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Curious
Posted:Dec 18, 2008 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2008 2:02 pm
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Just a thought how many folks watch adult movies or use these as a prelude to sexual fun? What type of adult movies do you like to watch?
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Just Wondering...
Posted:Nov 7, 2008 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2008 8:56 am
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So here we are back again after quite a long time away from the site but not too far from the lifestyle, I might add (at least in thought, yearning and fantasy that is)

The reason for our earlier migration was ... well lets just say a bit of guilt and perhaps a moral twinge for both of us. Yet after a while our social life seemed less exciting, our net antics less stimulating and our sex life whilst still very hot felt like it was missing something - kinda like coffee without the milk, still enjoyable but less creamier!

Just recently the mere mention of getting back into the lifestyle, the beautiful bodies of sexy, curvaceous women and young men with thick cocks and loads of stamina had my wife as excited as a and me drooling in anticipation. Hence the decision to get back on the proverbial "" - so fellow swingers can the prodigal two be welcomed back into the fold - pretty please?
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STD's/STI's
Posted:Jan 19, 2007 6:47 am
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2008 2:03 pm
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Hey did anyone see the Tyra Banks show yesterday?

It was all about STI's/ STD's - anyway was a bit scary to find out you could catch some from toilet seats and also from oral sex.

How many of us actually ask potential sex partners that we meet on this site or at swinger parties it they have actually taken a STD/STI test or AIDS test lately before we get down, or if they have a STD/STI. Sure a condom gets used for penetration but what about oral sex and will you say no if they have'nt been tested?
Yes I do ask if the other party has had a recent STD/STI test.
No I don't ask as it spoils the mood.
I don't ask because it's not important at the time.
If they did or did not it's their own business.
If it's just oral sex, I won't ask
No test then we can't get fresh!
Go for it either way afterall a condom will be used.
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DV/DA
Posted:Jan 19, 2007 6:34 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2008 1:26 pm
1875 Views

No that's not a new dvd format or a new political party(lol)

Interested to know how many of the local lasses have tried a double vag or double anal or have thought about it. Are there any that would like to share their feelings or thoughts on the subject?
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Vent
Posted:Jan 8, 2007 1:02 am
Last Updated:Dec 6, 2008 8:55 am
1817 Views

Ok so this has got absolutely nothing to do with swinging or sex, just a bit of a rant.

Ever realise that when a sales person sells you something - the product in question is superb and can do just about anything and the back up service promises to be just as good? Then comes the after sales service and man it is inevitable that you will pick up problems either because of incompetence,poor quality, lack of understanding on the service advisor's part, admin and/or procedural requirements (never mentioned when you bought the darn thing)or just a don't care attitude. Then to top it all they get the same issue wrong consistently. It gets my blood boiling just thinking about it. Now I can understand a mistake and forgive it even though it does inconvenience me but to do it four times in a row is just &%##@@*# wrong. I am talking about a large motor company here - B M Trouble You to be exact.

These same companies spend millions on advertising and it takes only one or two employees to F... it all up. Perhaps the Disney culture of service or the Japanese culture of doing it right the first time should be what they are incalcating in their employees rather than wasting money on advertising. Let the customer sell their business - Why don't companies worry about satisfying their current customer base in addition to sourcing new ones rather than sourcing new ones and forgetting the ones they already have cos thats a sure fire way to lose customers.

Anyone else feel the same or had a shitty experience of late?
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Wish
Posted:Dec 29, 2006 12:10 am
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2007 5:44 am
1929 Views

Wished that Fridays was Casual Sex Day instead of casual day in the office.

Imagine shagging the good looking blond in accounts, or a great orgy in the boardroom or if you're a secretary - your hunky boss on his desk. With no repercussions or hangups about what happened the next day. Everybody gets a raise on Fridays (lol)

If only...
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Imagining
Posted:Dec 18, 2006 3:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2007 1:04 am
1878 Views

I am not so sure lately whether it's just me or whether it really appears as if gender normality lines with regards to sex is appearing to be very blurred.

I read a few years ago, somewhere, can't exactly recall where, that in the future gratification of the human sexual urge will be what counts and gender will not matter - seems as if that sexadamus prediction is coming to pass or is it?

Well fellow bloggers and FriendFinder-x members what are your thoughts?
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Choice??
Posted:Dec 18, 2006 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2007 11:36 pm
1923 Views

Girth or length?
A generalisation that seems to come to the fore (fallacy or not) is that white women prefer guys with bigger dicks, not necessarily thicker but more the longer type.

Most women of colour like a bigger dick but prefer girth as opposed to a gum tree. Something to do with the feeling of fullness I am told.

And then sex therapists say its got to do with technique rather than size. But does size then really count or not in the eyes of most women?
and if it does would most average men give their left nut for a longer thicker schlong?
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Squirt?
Posted:Oct 11, 2006 6:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2006 1:42 pm
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I've been wondering lately - shit that could be detrimental - anyway back to the matter at hand - percentage wise, how many women can actually squirt and also how does it happen?

I've seen some women do it and wonder whether it's just a select few, possibly because of some physiological difference to other women or an overextended libido or can all women possibly do it? Is it entirely dependent on the type of stimulation? Is it in response to the stimulation of the much talked about G spot, which in itself is sometimes difficult to pinpoint let alone stimulate or is it urine which results from pressure on the bladder perhaps? Is it an actual orgasm?

Ok so I am a bit clueless with this one, so help with my education then!!!
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Well I never...
Posted:Oct 10, 2006 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2008 1:26 pm
2148 Views

I Recently stopped off at our local adult video store to pick up an erotic movie to help stimulate the preconceived nights sexual adventures and our sexsenses.

Anyway whilst browsing I came across an entire selection of videos involving shemales. Now the covers of the videos depicted beautiful women with huge tits and - you guessed it dicks, some with 8'' plus, fucking women and in some cases males. I found this very intriguing and although I am very str8 it got me aroused. I hired a video and watched it later with my wife. To our suprise my wife got incredibly wet watching the video and I was very horny watching chicks with dicks fuck other women and even males.

I guess for a woman the thought of a body in the sembalence of a woman with a beautiful face, huge beautiful tits and a mans tool fucking her could be a definite attraction butI cannot understand the arousal on my part.

Can anyone shed some light???
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Do you do it?
Posted:Sep 30, 2006 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2006 1:43 pm
1995 Views

Ok ok - everyone does it but that being said is not want I meant!

Being "swingers" and I use the term loosely cos' we are fairly new to the full swop thing, we have found the human psyche and in particular ours to be a bit strange when we meet or see people around us of late.

We wonder whether the person/s we are observing/meeting with are swingers or have swung or what their sexual preferences/tastes are. We even find ourselves having delicious thoughts or fantasies of the mentioned parties particularly if the party is sexually attractive.
Both my wife and I do this and wonder if anyone else does?
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Prudish you think?
Posted:Sep 19, 2006 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2008 2:05 pm
1987 Views

Ok so here we are swinging to our sexual contentment in a orgy of note and I happen to cum in my wife's sweet pussy, whilst the other guy is being sucked off by my sweet wife.
Lo and behold after I have pulled out then the guy that was being sucked off latches on to my wife's pussy lapping and sucking up all there is available like an electrolux.

He later confides that it tasted like custard up in there. Wow I am speechless, never had a straight guy eat a creampie and enjoy it. Love seeing a woman do it but a straight guy - Yuck - am I being a prude here?
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To feel or not to feel? - that is the question!
Posted:Sep 8, 2006 11:00 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2006 1:43 pm
1931 Views

Ever feel a twinge of guilt or embarrassment after a session involving a full swap?
Usually lasts for a day or two - funny enough both of us feel this way, and wonder if this is normal or are we just a little weird?
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