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Ramblings of a middle aged man
Just my journey through life, be it regarding sex or not. feel free to contact me through this blog.
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Way to contact me and other info
Posted:Jun 5, 2011 9:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2022 7:59 am

I know many standard members can not view profile. So here is a shorter version and a private way to contact me . No else can see your this post is set private.

Through the course of the last year I must say this. Due to all the fakes and flakes on here DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTION OF FOLLOWING THROUGH. IF YOU SAY YOU WISH TO MEET OR THEN BE REAL AND DO SO. I am a point in my life that I do not need more shit.

I a 62 yr straight DWM. I around 220lbs. I have brown hair and eyes. height is 5ft inches . I can host my home outside of Toledo. No, I do not still live with my Mom. I love to garden and be outside. I like be active and learn new things. of favs is sushi, wine and great dinner company.
Please non smokers, If I wanted kiss an Ash tray I would. If you contact me, please be real. getting tired of people just disappear tell you how much they want you then just fall off the of the earth.

I am looking for women that have a great laugh. Someone has laugh at jokes. Can you communicate? Are you honest? Do you enjoy the journey? Does having dinner, going the Art Museum interest you? it is not just about the . It does take some chemistry. Tell me what are your interests?
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The wall of shame
Posted:Jun 9, 2011 9:22 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2021 11:11 am

I hate to do this, however when I find frauds and fakes on here, I WILL posts their names on here. You may contact at your own risk. By some chance if you feel that I am wroung about a certain person, please leave me a note.

The first person up hornyhoney03. She has posted several times on multiple groups looking for a gangbang. Then each time stops logging in for days and days allowing the men and women to wait and wait. This last time she asked what weekend would work best. She allowed both weekends to expire with no word. On good word I know of one female that sent an email to her directly, asking to meet over lunch and offering any help. She did recieve a reply but no follow thru.
UPDATE 20 JUNE 2011, I guess after more than 2 weeks of being off, Ms. horneyhoney03 decided to log back on. I guess that the truth hurts, I can only guess that, she removed my posts. Guess because she blocked me from viewing the posts.
What a name what a tag, sexykitten001. I thought this charming woman was the real thing. Had a couple of good chats then one evening after putting on a show, we had a delightful conversation. Everything seemed on track for a meeting. I promised to make dinner. I sent off the info she requested and the wait started. Tried making sure she got the email, tried paging her on IM. I have become invisable to her. I finally sent off an email to her asking her to respond. Nothing. Woman complain about men on here, let me tell you some woman do the same thing. This gal is just a big tease, flash some pics, tell you how bad she wants it then its off to promise the next guy the same thing. Update 14 oct 2011, now she just signs out of IM when I send her a message. Just letting her know she made my blog.

So here I am on IM the other night. I see someone that looks interesting and I send, "Evening, Care to chat?. I get back I am not meeting right now, If you read my profile you would see that. Good luck., Well as a standard I can not read profiles. I understand how this makes me a really terrible person. That and being a single white Male puts me as scum of society. So the little tag line with Ellie 19653 never says anything about not meeting. It says Men and woman. So I respond back with Sorry, perhaps you should put that in your tag line to save from being bothered. I get this response about getting over myself. So after rereading this I told her bye and you are blocked. Wow give a suggestion and get treated like crap!
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Posted:Jan 25, 2022 10:03 am
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2022 6:45 pm

Well maybe radiation will work for my prostate. So this could be better news?
WHY, WHY , why
Posted:Jan 11, 2022 10:41 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

Has this site become so hard to meet someone, anyone on here? I realize that the woman are out numbered on here. But I see tag lines all over the place wanting guys. So often you get a reply back, then nothing. Recently a local woman was on here, we chatted a little, were going to set up a time to meet and POOF, she just stops replying, on IM a lot but no reply there also. Couples are just as bad, do not get me started on that!

All I want is some play time before I get a my prostate removed. Before my sex life ends. Why is this so freaking hard?
So this is Christmas?
Posted:Dec 24, 2021 9:09 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

I still dread this holiday. After working retail for 13 years I have seen the ugly side of this holiday. Fights, screaming, yelling and other sad behaviors. I hate how everything closes down, ya I know I am single. My family is gone and my is estranged.

But then something today happened. A real Merry Christmas with feeling from the gate guard at Menards. Driving home I realized this was not the first, one heart felt greeting of this year. They have happened all around me. Even I have given some out. Is this from covid? I can not say.

The few years my giving has went down. I give but its more to others, a few cards there some small things to my favorite eating place. Gone is that pressure to get THE . I want to brighten someones day. So my idea of this year was to get a number of for my waitresses. I bought a couple more than I needed. They got to pick out what they wanted. Did it ever work! All 8 were so excited to get something they wanted. It took all the big pressure off. If I would have picked out for them I would only have gotten one out of 8 right. This worked out to a perfect 8!

I have no to give you. Just advice. Find a happy place this holiday and enjoy. Remember its about each other, say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays with spirit. It may just brighten someone's day.

Where ever you are, whom ever you are and to all serving our Nation, Happy Holidays!
Not that many care,
Posted:Dec 22, 2021 11:46 am
Last Updated:Dec 23, 2021 7:44 pm

So the prostate search goes , are there any doctors out there that actually do their freaking job?????? I am more confused now than months ago and I do not believe surgery is the best route.
two friends two paths
Posted:Nov 20, 2021 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2021 9:55 am

So I got the call today, more texted today that a former friend had died this morning from covid. Just a couple of days before my next door neighbor was found dead at his Home. Funny how paths can differ over time. My buddy Ed was a colorful guy. You knew where you stood with him! He was retired, but still worked. He was the guy you wanted watching your back.

A mutual friend of my other friend contacted me about her getting covid and her sliding down hill. We broke up on bad terms. She took me for some Money and other things. We met in a silly way from a friend of mine that hauled steel. We seemed like a great team, but the cracks slowly appeared over time. When the end came it ended with a thud! I think she was surprised that I just walked away. My resentment had been building for several months and the final straw did it.

Funny to think about how good friends can turn to old friends then no friends. How others are like a great pair of shoes. Comfortable, worn and trusted. Almost no thought or work to make that friendship work. My last two friendships started with great promise, just to nose dive. I think I have lost my touch in picking friends. I must be getting soft in my old age, or my sight is going and I miss seeing the clues.
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Could this be good bye?
Posted:Nov 17, 2021 9:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2021 9:15 pm

So this may be the end of my time on FriendFinder-x. Not because of the people or site, which I thought would drive me to quit. But because two things, a high PSA result and findings of Cancer in my Prostate. I have now had two Doctors look at it and it needs to come out.

I hate how people tell me everything will be alright. I know my sex life will be impacted by this. I love how the Doctors tell you how if you can get it up, women love not to have to clean up your cum. A pill may fix things if not then you can eject yourself with a drug, then there is always more surgery. I so wanted to tell the last Doctors how at 62 sooo many woman think I am over the Hill. Now this? Over the Hill and forgotten about at best. Sex has been one of my last pleasures in life, now I watch as it will soon disappear.

So I doubt I will get any takers, but if someone out there wants to give me some moments before this happens in January, let me know.
Wondering about.....
Posted:Nov 12, 2021 7:20 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

So this year as I get ready to turn 62, my thoughts have been interesting. Oh I am thinking more about what I want to be doing in 5 years. Will my health allow me to keep going? But I have been thinking more about sex. It seems that many on here view my age as dead. Far from it. I do admit that finding someone on here seems to grow more distant with each passing year. Thoughts of getting certain things done has increased. I do catch myself thinking about those I loved and knew that have gone to the other side, remembering times past.

When I was in my 20's I remember how I could watch the Sun set or storms come and be at peace. I lost that some how, but recently it has found it way back to me. I thinking Bike riding has gave me that live in the moment, stop and smell the flowers.

Hard to believe I made it this far.
Back home!
Posted:Sep 6, 2021 9:21 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2021 8:08 pm

280 miles and 5 days later I am back from biking in Michigan. What a trip, my ass hurts my back is sore but give me a couple of days to heal up and I will be back to normal. Saw some lovely country got to fly down hills and ride back up them on the other side. Great trip that ended well.
I amm Ouuta here.
Posted:Aug 31, 2021 11:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

Well just for the rest of the week. Off to bike from Lansing Mich to The Tip of lower Mich.. Hope I am ready as between the heat and my gout I have not rode a lot the past month.

See you all on the flip side!
Have I bit off too much
Posted:Aug 28, 2021 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

Those few that follow my posts know gout has sidelined me for a few weeks. The heat has sucked and throw in rain my riding has been few miles. This coming week I have a 5 day ride to do in Mich.. Not sure I am really ready for this most days are 60 to mid 50 mile range. Guess we will see what happens!
Wait for it.
Posted:Aug 8, 2021 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2022 4:33 am

So I am taking off on a long needed vacation. Not far away, but a break just the same. Hope that my ankle holds up and my headaches lessen up with getting off some of the meds for my recent issue. Wish me luck, no party life just some clean living for a few days!
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