Stop spending so much time watching football and working on your golf game and invest a little time becoming a better lover. I had a situation that came up recently and when he asked me what he did wrong, it was so bad I didn't even know where to start. So I told him to read She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. I read it a few years ago and I thought it was excellent. It's the #1 best seller in Human Sexuality on Amazon. So put down the remote and pick up a copy. This is not an advertisement, it's a public service announcement.