of these famous Actresses never had sex with Harvey, he suggested or asked for it. So now asking for sex is harassment? So when did this start? How the hell did I miss this announcement?

As the last few weeks have rolled on, the news has been filled with many stories of Men being outed. Some of the behavior has been out right rude. For example Matt Lauer comment about the view of a co workers breasts while bent over. Others just unbelievable like someone touching a unclothed part of her back.

So as a man how do I take all this? Well first off good manners are always good. But it appears that we have now entered a new territory. Woman want to a different standard with out even having any standard set. I guess something that happened 20 to 30 years ago is always valid. The idea of smearing people and not coming forward goes against the Law. Do you not have the right to face you accursers? To defend yourself? I guess now its if a woman says you are guilty, then you must be guilty!

Part three...
Harvey and the me landslide
Posted:Nov 22, 2017 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Oh Harvey, you little fat coward, what have you done? So I think this whole situation is a mess. First off, Harvey gets caught then runs off to a clinic for his sexual problems. Escaping the long arm of the law, for now, but he can not hide forever. Seems that the casting Couch was working pretty well for him. Better than him having a profile on here. Money, power, lovely ladies and people kissing his ass. Ah the American dream! His Brother and him held sway over a vast movie empire.

What amazes me is how long he got away with this. This was allowed by this Hollywood lecture culture, that tells us how we should vote, think and act. When it appears that everyone knew this was going on. YET not one of these self serving assholes stepped forward until some unknown Actress outs him. So as much crying that has went over this since the story came out, you would think he should have been outed years ago. OH thats right all these Woman were famous, rich and admired. So I guess with woman, its about what they are going to get. Where were these strong male Actors? Pitt at one point said something to him. Must have really scared him, because it went right on. Clooney and Damon appear to have put the muscle on reporters to stop stories over the years.

So I was reading how brave Rose told a reporter that when Harvey offered her a few thousand for her silence, she countered offered with an offer in the millions. She wanted to make him sweat. So while she let him sweat, he actually was, on top of how many more woman??

part 2 to come......
IS IT REALLY worth being on here???
Posted:Oct 24, 2017 10:16 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2017 5:47 pm

So the question I find myself asking is it worth my time and or money being on here? Pondering this brings me to several areas of thought.

First there is the site. Over the years stories of people stopping payment for gold membership which suddenly just turns itself back on has always made me wonder if its worth signing up. Back several years ago I did sign up for a couple of months. What did I get for my money? NOTHING. In spite of the advertising on this site about meeting people by being gold I got nothing. No in case you are wondering I am not silly enough to think that I can be a gold member and have a different woman every night just at a snap of my fingers. IM works at times on here and other times not at all. The spend points to be a fan is a joke. One use to be able to message your #1 fan. I guess that has stopped. I have sent two messages to the site asking why, a month later nothing communicated back.

Then there are the woman..... boy oh boy. Seems like they all want Brad Pitt as a hung black guy, well and knock off a few years and oh if you are a couple make him Bi and make sure you have a KIK also. Expect the guy to chase you for months on end, then get pissed off when the guy finally stops because he realize he is being played and that this is going nowhere. Some as frosting on the cake will whine about not finding any men or guys that follow through. Well try looking at yourself first.

Over the years I have stayed true to my message. My profile is filled out. I have a couple of pictures. I have made the best attempt to put myself forward. For all the work and time. Mostly nothing at all. I have met some good people on here. But the numbers are just so slanted the other way. Yes I do know that not everyone is attracted to me, just as I am not attracted to everyone on here. I have been real about this reality. So where the Hell have I went wrong?
simply amazing
Posted:Oct 6, 2017 11:06 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2017 10:23 pm

Well it appears that meetings others on here is over. Over the course of this spring and summer I have attempted to chat with others on here. I noticed turning 57 must have been the breaking point. Chat dried up, along with views and emails. So I take it that all you ladies must think guys are walking dead at 57?
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270 miles of peddling
Posted:Jun 29, 2017 10:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Well last week I did something I had not expected to do. I rode 270 miles on a Bike. Yup all pedal power. This was over 5 and a little one other day. I guess I knocked it off my bucket list without it being on my list!

This was a group ride with 1,500 other people I did not know. I rode it solo. Being on the ride was not so bad, because people would chat with you. Plus your mind had things to look at as you peddled along. The worst thing was the ledges from them stopping at one paving job to the next. When you go along on a group ride you are to announce rode hazards as you come across them. So you announce Holes, road kill, pieces of tires, trash, loose stones, etc.. When we went through an Amish community it was funny to hear people yelling SHIT!. Some of those piles of crap would have not been fun to go down into.

All and all a great learning experience. I hope if I do this again I would have some one to go with me. The nights would be more entertaining.
The real problem with this site...
Posted:Feb 17, 2017 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Are the women on here. Before the hate mail starts streaming in give me a minute. When I first joined all I heard was this complaining about the guys do this and that. The guys are rude. The guys are crude. Guys do not meet.

Granted all good complaints. Then why are you ladies doing the same thing now? In the past 6 months I have had conversations with a number of you. What happens, you say you want to meet. It never happens. You just stop chatting with no explanation in the middle of IM. No bye, no sorry we are not a match, just nothing! You put up pictures just as bad as dick pics, them complain you get treated as a sex object. You offer to meet then your hamster dies, or some other excuse only to never be seen again.

Grow up ladies! If you want something then act like you want it. Stop with the games.
The revolution is dead!
Posted:Jan 20, 2017 8:27 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2021 12:47 pm

After months of thinking about this, reading attempting to chat with people I no declare that the sexually revolution is now dead. Yup D E A D.

How did I reach this conculsion, you ask? Well like the good scientist I am through simple observation and testing. I was at a party recently and a Black gentleman made an observation that there are no sexually taboos left. White woman openly lust for black men. Bisexuality has become open. Woman are free to chase what ever they want. We have made anything goes the rule. Our TV shows and every days words are filled with sex. It seems as though we have surrounded ourselfs with it so much, we lost interest in doing it.

Over the last several months I have tried to IM with several couples or ladies. In spite of looking for racier profiles, the end result is the same. Nothing, not a word back. In the rare times I have heard something back, the next communication goes unanswered. It appears that the idea of sex is appealing but not the actual act. In some cases I have noticed many of the profiles spelling out more and more terms. Terms like, only black, only thick, only so many inches long, a very narrow age range, etc.

Sadlly it seems like all the sites are like this. No action, no play. A couple I know told me they are having a tough time meeting other couples.

Have we become so jaded with sex that doing is is becoming watching free porn on TV. The idea of actually DOING IT, no longer appeals to us? Or have we become so jaded that we only do it with an ideal that we are searching to find?

The revolution is dead, it was good while it lasted.
Did I miss something???
Posted:Dec 12, 2016 10:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2017 9:40 pm

So there is this blog I follow. For the past several months guys have been getting bashed, I get some of what this couple is complaining about. Bad manners, bad behavior, not showing and other things.

So they were complaining about guys not bring gifts for her, in particular wine she likes. I point out that I have never seen a post on what she likes, or drinks. Also I made the comment about not being a common expectation when meeting. I was told I have no manners. For the record I can see being invited to dinner and bringing something. Maybe even an all day affair. This is something all new, or is it?

The other thing that has been talked about on this blog is how fat guys are. She stated that an over 6 ft guy that weighted 190 lbs was fat. Now my Doctor tells me that 200 lbs would be a great weight for me to reach ( right now I am at 213 ), Hell if this poor dude is fat at that weight and height then I must be huge!

Also stated has been, she will not give foreplay to a guy. A guy that sees her nude should get an hard on just seeing her. But then one of their complaints is, yup, guys do not give her foreplay! When I asked why she expects it and not give, I was told it was a dumb question to ask and refused to answer.

If you do find this blog, good luck because they erase all the post except for one. I guess this way no one can really see what they are saying long term. So what do others think? I would love to hear from the ladies also.
Now that hurts.... kinda
Posted:Sep 16, 2016 10:03 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2021 8:09 pm

So I got turned down on here for chatting because I am not on kik. I am like really??? So now women are going to be this picky? Another bar to jump across that means nothing at all. So why does being on kik matter more than anything else?

Over the years on here I have been to hairy, to old, to big, not big enough, to white, to old, not a gold member and now I am not on kik. Well ladies if you feel thats going to work better for you, good luck.
My late summer pleasure
Posted:Sep 5, 2016 6:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Ok so here is my late summer pleasure. Its mowing at dark. I have gotten so use to having nice long days that when fall is coming I mow as the sun goes down. I love how the smell of what you are cutting seems to come out. This year its grass and Wild carrot. You can feel the moisture in the air begin to form. Of course the darker it gets the more you have to focus on what you are doing.
I was doing so well to!
Posted:Aug 25, 2016 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

So I start this summer off with a promise. Get things done around the house and yard. So I have got part of the fill in around the garage. Been working on the mound from the basement. Working the area from the geo thermo loop. Getting shelves ready in the attic. weeding the garden.

Well the garden was looking great, until the rain started now it just looks like one giant weed bed. Sigh! It seemed like I was doing really well with the rest of the things. Then suddenly summer just seemed to disappear. Where did the last month go? Who took it?

Now I feel panic beginning to set in.
Thinking about love and lust
Posted:Jul 14, 2016 11:22 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Thinking today about love and sex. Thinking about can you have passion without love? Love without passion? Does distance and time make ones heart grow fonder? Guess I am looking for some feed back before I go any further.
Just a story
Posted:Jun 9, 2016 10:49 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:5 am

Just a story I had put onto another site back a few years before. Thought I would redo it for here.

He had just finished the early movie and wanted to burn some time before heading Home to an empty House. He went in to one of those new Bookstores that has rows of books about this and that. He settled in to looking around the store. Different things caught his eye. Bio here, history there, Para normal there. So he sat down going through Ghosts, Bigfoot and UFO's. He really was just browsing and lightly reading a bit from several books. He saw a cute pair of legs pass by him. He glanced up and saw a younger attractive Woman was attached to those legs. He was at least 25 years her senior. He really gave her no more of a thought.

Some time later a soft voice asked him a question. He turned to see this attractive woman holding two Books. He was shocked and said " I am sorry but did you ask me something?". I did she replied. " I have found two books on Nostradamus, one looks at his past predictions and the other looks at his future predictions. Which one do you think I should buy?" He thought for a second and said " Well the past is the past so it is know by all, but the future is unknown." She thanked him for the advice and walked away. He went back to looking at more Books. Soon the voice came over the speaker system telling Customers to bring their books up to the Cashiers due to Store closing in 10 minutes.

He picked out one book and went up to the back register. Soon he was outside in the cold starless night. He started his car and started to drive out to head home. He rounded the corner when he saw the same younger lady from the bookstore flagging him down. He stopped rolled down the window and asked if she needed help. She explained that she had lost her keys but she had a spare set at home if I could take her there. He told her to climb in and off they went to her Apartment a couple of miles away.

She asked him to comer in while she looked for the spare set of keys. Soon she found the. She asked if he could have a drink for bring her home. He accepted and she poured one for herself and sat next to him. They chatted when suddenly she kissed him. A full long kiss. She asked him if he would like more. He sat there not sure what to say. She kissed him again the stood up. She stripped right in front of him. Then she pulled him off the couch and took him to the bedroom. He was unsure of what to do, not because of inexperience, but because of the shock factor. Soon he was returning her kiss and letting her strip him. Their naked bodies fell together on her bed. She gave he gave back. He pleased her and she pleased back. Two bodies driven by each other. After a long session he fell asleep. She was right next to him.

Mourning light woke him, along with the smell of food being cooked. He got up and found her half dressed making breakfast in the kitchen. He ate and then they both got dressed. As he went to get his coat he looked down into her open purse and saw two sets of car keys laying and top of everything else. Dam he thought She wanted this!

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