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Killer Men
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Posted:Feb 8, 2015 8:31 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2015 9:55 am
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"Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." M. Atwood.
I came across that quote today and it really hit home. In my case, it is one hundred percent true. It is the reason I go through so much trouble screening guys. I know MOST of the guys on FriendFinder-x are safe, but as with everything, the select few ruin it for everyone else. The problem is, know which ones are likely to be a killer and which ones are just looking to get laid.
The anonymity of the internet has led the men on FriendFinder-x to believe that manners don't matter. They do matter and they matter in a big way. If a guy is rude, crude, and oversteps on the internet, there is a better than average chance that they will do it in real and women know this.
I've been shooting guys down left and right because of bad manners. Many of them start off with assumptions that put them on bad footing from the start. JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN IS ON FriendFinder-x DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS WILLING TO FUCK YOU. You have to EARN the right to get in her panties.
If a woman posts a picture of her tits, it does not mean she's easy. It means she knows her target audience. She gets more views and has a better chance of getting what she wants. DON'T ASSUME ANYTHING.
The women on FriendFinder-x are daughters, sisters, mothers, and yes, sometimes wives. When a guy sends a message to a woman, he needs to think about how he would want the women in his life treated and he needs to behave accordingly. For all he knows, he is talking to a woman in his life. Women will be more open to chatting and will at least give a guy a chance if he comes across as courteous.
The best way to earn the right into our panties is be courteous and have good manners. Nice guys have an advantage on here because there is such a contrast between the nice guys and the ass hats. Don't be an ass hat.
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Staying Safe
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Posted:Feb 4, 2015 11:39 am
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2015 2:16 pm
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I recently lowered my safety standards and had a scary reality check as a result.
My standard procedures involve chatting for a while to determine if the guy is rude, selfish, crazy, or might have a suspiciously well used shovel.
My second step is to meet the guy in a public location, usually a coffee shop in a bookstore so that if he doesn't show up, I can look like I was there for the books. We meet, chat for a while, and part company. The parting company is because I get wrapped up in the moment and I have found my brain works better when my panties aren't wet.
Third step is to meet at a motel paid for by the guy. I figure it is harder to clean up a crime scene in a motel and there are people around to hear screams. Yes, I actually do think about these things. When they check into the motel, their name is on file if I do disappear.
I have a friend that I send as much info about the guy as I can. Her job is to alert the police if I don't contact her in a timely manner and I make damn sure the guy knows about her.
After the guy has met these requirements and been deemed safe, home visits may commence.
I pre-screened a guy who threw up a couple red flags, mostly in that he pushed for stuff I wasn't interested in and he was too far away. The urge to get laid got to be too much and I determined he was 'probably' safe because of his previous employment which I had located by cyber-stalking him. That previous employment was also one of the main attractions. I'll call him Dude.
I let Dude talk me into relaxing my safety requirements because I can be as stupid as the next person and his employment would have screened him. I agreed to drive almost an hour to his home town which I hate doing on a first meet. I prefer to meet at a halfway point. Once there, we met at a local bar because there were no bookstores. The fact that I had driven so far contributed to my making the decision to go home with him. After all, I'd gotten pretty, and driven so far, I wanted to get off.
Because I'm paranoid as hell, I made sure to touch stuff; his truck, the door of his apartment, the railing directly inside, etc. I did this because if the cops dusted after my disappearance, they'd be able to prove I was in the house. Yep, this is how my brain works.
I didn't have any red flags once we were in the house, he just seemed excited and I relaxed. Halfway through our evening, I noticed the pistol and rifle in a bracket attached to the bed frame.
Now, I'm comfortable with guns and Dude and I had talked about me having one, but it hadn't clicked that he might have one or as it turned out, a small arsenal. We discussed the pistol and at one point, I had it in my hands. Like I said, I'm okay with guns and shoot regularly. Gun people are cool.
Where things got scary was when I went to the restroom. I was on my way back to the bedroom when I heard the bolt of a rifle being worked. I knew the noise. I don't like that noise when I'm naked and in a strange dude's home. I stopped and got out from in front of the door and listened for a few seconds. Then I asked Dude what that noise was. He identified one of the rifles we'd talked about.
At this point the pucker factor was way the hell up. I peeked around the door knowing that particular rifle would go through not only the door, but multiple walls and people with no difficulty. It was a big freaking gun. He had it in his hands, but not threatening. I asked him to put it down and I think he realized his mistake. He did as I asked and I was out of there a few minutes later.
If he had wanted to hurt me, I was as vulnerable as I could have possibly been. Naked, in a strange town, in a room with no other exit and no windows. Fortunately, he didn't want to hurt me and I learned a valuable lesson.
For the guys I refer to this blog, this is the reason you have to jump through my hoops. For others who came across this on your own, learn from my mistakes. Your safety is more important than a lousy lay.
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This Is How You Do It
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Posted:Feb 4, 2015 12:50 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2015 4:11 pm
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These profiles pictures are just a few of my favorites. If you are a dude and you have actually bothered to read this, take freaking notes. You will improve your views ratios if you take my advice.
First, DO AWAY WITH THE DICK PIC. Women hate them. You dumb asses all have a dick and quite a lot of you are dicks, but, big surprise, we don't want to see your dick. At least not until we have determined if you are a bridge troll or not. The only time we want to see a dick is if we ask for it. Otherwise put it away and keep the frigging pictures off your profile.
I shouldn't have to say this, but if your dick is this small, you shouldn't be doing a dick pick anyway. This dude better be a grower cause he sure as hell isn't a shower.
If you include your face, smile. Guys like to posture and look bad ass, but girls want a man that looks friendly. Someone who looks like they'd be fun to spend time with. Not one that looks like he's going to beat the crap out of us.
If you decide not to show your face, which is totally understandable and even recommended, show us a little something, but not too much.
New2BufStud
Women like the tease.
This is an example of what NOT to do.
Az2Mo
The only thing clear in that photo is the guy's beer belly. NOT sexy and it's upside down. This tells the intelligent woman that he was too stupid to figure out how to rotate the picture.
And then there's this guy. HOLY FREAKING SHIT!
fit4play100
This image is, in my humble opinion, one of the most erotic I have seen on this site. The best part is, the guy doesn't live far from me. I'm hoping to see him in the wild some day. I'd probably orgasm on the spot and embarrass myself, but hey, at least he got me off which is more than most of the guys on FriendFinder-x have a chance of doing.
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Expectations
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Posted:Feb 3, 2015 9:36 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 2:01 pm
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I have high expectations of people apparently. I didn't think I did. I just thought everyone would want to know about the person they were contacting and wrote my profile accordingly. Most guys don't seem to care what I want or wrote. The are doing the equivalent of cold calling in the hopes of getting a bite. Sometimes I do bite.
My profile pretty much tells what I want. I hand guys the key to my panties and most of them don't bother to figure out how it works. I recently had a 'date' with someone who did read the profile, but there were some red flags I chose to ignore in favor of getting laid. They weren't danger flags, just ones indicating our expectations were different. I met him in public and chose to ignore even more flags when I realized he was looking for a woman to dominate him. That is not me. I'm forceful and opinionated, but I am not a dominate in the bedroom.
He had expectations, because he though I would dominate him. I had the expectation that he'd be a decent lay. We were both wrong. And we were both disappointed.
Disappointing sexual encounters are why I come and go from this site. I go through the trouble of screening guys and then meeting them in a safe place. Then I get with them in private and many times, they just don't do it for me. I'm not that hard to figure out. My puss is sensitive. Some guys seem to be able to breath on it and make me cum, but a recent 'date' couldn't make it happen with his mouth and fingers.
Encounters like that make me wonder why I'm on the site. If I have a couple of those in a row, I drop it. It isn't worth the time and effort I put into screening the guys if it's going to lead to getting naked with a dude who's a dud. I'd rather play with BOB and know I'm going to get off. He doesn't expect me to shave either.
I'm not going to lower my expectations though. Some guys out there have lived up to them. Others have surpassed them and those guys are the reason I keep coming back to the site.
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