so what is up with a guy suddenly turning off the light before clothes come off? i don't mean dimming things down so it's night-light level (e.g. indirect light pours into the room from an adjacent room). i mean dark. a single f-ing candle counts. granted you might not have more than one... but i'm a visual person! turn the damn light on. you would think someone of the male gender would be far more visual than me. and this is the first time you're with the chick that might've been so difficult for you to even get to meet. I think

dim light = cool
dim, flickering candlelight = yummy
almost zero light from a candle = hmm.. makes me wonder. i'm on the fence of whether this is yummy or semi-suspicious.
no light = suspicious.

am i alone in this opinion?

So do you think a guy who likes to start removing any form of clothing after all the lights are off the *first* time he's w/ a chick is: