Sex Toys Galore!!
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Posted:Jun 27, 2013 5:24 pm
Last Updated:Jun 28, 2013 9:31 am
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I've been having the most awesome conversations lately with people about new sex toys  !
Personally, I love a good vibrator. In the absence of actual person-to-person fucking, BOB (that's my battery operated boyfriend) is one of my best friends. And the Hitachi I have that actually plugs into the outlet is even better! Sometimes I think I could cut concrete with it but hey whatever gets the job done right?
So a couple of things were brought to my attention lately that I hadn't experienced yet but am seriously intrigued. Have you tried one of these? I'd love to hear about your experiences.
1. The We-Vibe 3. This is marketed as a couples vibrator, although I have to say I'm pretty sure using it alone is totally an option. It's shaped like a U, and has two vibrating ends, one that goes inside the vagina and the other that sits against the clit. The internal part is relatively smaller than the other so it's made to be worn while having sex, thereby giving the woman a pretty awesome vibe on the outside and giving you both one on the inside. It has a wireless controller and apparently 6 different modes, and as opposed to batteries actually has a charger and can last a couple of hours. Honestly, I think this sounds awesome and a shopping trip is definitely in the cards for me! It's a little on the pricey side, something around sixty bucks, but for a vibrator with such versatility I say it is probably well worth it. And as a bonus it apparently comes in a rainbow of colors including purple so that's an added treat! Who says you can't have pretty in a cool vibrator. Ha!
2. The JimmyJane Hello Touch. Now this is some uber sciency shit. Quite unlike any vibrator device I've ever seen, this is something that you actually wear on your hand. It has two fingertip touch pads, and based on the pics and videos I've seen the index and middle fingers are the usual wearers. The pads are connected via wires to the control device that you basically wear around your wrist like a bracelet. That's where the control is too. According to a friend here on FriendFinder-x, he tried it on a friend and her nipples, clit and g-spot all approved. I liken it to having two vibrators at your fingertips (pun intended!) with one hand instead of the usual single vibe. It does two AAAA batteries and runs up to six hours on that so depending on how often you use it I can see batteries getting rather expensive over time unless you use rechargeable ones. Do they make rechargeable AAAA batteries? Hmmm. Probably the only other drawback I can think of with this is that there's only one speed and I do like to mix things up based on my mood, but since you're involving your hand and other fingers as well perhaps that more than makes up for it. It also runs around sixty five bucks so isn't cheap either.
Anyone tried either of these?? Would love to hear your reviews. Happy vibrating!
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Dick Pops
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Posted:Jun 19, 2013 4:17 pm
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2014 3:34 pm
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This is not ME doing this I swear!! I got thiss off the internet. Again nothing poignant except to say that every time I see this picture I simply CANNOT stop laughing!! Simply hilarious! I almost want to try making them to see what the result is
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Who doesn't like fucking? Do what makes you happy!
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Posted:Jun 6, 2013 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2013 7:23 pm
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With the weather steadily improving and allowing for outdoor activities, I've been having a lot of interesting conversations with people about their hobbies and what they like to do with their free time. Well, besides having awesome sex, that is  .
Personally, I like to lounge and read more than anything. Put me in a sunny spot with a drink in hand and a good book and I am perfectly content not to move for hours at a time. We had a little bit of a heat wave at home last week and that's exactly what I did. Took the down to the local club, put them in the pool, got myself a drink and read for several hours while I worked on my tan. Sure I got up a few times to dunk and cool off but that was about the extent of my movement besides the occasional turning over. You'd probably think I was dead if you didn't see my finger swipe my Nook pages every once in a while. I loved every minute of it.
I do enjoy getting out and being active as well. Biking, hiking, walking, fishing, mini golf (this counts!) and visits to the park to ride the swings (yes I do it every time) are all things I do more and more of as the weather improves. My have recently discovered the joys of laser tag. A completely indoor activity and apparently loads of fun, it really just doesn't appeal to me and I have yet to participate despite their repeated pleas. Maybe in the winter time when the sun isn't shining quite as much I will consider it, but for now I just can't think about spending 2 hours indoors running around a maze with a suit that lights up when you get tagged. Now paintball... that's another story. Outdoors of course. Unfortunately it hurts too much for my to participate yet, but soon... soon.
Regardless of the activity, the one thing that really strikes me is that you should just do what makes you happy. It doesn't matter if other people don't get what you do, or may even be the polar opposite to you in terms of activity. Life is too short to spend time doing things that you don't like or enjoy. Do what makes you happy! And yes, that includes fucking of course
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What makes good sex GREAT??
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Posted:May 29, 2013 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2013 6:28 pm
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For you, what makes the difference between good and great sex?
• Drenched in sweat
• Fully satisfied
• Breaking the bed
• Forbidden fruit
• Long sessions of foreplay
• Passion
• Attraction
• Enthusiasm
• Circumstances
• Specific acts
• Intensity
• Quantity
• Quality
• Multiple orgasms
• Multiple participants
• Oh yeah, and bacon. Bacon makes everything better.
Hopefully your world is full of good sex. Great sex, however, goes beyond your expectations. Satisfying, memorable, and makes you want to aspire to that again and again.
From author Jim Collins: Good is the enemy of great.
Of course, getting from good to great is entirely subjective. Good for one person may be great to another. The point is, don’t settle for good. If there is any part of your life that you have at least a fighting chance of having complete and absolute control over, it’s how you have sex. Make good sex great, starting today!
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Was it anal?
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Posted:May 28, 2013 11:22 am
Last Updated:Sep 5, 2014 3:33 pm
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I don’t really have anything poignant to say about this. Just thought it was hilarious!
Hope you all had a great long holiday weekend.
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Talk dirty to me...
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Posted:May 16, 2013 1:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2015 2:31 pm
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Dirty talk is a great way to get your partner hard, and a greater way to get them to come hard.
"Come over here and fuck me hard"
"I love how big your cock gets when I suck on it"
"You can have me any way you want..."
"Where do you want to come?"
What did you feel when you read that? A little bit turned on? Yes? Then good, that's the whole point.
This week I was talking with someone about talking dirty. For me, dirty talk is an essential part of my sex life and something I really enjoy. I consider myself fairly expressive and don't hesitate much to say what feels good, what I like and want, and finds it heightens the pleasure for both me and my partner. I think it provides a good opportunity to push back some of the boundaries you might otherwise feel in the bedroom.
So the question then becomes, how do you do it well? If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is pretty damn hot. I find it's not necessarily what you say but also how you say it. Dirty talk can be not-so-dirty, like "I want you so bad" and "You make me so hot" and the like. These are great ways to start out talking dirty without necessarily being vulgar. Using swear or dirty words is really optional depending on what you're used to. As you start, stick with words that you know and are comfortable with. You can always add new words and phrases here and there over time as you get more comfortable with it. Sometimes the most simple phrases can have some awesome effects.
"I love it when you do that"
"You're so sexy"
"It drives me crazy when you look at me that way"
"Please don't stop"
Personally though, I like it like I like my sex, with a bit of an edge. Preferring to use some of the more vulgar words and phrases known to man is a choice, and as long as you're comfortable with it, then so be it.
"I hate it when people tell me swearing isn't necessary. I'm fucking vulgar, not stupid. I know it isn't fucking necessary!"
One of the great things about talking dirty is using it as a means to describe what's going on during sex, how good it feels, what you're going to do and what you want your partner to do to you. Saying it while looking someone directly in the eyes adds a little something extra as well.
"Lie back so I can ride you hard"
"Suck my hard cock baby"
"Faster! Harder!"
"Come for me, give it to me now"
And keep in mind, dirty talk doesn't just mean using words. Moans, groans, sighs, whispers, screams, and gasps can all have the same effect as words. It's really all meant to convey what you're feeling. You can be submissive and quiet, or domineering and animated, and pretty much anything in between. The point is to communicate.
Last but not least, as you think about talking dirty, also ask your partner how they feel about it. I've been pleasantly surprised to have guys ask me if I mind being called a bitch, or slut in the bedroom. Personally, I can take it and don't mind a bit, but some people can't and do take it personally. That's perfectly ok. A good rule to follow: ask and tell. And just because you call me a in bed doesn't mean you get to call me that outside the bedroom. I will seriously fuck you up if you do.
So are you in the mood to talk dirty? I hope so... Enjoy!
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Speaking of Kinky Fantasies…
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Posted:May 9, 2013 11:24 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2013 10:50 am
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Who doesn't like to talk about fantasies? I'm not really looking to share anything specific but rather talk about talking about fantasies. I've had some pretty interesting conversations lately via email, chat and verbal, about fantasies. Part of the conversation is of course about what I fantasize about and would like to experiment with, and of course the other part is about what my partner is fantasizing about. Naturally the conversation goes down the path of what we might consider "kinky" about ourselves or each other. This is where things start to get interesting.
Let's start out by setting the stage with a definition courtesy of google: "Kinky practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices." Okay... What does that even mean?
One of the interesting things I have noticed is that I don't seem to have the same perspective on what is kinky as most of the men I talk with. Maybe it's just a gender perspective thing in general, along the lines of this cartoon share:
To completely generalize, depending on the topic at hand, men and women usually have different perspectives.
Do men and women in general also have different views on what is kinky, or is it just me? Maybe I'm just jaded from watching too much internet porn, but honestly there hasn't been too much that I have heard about people's fantasies that strikes me as particularly kinky. And yeah, thinking more about it just right now as I am writing this, I'm definitely jaded from watching too much internet porn, and also from reading too much free porn on my Nook. LoL! There's probably some other social commentary to be made here about that topic but we'll save that for another blog post.
Really though, I think everyone thinks they are kinky. Or maybe everyone likes to think there is at least something kinky about them. Just the thought of being a little kinky adds some spice to your activities, right? Honestly though I'm not too sure about that - that people really are all that kinky. It's all relative. Seriously, think about the fantasies that you might have had at one time or another: threesomes (whether MFM or FMF), facials, anal play, role play, voyeurism, lingerie, exhibitionism, being naughty in public, and bdsm in its various forms, fashions and degrees. What is kinky and what is not?
I had initially thought that some of the things I am into were kinky, but really the more I think about it they all seem pretty average in retrospect. Again, porn is skewing my view I'm sure, but there hasn't been anything that I haven't seen in multiple videos on or read about in dozens of eBooks so it's really all feeling pretty mainstream to me. And I definitely haven't shared anything that seems to have surprised anyone. That may just mean I am attracting a particularly kinky set of men here so my fantasies are tame by comparison, but who knows. Or maybe it's more about the definition of kinky itself, and more apt what are considered "conventional" sexual practices. Perhaps conventional has a much more broad definition nowadays and my fantasies are falling into that spectrum more than they used to.
Now that's not to say that I haven't heard some things that I do think are truly kinky. Mostly they are along the lines of specific role play scenarios, and a couple of them have actually surprised me. Surprise though, not shock. Is that weird? There is such a freedom of information sharing that very little seems to shock me these days. I will also say that I have had to google a few things because I just had no idea what they were. A couple times I had heard of it (or seen it on porn) but just didn't know the term that went along with it. A couple other times I actually learned something that I hadn't heard of before. So yeah, kinky does exist, but again I think it's all relative depending on your view of conventional.
Do you think your fantasies are particularly kinky? If yes, I'd be interested to know why. And of course if not, same question applies. What do you think is conventional and what is kinky?
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Language that will not get you attention
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Posted:May 3, 2013 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2016 7:14 am
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So I had this intriguing conversation this week with a woman I met through a friend. We were talking about FriendFinder-x in general as she hadn't been to this site before so I was telling her about my experiences here. One of the more interesting parts of the conversation was about the emails I get and what people say that will either pique my interest or make me hit the delete button immediately.
I have this cartoon saved that I just love:
I had thought the cartoon was pretty funny in a generic sort of way. It was a good social commentary about how bold I am. I like it. But then I actually got an email wherein someone called me Dear. Seriously. I could not hit the delete button fast enough. So as I was telling this story, I started thinking more about what people write in the emails to introduce themselves. Lots of different types.
There are the novelists... who will go on for paragraphs and paragraphs about some abstract fantasy about what they want to do to you when you eventually meet and yadda yadda yadda. If I had that kind of time to read much less write all that I'd just dive in and officially be writing porn.
There are the peoplewithouttheuseeofaspacebar all of which just is annoying as hell.
There are peopl who cant tipe or spel korectlee so I wonder how they are using the internet to begin with. Judgmental I know but I already said I was a bitch so no surprise there.
There are the faceless masses who for whatever reason have no pictures on the site at all. Really? What are you hiding? Clearly something. You have to know that is reason number one for someone never to look at your profile.
Anyway, so then we had a much deeper conversation about what did get attention, and more in particular what got me to reply. Honestly it's a little hard to describe. That's seriously not helpful I know but it is true. First and foremost it needs to include a picture. I think we can all agree that if there isn't some level of attraction then creative writing is not going to get you far. And no, I don't just mean a picture of your privates. Although that does help. A lot. LoL. What was I talking about? ... oh yeah, pictures. So yes, include a picture of yourself. And make it recent. Having a picture that is even older than 6 months is not a good thing.
Beyond the picture is just pure, unadulterated honesty. People don't have to go on for a long time to get my attention. They mostly just have to say hi, this is me, this is what I think, and this is what I think of you. It's not really rocket science. Of course it helps if you have actually read the person's profile so that you know what they are looking for and can respond along those lines.
So what makes you respond to someone's email? Please share your perspectives as well. I'm definitely curious why some people don't reply to my replies as well. Maybe I'm one of the types I am talking about? Nah... can't be.
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