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"Friends with benefits", It might be Been-e-friend-al.  

scoupe42 58M  
6501 posts
9/11/2021 8:30 pm

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9/24/2021 9:39 pm

"Friends with benefits", It might be Been-e-friend-al.

I was thinking, I had a friend with benefits, I wanted more. I enjoy up losing the best thing I ever had.











scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/24/2021 9:39 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Your girlfriend should be your best friend

    Oh hell no! Don't be a pussy. She has her "Best friends" long before you came along.

    So you should also have best friends.
You do have a point!


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/24/2021 4:56 pm

That usually don't work out, she has her friends and you yours, but if something there, you both can have a good relationship.

Never be friends first.

So , as you said, "If something there".....then you're dating. Where it goes from there? Who knows for sure. But if it goes to being friends, and no sex....get out.


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/13/2021 6:34 am

    Quoting MrWrong4RghtNow:
    Friends with bennies.,..can be tricky. Feelings can get in the way of a good lay, or so they say
Seem like it only work out in the movies, not in real life.


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/13/2021 6:33 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Your girlfriend should be your best friend

    Oh hell no! Don't be a pussy. She has her "Best friends" long before you came along.

    So you should also have best friends.
That usually don't work out, she has her friends and you yours, but if something there, you both can have a good relationship.


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/13/2021 6:31 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    "Friends" with benefits, is a misnomer .

    When a woman says, "Let's be friends first", or, "Let's just be friends", she is telling you she is not sexually attracted to you. That's called the , "Friendzone".

    "Dating" means you are having sex with someone you are have not formed a commitment with.

    So , in a practical sense, Fwb means "Dating", which in turn means, "Having sex".

    The cool thing about "Dating" ? You can "Date" as many as you want. There is no commitment.
I agree with you there. I dated this woman now I'm in the Friend Zone. I talk her to the movies and when I drop her back home, somebody there wait to Fuck her.


MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
1904 posts
9/13/2021 2:12 am

Friends with bennies.,..can be tricky. Feelings can get in the way of a good lay, or so they say

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/12/2021 9:28 pm

Your girlfriend should be your best friend

Oh hell no! Don't be a pussy. She has her "Best friends" long before you came along.

So you should also have best friends.


Heathen_G 62M
7955 posts
9/12/2021 9:26 pm

"Friends" with benefits, is a misnomer .

When a woman says, "Let's be friends first", or, "Let's just be friends", she is telling you she is not sexually attracted to you. That's called the , "Friendzone".

"Dating" means you are having sex with someone you are have not formed a commitment with.

So , in a practical sense, Fwb means "Dating", which in turn means, "Having sex".

The cool thing about "Dating" ? You can "Date" as many as you want. There is no commitment.


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 5:42 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    It's always good to have these kinds of friends. I hope your enjoying a relaxing Sunday my friend..
My friend, you have a relaxing Sunday too


Tmptrzz 58F
102544 posts
9/12/2021 2:41 pm

It's always good to have these kinds of friends. I hope your enjoying a relaxing Sunday my friend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 11:58 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    this was a mixed bag of messages!
    with COVID... i don't want a string of lovers or random constant strangers.
    i enjoy more than just sex.
    i used to go out to lunch or dinner when i did a meet...
    it's nice to have someone who is more than just a booty call.
    but i know that's not what everyone is looking for.
You might not believe, I know more women that want a FWB relationship than men, I usually start with a FWB relation, but I want to be the only one and then lose everything


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 11:56 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I've never tried that. 😶
I tried, but I wanted to more, and got voted off the Island!


lunchandconvo 51F
3705 posts
9/12/2021 8:42 am

this was a mixed bag of messages!
with COVID... i don't want a string of lovers or random constant strangers.
i enjoy more than just sex.
i used to go out to lunch or dinner when i did a meet...
it's nice to have someone who is more than just a booty call.
but i know that's not what everyone is looking for.


Paulxx001 64M
21555 posts
9/12/2021 7:57 am

I've never tried that. 😶


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 5:29 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    No matter what you call them, it can be complicated...
Seem like we can't win from losing


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 5:28 am

    Quoting author51:
    One can never have too many friends, my friend..xoxo
That probably the best way! Thx for stopping by


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/12/2021 5:27 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I had a friend with benefits for many years. She kept wanting more. I resisted for a long time. Then I thought I'd give the relationship a go; it lasted all of two weeks. Now we have nothing!
You have a point, I work with older lady, she was with her boyfriend 38 years, they decided to get married, they got divorced and was never friends again.


1seeking1 56F
3709 posts
9/12/2021 4:10 am

No matter what you call them, it can be complicated...


author51 58F
123609 posts
9/12/2021 3:12 am

One can never have too many friends, my friend..xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life..xoxo

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spunkycumfun 61M/66F
38457 posts
9/12/2021 1:30 am

I had a friend with benefits for many years. She kept wanting more. I resisted for a long time. Then I thought I'd give the relationship a go; it lasted all of two weeks. Now we have nothing!


scoupe42 58M  
12526 posts
9/11/2021 8:39 pm

Being Jealous or have rights on someone is not good!


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