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Loss or release?
Posted:Mar 23, 2015 11:02 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:50 am

The other day a friend of mine was talking about lost girl friends and lost loves. We chatted about what we missed. A pattern seemed to form. Most of what we missed was physical. Breasts, butt, shape of her body, eyes and so on . Funny not once did we ever say but god she did this and it drove me nuts! Well nuts in a bad way.

Mean while our past conversations about our ex wives has never brought up positive physical things, only negative.

So is it easier to dream of love lost? To blindly wish ourselves to what might have been happiness? I do find it strange that often old loves in hindsight never seem to have gotten picked apart like those we marry or almost do. Could be that in the role of Courts today we must assign blame to someone for failing. I do believe this drives both sides toward blame and hate.

Perhaps it is another thing. We allowed someone close to us and felt betrayed. This bile of betrayal, washes away the bad memories of almost relationships. Wipes the tears from our eyes, and clouds our memories. Lost in the maze of out life is why did it end?

So do we lose ourselves? Or do we find the release we so need to move on?
Posted:Mar 9, 2015 10:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2015 10:24 pm

The joys of 40 degree weather and sun! Could spring be around the corner???
This cold
Posted:Feb 19, 2015 11:24 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 9:51 am

Can it get to cold for sex? The last few days I have wanted to wrap up in a blanket and sleep the day away. Hibernate from the cold. Its like over half way through the month and it looks like this cold is sticking with us. I still want to kick Al Gore ass, global warming!

Only good thing has been working in the basement. At least something is getting done! Too cold to work in the mud room. The office has not even started yet. I just could not cut the hole for the door and have all this cold air coming into the bedroom.

Well back to my intro...... can it be cold for sex? Can it get so cold you just do not care to do it?
You got to love
Posted:Feb 11, 2015 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 12:18 pm

Taking care of some projects for someone and being treated like a piece of nonexsistant crap. Moral of this story....... get paid up front and work around your schedule not theirs.
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What makes sexy?
Posted:Jan 29, 2015 10:49 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2015 8:07 am

I think all this work around here is getting to me! lol.

So I was thinking yesterday how have my views of what is sexy changed? Let me start by saying that watching Victoria Secret models have never turned me on. Ok Heidi Klum did and still does but the rest hold no sway over me. To fake to impossible to ever meet, etc.
I have always liked women with brains. Talk to me about every day things. Travel with me see other places.
I have always felt that a woman I can approach is sexy. I really at heart am kinda shy with women. I have liked and still do dark hair women. Sorry most blonds are fake. Be real if you are born with a color then show it!

So where have I changed? Lots of small ways. I like a woman that can work next to me. One that can drink a glass of wine or do a shot of whiskey. I like going to a play or making the Art Museum a thing to do. I like a woman that can do things for herself. Has friends but allows me to keep my friends also.

So with out giving to many details that is it summed up.
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Moving along
Posted:Jan 19, 2015 10:29 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:50 am

Wow what a difference a week can make! The New Tub is in and all the outside work is done. Now its time for me to start the inside work. Working in the basement on the cold days and in the mud room on warmer days. Ready for the Building inspection.
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Fun in the New Year
Posted:Dec 29, 2014 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 4:58 am

Well the outside of the New Office is done. Work starts on the next room. I am so excited with what I see, it is hard to wait to start on the inside. So in the mean time I have started some work in the new basement. Painting the outside walls to seal them. taking out the old window and filling in with block, getting ready for a door for that room. So most likely the first thing to work on will be the basement. I have a shelves and a Wine Cellar to put in. This can be done waiting to start the wiring. I keep thinking about how I want the Office but I have to get it ready first before I get there.

This will keep me busy in the New Year.
Its begining to look alot like.... A new addition!
Posted:Dec 19, 2014 11:35 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2014 11:18 pm

YEA HA! Well the shell to my office is coming along very nicely. Basement is done, Walls are up. Window is framed, roof trusses and sheeting is on. Needs shingles, siding and gutters on the Outside then I get to start inside! I think when this is all done I will have a great small little office, Wine cellar and food storage under it and a step closer to gutting my bedroom to redo it. I am so looking ahead to the work of painting, dry walling and flooring. The thought of having a real desk with room to work from is worth the wait.

Come spring it will be time to landscape around the back with a shade garden. Thoughts of Azaleas, Hostas and a nice Japanesse Maple are dancing in my head.
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Holiday season
Posted:Dec 16, 2014 12:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2014 4:45 pm

So finally I get into the holiday season. I went and played Santa. So I bought some gifts and went to a Christmas show. The lights were nice. Hearing the Merry Christmas was good. But what really did it was two things. Watching the really young 's faces looking at the lights. The second was when music came on, all the started to sing with the songs. Not just sing a little but sing really loud and with spirit.

With sales starting earlier and the message louder every year to buy more I thought Christmas was lost. After this weekend I am not sure. Maybe the spirit of the Holiday is stronger that I thought. Maybe understand it better than us adults do. I think back to one year when my exclaimed after opening each and every gift, "its just what I wanted!". As Adults we reason everything. I think perhaps the season should remind us that sometimes we need to think with our heart and feelings than with our heads. I am not suggesting we chuck our roles as adults. Just remember our time as . Can you still be amazed at lights? There just may be hope.
What are you thankful for?
Posted:Nov 27, 2014 12:15 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2014 11:36 am

One of the sad things to see is this trend to rob us of this Holiday. We are allowing retailers to turn this into the new start of the Christmas season. If there is a holiday that should be part of our lives it is this day. When I pray I was taught to always thank the creator first for all that you have. Then ask what you need. Some how it makes my needs seem smaller than what I have. Before we start this season of, "I want" should we not remember what we have?

So here is what I am thankful for. A house, my gardens and my trees. Great neighbors and better friends. Food on my table and eyes to see the beauty of the world. A Sun to work under and a Moon to dream under. Good health and a job to keep me busy.

So what are you thankful for?
The Bird is landing
Posted:Nov 23, 2014 10:29 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2021 3:50 am

Right on my roof! Hard to believe it is Thanksgiving week already! Where has the year went to Hmm snow last winter, more snow, cleaning up in the yard, organizing the house, A couple of trips in there. Oh And wine, women and sushi tossed in from time to time. Wow guess it was kinda full! Well now on with the rest of this year. Time to break ground on the House additions. The snow we got has melted and the ground is not froze so digging will start this week. I can hardly wait. I look forward to a real office, with electric plugs and room to organize. I look forward to not having piles here and there of stuff, to sort through.
Rolling up my shelves
Posted:Nov 15, 2014 12:22 am
Last Updated:Nov 26, 2014 8:39 am

Well the time has come for me to make some real changes around here. I am having a new bathroom put in, a new rear entrance and an Office space. This is the first wave. So I find myself removing alot of the carpet that was here when my ex and I bought this house. Colors will change in a couple of rooms. It is like throwing out the old ghosts and painting over them. My had a turtle pen outside that is torn apart. This was perhaps the saddest thing of all. I remember catching crickets and worms to feed to the turtle. It was neat to see my excited. But with her walking out of my life, this just seems the time to rid myself of the pen.

Like much of this work it is sad to see the old going. But hopeful toward the future and present. It is time to move on and make the House mine. I look forward to creating a great office space that will assist me in making my time more productive. I look forward to a place to take off my muddy boots outside.

I feel amazed at the excitement of doing this.
OK new bucket list
Posted:Nov 1, 2014 3:58 pm
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2014 10:22 am

Hey what do you know I did knock off a couple of things this year! So I thought it was time to move the list back up a page or two.

So what am I looking for? Well for women, A native American, An Asian. A woman taller than me, this means 6 ft or taller. A woman with really big breasts ( I know almost every mans dream ).

I would like a MFFF ( I know it will most likely kill me but this my bucket list) sex in a hot tub. Sex on a train. Sex in a public place. Sex in every room in my house ( 5 down, 3 to go ). In a hospital with a nurse. Be part of a GB.

Would like a woman to control me once. Make me do her bidding. Mild bondage, Light torture, candle wax. Be part of a DP. Be part of a DV.

Ok so my up to date list! Any takers???

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