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Assumptions
Posted:Nov 28, 2014 10:08 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2014 4:31 pm
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Feel free to comment with the assumptions that irritate you on FriendFinder-x.

Nothing worse than having people make assumptions on each other, especially without any prior knowledge of the person.

My cam is on quite often (not showing body parts as I'm not providing free porn for the masses), and yes I am usually in bed. Why does this immediately make everyone think I'm either lucky to be a lady of leisure or I'm a lazy madam? The truth is, like many people I have disabilities and a hell of a lot of time to fill.

FriendFinder-x is an incredible way of being sociable (I chat in the UK chatroom) without having people visiting. No matter what time of day or night it is there is always someone around to chat to.

Another irritating assumption, why do men think that every woman on here is absolutely gagging for cock, any cock. Strangely enough women are as fussy online as they are in RL, there still has to be physical attraction and an ability to hold a conversation at least!
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Instant Message
Posted:Dec 3, 2014 9:26 am
Last Updated:Dec 4, 2014 8:01 am
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What is it about the instant message system that makes men behave so badly?

The only reason I am showing as logged onto IM is because you can't run the cam without it, I mute the alerts and rarely look at the tab due to the type of messages I receive.

Calling us names for not responding to your messages will not get you a reply so why do it? If I responded to all the incoming messages I wouldn't have a decent conversation with anyone! This is why I chat in the UK room not IM, I can talk to multiple people at once that way.

Show me your boobs/pussy/arse etc is never going to work, just because I'm on cam doesn't mean I'm giving a free porn show to every voyeur on the site. My cam is a faceshot to show that I am female, the pics on the profile are me and they aren't decades old. Also, what's with the playground taunting? You're scared/prove you aren't fake are also not going to get me to concede to your infantile demands that I flash flesh for your amusement.

You're boring/ugly etc. when you aren't getting what you want has a simple answer, get the hell off my cam and watch someone else then! Why waste an IM to say that, I honestly do not give a shit about your opinion of me.

Ladies, feel free to add other examples I may have missed, lol
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Meets
Posted:Nov 16, 2014 10:43 am
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2014 4:32 pm
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Had a meet yesterday and met a fantastic new friend. We've been talking in the UK chatroom for about 4yrs now and finally met for coffee.

It was fantastic, even funnier and more friendly in person than in the chatroom. Really can't wait to meet them again.
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FriendFinder-x and Profile viewing
Posted:Nov 10, 2014 9:01 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2014 7:26 am
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Anyone noticed the mass of blue hyper-links on just-about every page?

So many now you can't use your mouse without hitting half a dozen. Not a problem you say as long as you don't click on them, but FriendFinder-x then developed the "quick-view" which opens if the mouse goes near it. Not a problem I hear you say again, just move fast enough that they don't open. Here is where FriendFinder-x is creating problems, even moving really fast over a hyper-link of any FriendFinder-x members name counts as a profile view.

This creates inflated figures on profile views but it also sends some members searching the site for the viewer in question. I'm losing count of the people getting belligerent about if you've viewed them or not.
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B'days
Posted:Nov 2, 2014 5:40 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2014 9:28 am
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Well it's Markd b'day again so a fresh album up, not as many this time as he forgot about using the camera, lol.

Been a really good night so far, he really appreciated turning 40 while getting his first champagne bj, hehe... off to take him up again in a minute as he was promised a full night of fun.
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Pics
Posted:Oct 25, 2014 3:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2014 5:45 pm
3609 Views

Had fun this evening and posted some new pics of my outfit for the night,
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Pictures
Posted:Apr 11, 2011 1:28 pm
Last Updated:Nov 2, 2014 5:42 pm
4074 Views

There will be a slight delay in the new pics now undies are either too small or the laces are too short. So you either have to wait for me to lose weight, or have the pennies for more new corsets that fit.
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Crabbycam
Posted:Apr 1, 2011 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2014 7:40 pm
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Running out of time before grandchildren are due so crabbycam is going to be very boring for a while unless I've got company. You are welcome to come watch me crochet if you wish but I'm not a waitress and I don't take orders so please stop insisting I show things I have no intention of flashing off for your entertainment.
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Shopoholic
Posted:Mar 29, 2011 4:28 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 8:40 am
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Those new pics that Mark took have really got me taking an interest in underwear again, so watch this space for pics of the new range of lovely corsets I'm starting to splurge on.
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Cams
Posted:Mar 18, 2011 7:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2014 9:11 am
4346 Views

Guys, give us a break sometimes eh? What I will and won't show on cam depends on my mood/time of day/company or not. Unless I have company it's usually not a show. Even when it is, please don't tell us what to do, this isn't a porn film and it certainly doesn't need 100 directors. One final thing, if you don't like the pic, then turn it off and watch someone else, just being abusive is a waste of everyones time and quite frankly, boring.

Whinge over for now
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Absent but not forgotten, lol
Posted:Mar 16, 2011 4:22 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 8:40 am
4115 Views

Not been in the chatroom the last couple of days, been a little busy, will be in there on Thursday evening this week though
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Marks Reward
Posted:Mar 14, 2011 7:15 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2014 7:41 pm
4326 Views

Just posted a new album up with the pics Mark took when he was here last, he'd just finished his dissertation so I thought i'd suprise him with some underwear for once, lol.
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