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Is it me or something I ate?
Posted:May 14, 2016 9:16 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2016 10:25 pm

Well not that you could smell on my breathe anything I just ate. What is going on here. I remember back years ago being able to chat with others. Getting a message from time to time. It was interesting to be on here. Now it seems no one does anything on here. Does anyone meet or even chat any more on here?

So is it my age? Suddenly I am to old? My race? What the hell is going on? I understand how Toledo seems sexually oppressed. I get that part, but why? If you can shine a light on any of these questions lets hear it!
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Not again!
Posted:May 2, 2016 6:22 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2016 10:29 pm

Well the truck is down again! Sigh now other house problems have popped up. Can I not get a break here????
Purple rain has ended
Posted:Apr 24, 2016 9:25 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2016 9:10 pm

Not to make fun of the passing of Prince, I had no idea it was still raining purple. If it was raining purple does this beat a golden shower ? Prince had all but vanished over the last few years. Give him credit for his music a blend of funk, rock and pop. He brought several acts to the stage, Vanity and the Bangles two which stick out right away.

I missed seeing Prince on stage, but from what I heard from others it was a high energy show that pleased everyone that went. Along with Freddy Mercury and Bowie he helped to open up the idea of what a man was. He showed that purple was just not for liitle old ladies anymore.

Where did Prince really shine? First he could play several instruments well. He could sing. But where he really shone was his ability to write. He wrote under 3 different names. His record company says that there are hundreds of songs in their vaults which have not been heard. Are they finished works? No one seems to know. Who will finish them if they are not? He burned through producers as he would record for hours at a time.

Myself I feel where Prince gets a true nod from me is his ability to cut across racial lines. Some how I never saw him as a black artist. I think alot of others thought the same. He stayed true to his Minneapolis roots and even after fame he stayed there. He was and remained himself. That is a life to be proud of in this day and age of conforming to others ideas.

maybe we need a little purple rain.
A weekend get away
Posted:Apr 7, 2016 10:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2016 11:16 pm

So my last two vacations were a little rough on me. I just need a break. I am looking for some place to go for a long weekend. Not expensive, good food, relaxing. Gotta have some sights ( NO SPORTS ) and friendly people. I have gotten two places suggested so far. One is Pittsburg Pa. and the other was Grand Rapids Mi. . Any other suggestions?
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I think its dead
Posted:Mar 31, 2016 12:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2016 10:42 pm

It seems like everything just fell off. No one responds to IM any more, no mail, no real blog posts. Have all the real people left? Are there just the fakes and phonies on here know? If so why do I get left behind to turn off the lights? Why did no one tell me? I hate being the last one.
Things can change quickly
Posted:Mar 24, 2016 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2016 10:06 pm

Seems to be the running theme of my life lately. Its the weather one day, A friends break up the next, One crisis here another crisis some place else. We just never know what will happen in a given day. I think about the people that died in Belgium. Did any get up and say They would become part of a bombing? Doubtful. Out of a storm can come good things, life is like that.
PLEEEZ spring
Posted:Mar 13, 2016 7:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2016 10:21 pm

Freezing with a ton of snow then up to 70 now back to freezing with more snow. Hey mom nature, lets just to spring. I have a ton of outside stuff to do. I would like to get some plants in the ground.
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Divided thoughts
Posted:Feb 1, 2016 11:25 am
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2016 5:36 pm

So I am told that my brother needs surgery to keep walking. So I find my feelings are divided on this. This is the brother that has stole money from my house, stole money from my parents, ripped off an uncle and a couple of relatives. He is a druggie and has been in and out of rehab centers so much they have a revolving Door for him. He has been a class A scumbag.

So I am told this surgery may not work, but if he does not have it then he will end up shortly in a Wheel chair. If he does have his hip fixed he may still end up in a wheel chair. So one side of me says " bummer". The other side of me says guess karma sucks when it catches up to you!

Yeah I know he is my brother. The youngest the charming one that had women around him all the time. The one that had of pair of twins fighting over him at the same time. Yes they knew about each other. He had a terrific woman at one point. Lost her to his drug use. Its just that he may be blood but I am not his blood. He just has brought so much disgrace and shame that I can not claim him. If I get asked I just reply with, he is a relative.

He did some things to my family when I was married that I told him he was going to get a beating for. Threats and a whole ugly weekend. So when I find him do I still kick his ass of do I just shove a stick in his wheel spokes?
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what to do?
Posted:Jan 28, 2016 10:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2016 11:05 am

What is it about THIS year! I have the itch to work outside. Its cold then kinda warm, then back to cold again. I am working on my shop. Trying to get things dry walled and wired. I have a number of outside projects to work on. Could it be my new diet? Eating better and looking forward to growing more of my own this year. Dropping bread and pasta from my diet has made my joints feel better. Not sure just feeling really restless and want to be out.
First Bowie, now Glen Frey
Posted:Jan 19, 2016 12:40 am
Last Updated:Apr 7, 2016 10:47 pm

This has been a sad start to the new year. Bowie was that guy that you just could not put in a box. I will always think of him singing, "here am I sitting in a tin can, far above the world, planet Earth is blue and there's nothing I can do" How can you forget Heroes? A love song that you really do not realize is one. He left an stamp on glam rock. Then there is Modern love. Then toss in one of my favorite Christmas songs of him and Bing Crosby singing. He worked with Eno and Fripp. When I was younger I never followed him durning his Glam then androgenous phase. At the time it was just to weird for me. I think I might have missed something. I remember watching this video where he lets Adrian Beleuw play on stage with his band. It was this really funky blues number. He just slides off to the side of the stage and watches. You could see it was not about Bowie but it was about the music.

It was always about the Music for Glen Frey. No stage show, make up or props. Like Bowie his voice was clear and understandable. But soulful and sweet. He sang songs about life. He liked harmony and being on time with a back ground vocal. He wrote plainly of love, loss, want and anger. I do not think he saw his music as changing anything in the world, well except maybe ' Get over it'. Don Henely called him my brother and said that even the bands break up of 14 years changed nothing. There are so many feelings I get hearing Desperado. I remember going to Hockey practice in High School and hearing New in Town, so much I got sick of it. Other Eagle songs I never got tired of. They are like old friends.

So where does this take us? Well I guess the message is be yourself. You can show your other side. Music may not change the world, but it can make it better. Dave and Glen you have earned a well deserved rest, RIP. Sit back in heaven and see how the rest of us pick up from where you left off.
And to all a Happy New Year.
Posted:Dec 31, 2015 2:22 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2016 11:06 pm

So here is to the New Year and may it be a dam site better than the old one!
The Holidays
Posted:Dec 23, 2015 12:19 am
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2015 2:19 pm

So Christmas is almost upon us. New Years is not far behind. This Year I think I am working on my shop. Strange choice? Not really. I have been dreaming about getting my shop together for several years. I lost my old shop, went through a period when I did not have the money to work on it. Now the floor has been poured for a year. Slowly it is coming together. Step by step. Hard to believe in one way. Yet it is finally happening. Much like the Holidays. I remember the times as a . Christmas never got here! The wait and the dream of what was to come. The magic was getting that special thing. As I got older it became the magic of finding that right gift for someone else. My parents and grandparents are all gone now. My is gone from my life. Thank God my ex has left me alone! Family to me has a different feel. I have people around me that may not be my blood, but they are more family to me than others of my own relatives are. I give more today than I ever receive back. That is fine with me and I am content with this.

Magic, how do you define it? One way is to make dreams real. I guess I just am realizing that magic can happen any time of the year. Gifts are one way. But gifts need that love to go with them. So my magic to myself is my shop. Maybe it will breed some magic of its own in the future.

So to all, Merry Christmas. If you see a light in the shop, be happy for me.
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December Rainbow
Posted:Dec 14, 2015 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 22, 2015 11:56 pm

So here it is the middle of Dec, 50 degrees outside, pouring rain and as I am traveling to work this Big, beautiful, bright full rainbow pops up right next to me. As I am driving along the end is going thru a field, behind houses, in front of woods and across the Turnpike. I thought of the pot of gold, but alas its just an illusion. A fleeting view of something unattainable. Lovely to view but impossible to hold. Much like a dream.
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