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In Memory of my Father
1925-2004
In Memory of my Mother
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My Transportation
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Posted:Mar 5, 2009 2:02 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2009 4:24 pm
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It looks like finally will be having my car fixed and see what happens here with it? I have been having problems with it for quite awhile. My cousin took me there to the mechanic on the other side of town with the car. I was following him and the car stalled twice. Then the battery light came back on. But I made it there with the car. Then my cousin took me back home. So I am home without a car presently but that is ok no problem. I can survive. Just wait until it is fixed here. So soon I will be on my merry way here getting around town. Just feeling relieved here about it.
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My Appreciation of my Watchers
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Posted:Mar 4, 2009 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2009 6:00 pm
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I have not a appreciation of watcher in a while. I am glad to have all of my watchers out there watching me. I know lately it has not been great lately in my blog here. But soon hopefully I will be back to my normal self here. I have more positive blogs coming up. I like to thanks the older watchers as well as the recent ones here. Thanks again for being my watchers.
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My Future
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Posted:Mar 3, 2009 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2009 5:48 pm
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I just do not know what my future will be like here?That is a good question to ask for sure. Everything is in limbo right now. Now my mother's passing it does not look good for me. I am trying to be optimistic but it is very hard. I was just about feeling better enough to go look for work here and now I think I have been shocked to the system here. I have so many things to do. I got some things done here with a help from a friend lately which I appreciate very much. It looks like my car will be fixed soon from one of my aunts here. So I will get that out of the way here. I am getting some cash here instead of flowers from family. So it will help a bit. Right now I will take things slowly and see where things go from next here? I know my parents were worried about me. I can go way back to my Grandpa who said what will happen to me when we were gone? I know I have not a easy life so far had some hard knocks just like everyone else here. But I guess I have to fight and keep going here. So I guess just do that. I am trying to keep busy but it is not easy when there is no one here to be with presently. Just righting my thoughts here because I have nothing else to think of right now. I hope things will get better in my situation or at least managable. Just being thoughtful.
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The Quality Of Life
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Posted:Mar 1, 2009 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2009 12:11 pm
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I think it is important to have a good quality of life. Be active and stay busy especially when you are aging. I tried to give my mother a good quality of life the best that I could here. I know my sister and brother in law had my mother in the hospital bed in the end here. I know she had a problem of falling. But I wanted my mother still out there experiencing the quality of life and to be able to access the outside. But since I had no control of her well being. The reason I am doing this blog is to prevent others here from suffering the same fate. Do not let your control your lives even though it might be good at the time. You just do not know what will happen? I tried giving my parents independence as much as possible. Like I said it is important to stay active and busy. I consulted my mother on numerous things and to keep her abreast of her situation. I had her take her own medication and she even ordered it herself at times. But when she went to my sister and brother in law that kind of stopped. I believe they consulted her in most things but not everything. Another thing she was not happy. Because I was not there all the time and that is sad believe me. I really wanted to go but could not because of variety of reasons. The most important thing say I love you to your parents and appreciate them on who they are here? Another thing make sure they have much freedom as much as possible or at least try. Just being thoughtful.
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The Grieving Process
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Posted:Feb 27, 2009 8:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 12:08 am
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I hate to sound depressing in my blog here since my mother has passed away. But I think I need to write my thoughts down. It will be part of the healing process. I spend sometime with someone this week. He has helped me out tremendously. I thank him for it. Now I am at home alone here. I was crying again here just a bit ago because I am alone again. But hopefully soon I will have not that feeling anymore. Things will take time here to adjust and organized my thinking. Now I will have to think of the future here on myself. Hopefully things will be better soon again. I have let alot of things at a stand still but now should try to work on them. Take things one day at a time here. I like to see what will happen and see where it goes from here? I had done some things this last week that made me felt somewhat in control of my mother at least. I signed off her cremation and helped out choosing a stone. I will be doing a obiturary soon. There has been a public notice of my mother's passing in the local newspapers here. I cannot tell her full name but the first name is Edna M. She will be buried with my dad at a local cemetary that is close by to me. There will be a memorial service in April at the grave site. I will announce it when it gets closer here. The reason it will be taking so long because of relatives want to come to the service. That is all for now hopefully will be blogging again more soon. I will get caught up or at least will be doing my emails shortly again. Be back real soon here.
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In Memory of My Mother
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Posted:Feb 23, 2009 9:03 am
Last Updated:Mar 21, 2010 11:24 am
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My mother Edna passed away this morning she is now in heaven and at peace. I loved her dearly and I know she loved me. She went around 1:30 AM. I recieved a phone call from my sister that she passed away. She put up a good fight that is for sure. She had pnuemonia,conjestive heart failure, and kidney failure. She was born in Roanoke Virginia in August 8, 1927. Then she moved on to Ohio then Michigan. She was raised in Lincoln Park with her family in the silk stocking district as my Dad use to call it. She also has a twin which is her brother. She had wonderful parents. Then she married my dad in 1949. Then she had two ,My sister and I. Then she moved to Trenton,Mi. She lived there for twenty-three years. She had a busy and active life there. She was employed at various places. Then moved to Tucson in 1986 with my Dad and I here. She had a hard time at first here but really grew to love Tucson,AZ. My Dad and I did well and loved Tucson too. I took care of both of my parents when we arrived. My Dad was not well at the time. However my mother within a few years had conjestive heart failure and then kidney failure. Then she had a hip replacement that was needed. After my Dad passed away my sister and husband came to town. Then took my Mother away from me. She was not happy there but she made the best of it. I wanted her back so I could have taken care of her again. That did not happen so just had to bear with it. But now she is in a better place that she will be happy and free again.
In Memory
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Mother Update Continued
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Posted:Feb 22, 2009 5:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2009 7:32 pm
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I just spent most of the day with my mother. She is not doing too good. I am praying for here. She has low blood pressure, oxygen was low. Plus her kidneys are not good at this time. I went anyways even I had car problems. I just had too. My sister and brother in law are with her for now. If everything goes alright have to again visit her tomorrow. I told her she had to live for me and I loved her.
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Please Pray for My Mother
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Posted:Feb 21, 2009 11:42 am
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2009 7:15 pm
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My mother is not doing to good in the hospital. I am not sure if this is it or not. So please pray for her. Thanks here.
Update: I went to visit this afternoon.A fellow Affer drove me. She seemed to perk up and was a bit better. But still quite sick. She has bacterial infection in the left lung and some fluid. She still has a urinary tract infection. She had no fever but her blood pressure was low. Then it was taken again a bit later and it risen up some. I am going to visit tomorrow again. She needs all the prayers and thoughts.
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Webcam Times Schedule
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Posted:Feb 20, 2009 10:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2009 4:26 pm
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I am doing some webcamming this weekend. Please come join me here. All times are mountain standard time. Hope you enjoy.
Saturday 2/21/09
9-11 AM
1-3 PM
8-10 PM
Sunday 2/22/09
9-11 AM
1-3 PM
8-10 PM
*please note might be some cancellations but will do my best here to do all of the schedule times.
Sorry no camming tonight 2/22/09.
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Doing Too Many Emails
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Posted:Feb 19, 2009 11:07 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2009 4:48 pm
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You know I was doing some emails recently on here and I got a message saying I sent to many emails in to short of time span. They tell me to call the 1-800 number for FriendFinder-x. Yes you have the right to send many as you want especially if you are paying but be careful out there if you put too many out it may be considered spam. So all I can do is respond in a prudent way. Still kind of confused on that aspect. What do you think about it?
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The Process of Giving Out Personal Information
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Posted:Feb 18, 2009 11:35 pm
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2009 8:47 pm
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I have said this before here in previous posts in my blog and on my profile. I am about ready to put it back up. Now here is the way I process in giving out information out.
1. We chat a bit until we feel comfortable in exchanging information.
2. I only give out email addresses or IMs. If you do not think it is real then it is your problem.
3. Then another venue I will may decide to give further information like a phone number. Then if we meet somewhere then I will give a address. I just feel more comfortable in doing this here.
Now I hope this helps out to some on how I exchange information if and when here? It is my discretion and decision to do so. Thanks for your attention in this matter.
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The Accommodation
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Posted:Feb 18, 2009 11:57 am
Last Updated:Feb 23, 2009 8:42 pm
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Being accommodating with your partner is important. Try to discuss with your partner being accommodating with one another. The best way to communicate with one another on this subject. You may have to negotiate your wants and needs. If there is no accommodation the relationship may falter or split up eventually. Just sit down and have a good talk.So my thought for the day is to work on accommodating things will eventually turn around or work for you.
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If You Had A Chance
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Posted:Feb 16, 2009 11:22 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2015 2:49 pm
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If You had a chance to do something again here. I know I had things happen to me. I wish I can do it all over again. Sometimes you have to give another chance to someone. It maybe hard here. But it will make things smoother in the long run. So what would it be here? If you had a chance to do it over again. I know I would do things differently many years ago so I would not be in a situation now. So that would be one chance to do again. Just Curious.
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