Let's get this party started...
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Posted:Apr 20, 2015 7:56 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2015 6:51 pm
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Well, spring is in the air and being horny seems to be a part of that. I am 41 years old, single, no , no drama. I like to be on FriendFinder-x for friends with common interests. My interests in the bedroom are not those I share around the office at work, nor with my friends who have been married for 20 years. In fact, my friends say things like, "Don't say those things, it will give him ideas". I hope I never get to that point. Anyway, I am starting this blog to share fantasies, ideas, advice, experiences, and fun. All I ask is that if you post, please keep it real.
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Sleepin all nakey and stuff...
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Posted:Jul 17, 2015 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2020 3:11 pm
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Giving up some inhibitions all lioness like, I have found that I am the most comfortable sleeping au naturale. I live alone, except for the dog, and he doesn't seem to mind my preferences. 
In the winter time, I prefer to sleep with pajamas and fuzzy socks...Now this is strictly sleeping mind you. In the summer time though, it makes me feel so cool and comfy. I have thought about finding a roommate, but after living alone for sometime, I don't want to give this up. I often take the out in the backyard sometimes for his potty breaks during the night. I love to be outdoors and free.
Now a days you have to think about technology. I live very close to an Air Force base. Now you know there are some serious monitoring going on, maybe even in my backyard, that is privacy fenced in, but not totally private. The idea of that only encourages me to continue my lewdness.
I spent lots of time hanging out with friends while in high school and college (Go Cowboys!) on a sandbar in Oklahoma drinking, listening to some good ol country music, and finding fun places to take off and "play". Sure we had a wiseass who didn't have a date try to sneak up on us, but nothing like today's privacy perils. We didn't have "drones" chasing us down, videoing everything we did. And the phones? Not one of us had phones with cameras that we pulled out and tried to post on a world wide public media site. In fact, the web was something really new then, most of us that were really tech savy had an email address. LOL
Days have changed...but at least I can still be naked with in my own home. Well until it becomes politically incorrect to shun clothing...
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Exploring can be interesting....Reflection of an Uninhibited Lioness
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Posted:Jul 15, 2015 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2015 3:52 pm
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Now, I very seldom have regrets, I just don't live there. As I have explored my sexual identity, I have found things I would never thought I would enjoy so much. On the flip side, I have identified things that I am not willing to try twice. I have tried to reflect lately on what have I learned?
Recently, the opportunity to be set up for a perfect MFM. While the guy considered himself "bi" he seriously needs to reflect on that. He was only interested in me playing with his ass. In the line of work I'm in, I can spot a narcissist a mile away. But, I lowered my expectations because as I have blogged before, I want to have a MFM night. I don't think this is something I want to pursue like more than once, but I want to see what it's like. I also had reservations about this fella being 6 years younger than me, as I know that being a cougaress is not what I want to be...I also have learned that every rat bastard on this site is married or attached. It doesn't matter if you put I will not see married men on your profile, it seems that only encourages men to try to pull one over on ya.
So, in the past year...I have learned some great insight about who I am, what I enjoy, and what I don't want to live without.
I need a man (don't take this like I NEED a man)...when I say I need a man...I mean I want a lover that is very masculine, that doesn't want me to shove anything up his ass, although if he wants to fuck my ass, I am not going to object . Lol. I want a guy who can't wait to dive in and lick my pussy (hey, it's not going to lick itself, right). A guy who is happy when I delightfully go down on him because that is one of my favorite things to do (to just make me feel appreciated not expected). I like to be more submissive in bed, but I don't want to be dominated like with whips and chains...that is where the "man" thing comes in to play. Never even thought about a cream pie before, but now I know that I love it! My desire to have my hair held is still as strong as ever as is playing in the hot tub and outdoors. I really like my nipples chewed and sucked on, but I do not want to do that to a man. Is it a double standard? Perhaps, but a girl can't control what she wants...
I have noticed lately that there are very few readers on the site...It might be that everyone is outside and having a lovely summer...but just the same, I might take some time off to reevaluate.
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Lioness roars TOP 10
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Posted:Jul 14, 2015 4:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 1:3 am
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Ugh...I guess I need to go over the top 10 lies a married man tells you...
1. When you ask if they are married and you get "yes and no".
2. They make lots of plans, but have something come up just before.
3. They get anxious in public when seeing people they know.
4. They have some heroic reasons why they can't have you cum at their place.
5. You get on facebook and see a picture of them feeding cake to their wife.
6. Completely selfish in bed.
7. Talk about how horrible their EXwives were and how they slept in seperate rooms/beds.
8. Get time frames wrong, like I've been divorced for a few years while the wifey is living in his house.
9. Another heroic move is that once caught, "They are just helping their wife financially to get her on her feet". LOL
10. Plays the martyr and asks stupid shit like, "I know your disappointed" and "I would understand if you didn't want to see me again" and this guy's best is...if you don't want to see me again just say it..."It".
Ok so a lil Taylor Swift just slipped in, oopps.
Dating is so hard. In true lioness fashion... I get knocked down, but I get up again...(Chumbawamba reference) NEXT!
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My life is literally a Trainwreck, and it's awesome
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Posted:Jul 13, 2015 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2015 5:20 am
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“I am a woman with thoughts and questions and shit to say. I say if I'm beautiful. I say if I'm strong. You will not determine my story — I will. I will speak and share and fuck and love, and I will never apologize to the frightened millions who resent that they never had it in them to do it. I stand here and I am amazing, for you. Not because of you. I am not who I sleep with. I am not my weight. I am not my mother. I am myself. (2014 Gloria Awards and Gala)”
― Amy Schumer
This girl has nailed my attitude about life. Of course she got it a few years before me, but still, I am there. To achieve this philosophy of life, I feel it was all the shit I have been through in the past, the years of therapy to try to get rid of it, and then the enlightening light bulb came on. YOLO, who the fuck do I have to impress, worry about what they think of me and/or decisions, and why can't I do what I want with wild abandonment and no intention of apologizing for who I am. Society, family, and the church tells us (at least 20 years ago) that you go to school, get married, have , have grandkids, retire and die. I never wanted that. I was pressured into thinking I wanted that but here I am. I am complete, I am happy with the life I have built for myself, and I couldn't give 2 fucks what others think about it. I am strong.
Now, do I have sex with who I want? You betcha. Do I have control of who I date, who I respond to on this site, and who I decide to continue to date? You better believe it. Do I make mistakes? Oh, yeah. Do I lay down in my mistakes and waller in the them and think that this is horrible and I am such a loser? Hell no. Life is about screwing up, learning from your mistakes, and forgiving yourself and... Moving on...
One night, it was like 2 in the morning, I woke up and there was this chick on the comedy channel...I sleep with the tv on...and there is no telling what is on the tv when I wake up. But there I was, a lil younger, a lil prettier, and most important a lot funnier yet still the same familiar sarcasm that makes me one of those wild and crazy friends that is on your speed dial titled "Fuck Yeah". I couldn't believe there was someone out there with the exact philosophy on dating, men, and just life. I couldn't go back to sleep and watched the whole hour show. It was then 3 am and I was not lonely (Matchbox 20 shout out). I was inspired. God bless Amy. So when I go out, I almost always have someone who's never met me say, "You remind me of that sarcastic totally ridiculous blonde on tv"...yeah, that's a total compliment. So now, this Friday night, Amy has her own movie coming out, "Trainwreck". I can't wait to see what she has next. So, are you content and happy with yourself, are you an Amy? Life is good.
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Kissing not for the weak
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Posted:Jul 8, 2015 8:58 am
Last Updated:Jul 8, 2015 6:49 pm
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Kissing is a talent that most think they possess but few are truly gifted. I remember in college (the first time) I was absolutely spoiled by one of the best kissers ever. If he hadn't cheated on his girlfriend with me, then cheated on me with another girl, I would have stayed with him forever. LOL No regrets, in fact he was the one that introduced me to some kinky fun that I have had the second opportunity in life to continue to explore, albeit twenty years later. Memories...sorry, back to the topic at hand...
Kissing. I have had a few guys who must have watched National Geographic Lizard Week in order to gain hints on how to kiss. Their tongues flicking in and out of my mouth, what the hell? Then there is the kisser who tries to dominate the kissing and eventually either makes it so you can't breathe or you bang teeth...neither one is sexy to me. Then there are the forehead kisses...I kind of like those, not sure why, but there is a time and place for everything.
My favorite kisses are those with minimal slobber (lol), they are passionate and heated, licking lips, heavy breathing, and goal oriented (headed somewhere). I don't like it when someone asks if they are a good kisser. If I think you are a good kisser, they will tell you....I could rate the kissers I've had here on FriendFinder-x, but I don't kiss and tell.
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Seeing Eye to Eye
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Posted:Jul 7, 2015 8:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2015 4:12 pm
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When communicating with our significant other, we don't always see eye to eye. Why is it that sex takes up the least amount of time in our lives, but yet it causes the most problems? I like being on this site because I can find out what I am getting into before dating. Unlike pof or the matching one...where guys pretend to want a relationship, then try to jump you on the first date...
Why is it that it has to be so complicated? I know what I like and what I need...In the past, the guys I were with were pretty vanilla. I need a little more than that, but I know what I don't like which is a good place to be. At least I thought it was...
Guys are looking for a girl to fuck, because a lot of the things they would like to do, they can't do or won't divulge that they want to do with their wife of 10, 20 , 30 years. Hence, maybe the sexual needs change when you pick a life partner, only to come out again later in life. By this time, you have spent a lot of time with your spouse, gone through a lot of things together, share , friend, and money. So men won't leave their wives (THEY NEVER DO, AND YOU ARE NOT AN EXCEPTION). Anyway, when you decide to get married, do you leave those needs behind? How important is it to see eye to eye on sexual preferences in a long term relationship/marriage, etc.?
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Lioness in need of
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Posted:Jul 2, 2015 8:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2015 4:15 pm
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This uninhibited lioness is looking forward to some good 'ol fashioned snuggle time this weekend. It's much deserved after the insane week I have had. While Saturday is the fourth, I'm hoping for some fireworks of my own...Anybody else have alternate plans for the fourth?
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Ain't Nobody Got Time for That
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Posted:Jul 1, 2015 2:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2024 1:3 am
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I've seen a few blogs lately about being stood up with no call, no text, etc...That really sucks. I am sorry you started talking and making plans with an asshole. Please do not make up excuses or accept any as to why they did not even bother to call. We all have 24 hours in a day. We prioritize our lives, and someone who can't take 3 seconds to text, doesn't have you in mind. The professor tried this with me. He was working so hard, he had so many responsibilities, blah, blah, blah...The truth is...that we make time for the things we value. Oh well, live and learn....the professor taught me a lesson! LOL It was fun while it lasted. That is perfectly fine with me, you know this lioness is on to the next...
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No Taylor Swift Here
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Posted:Jun 30, 2015 12:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 5:18 am
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That Taylor Swift, you better be good to her, or her next song will be about how you screwed her over. Now, while that works for her, I don't kiss and tell...usually. So I was thinking about blogging about some wild times from my past, and I still may, as those are not only highly entertaining, they are also hilarious. Lately, I have had some fun times as well. I FINALLY got to see Jurassic World in 3D...of course that is not really the situations I was thinking about. I'd like to have a friend or two who can be just as crazy and wild as me, yet I can trust that my stories don't hit the street... I am somewhat of a professional you know.
But then I think about all the fun times I've had and done some crazy shit, yet even though those I shared them with are long gone...it's kind of fun to keep those in the vault "Seinfeld Reference". Something about the naughtiness of knowing things that would embarrass most of my friends, and certainly my mother...that makes it awesome to know something that no one else knows.
Then I think it would be nice to go out and get a pitcher of margaritas with the girls and spill some of the fun antics I have had.
Some of the events in my life were kind of sad, but once I add my sarcasm and fun loving attitude, I can usually put some kind of spin on it to find the humor. Yes, even those really bad dates that you can not wait to get home and send them on their way. I like to laugh, and everyone always comments on my giggle, so sometimes it is just best to sit back, and enjoy the ride......home.
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A Guy for Each Circle
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Posted:Jun 25, 2015 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2015 6:10 pm
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A Venn Diagram of a personal life. What's a girl to do if she's got a guy for each circle?
You have a guy that is PHE-NOM is the bedroom, like toe curling, back arching, crying out loud indescribable mind blowing fuck your brains out sex. Out of bed, this guy couldn't carry on an intelligent conversation to save his life.
The friend is just that. He's been around for a long time, through grad school, my dad dying, moving, etc. Sex with him is fun, friendly, and familiar. He knows what I like, and he delivers. There is just no lovey feelings there.
Then there was the love. How do you distinguish the love with lust. I'm not going into that circle, but you can imagine it lacked the other two areas.
Finding all 3 is a true treasure. What are your thoughts on this simple explanation of a complicated subject?
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Hump Day, Schmump Day
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Posted:Jun 10, 2015 2:03 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2015 9:17 pm
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Sure hope this picture shows up, if it doesn't...it's gonna be a lame post.
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