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What happens at the parties?
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Posted:Jul 12, 2009 10:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2011 7:06 am
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Okay...the lazy me choosing the easy way out. I get couples who ask me what happens at my parties, what to expect etc. So Im going to answer the questions through here for easy reference.
Bascially, there are 2 types of parties. One is a Meet-and-Greet and there's the Swing Party.
Meet-and-Greets
For MAGs, its a drinks session at a casual setting, usually a bar or lounge where couples can meet other couples at a pressure-free environment to chitchat, and get to know each other. This is the chance for you to network and exchange contact information with potential future playmates. You get to meet people in person, you get to assess the person to see if their attitude suits your taste etc.
The size of the MAG varies from 3 or more couples...really depending on who's available.
There are strictly no expectations, no pressure to play.
Sometimes, if everyone at the MAG is really attracted to one another. We might adjourn to another location for play time. But any couple who is not ready or comfortable can always to not to join.
Swing Parties
These usually takes place in a hotel room or sometimes a couple's home if they decide they want to host. My personal preference is 3-4 couples which is a nice and cosy size. Sometimes it can get bigger like 9-10 couples with themes like sexy lingeries etc.
For bigger groups, we try to get suites with a living room so that soft swap couples will not feel pressured into playing and can have a space to have a feel of how its like, and slowly ease into the action. The more hardcore ones will get all the pumping action in the next room with privacy.
I place alot of emphasis on rules of engagement.
1. Both partners should be fully comfortable in the environment
2. They should be informed of what to expect at a Swing Party (there are cases where the ladies are not aware of what's in store for them and they freaked out)
3. Ladies make the rules here, guys should always respect the ladies' decision as final
Basically its all about mutual respect. This scene is really small so words gets around very quickly about sweet and decent couples or doubly fast for rude and obnoxious people.
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Back in Action! Bigger and Better!!
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Posted:Jun 30, 2009 11:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2011 7:08 am
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It feels like donkey years since I last organise a party, was feeling pretty out of touch with the scene.
So to initiate my comeback, I co-organised a "meet and greet" with lot69. Now this elusive couple...I've heard so much about them and have been dying to meet them but somehow we always managed to miss each other. Now that I finally managed to hook up with them...hmm they are definitely one yummy looking couple! LOL
We managed to round up 13 hot and sexy couples for a drinks event last Friday at a private bar. Thanks to the gentleman of lot69, we managed to secure a private area just to ourselves. The dimmed lightings and sensual setting gets everyone thirsting for more sexy fun later in the night.
I have to say, this is the best parties I've organised so far because of the lovely people present. Everyone is real, sexy, playable LOL! By playable, I mean people whom I would love to get naughty with. Especially when Im such a fuss when it comes to choosing who I play with, I would say its pretty amazing! Also considering the fact that I put together this party in between my trips lol Sometimes, Im so amazed by myself!
 hahahah
So who turned up? Im listing everyone down for the sake of networking, so you will know who are the real couples with great attitudes, who are willing to meet. **Any couples who might be uncomfortable with this, please let me know, I will take out your names**
lot69
pussywagon79
singapore303
bihappyfrench
cplesing
wearereal08
autumnsex1121
tomoiko33
eastwest2437
ting_n_tong
studlens
lacivette06
So, after getting pleasantly high but not too much to affect performance, we round up 9 willing and eagerly awaiting couples and adjourn to a hotel room for the real fun.
The whole experience of watching 18 naked bodies opening up their carnal senses and devouring each other, the smell, the sight, the sound...is just so surreal.
The fun of engagement, the silky soft touch of a female body, the feeling of a foreign tongue exploring the pussy...seeking to give undescribable pleasures, the taste of different manhoods slicked with pre-cum or wet with other's pussy juice. The fluidity of the entire motion awakens all the five senses.
Hmmm...you'll have to feel it to believe it! lol
The only imperfection of the otherwise perfect evening is that I wished I could have shared it with the man I love.
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Need a gold membership gift cert......
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Posted:Jun 3, 2009 10:19 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2011 5:37 am
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It is simply an impossible task to orgainse parties as a standard member!!
I cant see your picures, can't send email invites, cannot check out the latest hot couples who joined the site....its just annoying me so!
My last one was comliments from a nice, generous gentleman, britishsingapore
Any kind hearted soul willing to sponsor a gift certificate for me?
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Squirt Fest in Thailand
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Posted:May 5, 2009 1:35 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2014 7:17 am
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Squirt Fest in Thailand
I was in Thailand for a weekend getaway and also to celebrate my birthday with my swinger pals. I had the most fucking amazing time there!
We had a mini party just the 3 of us on the last night, my friend P set up a “porno surround” in the room. He set up 2 laptops and 1 monitor by the bedside, showing different porn movies. With that getting us in the mood, we decide to get more comfortable by taking off our clothes. We were just lying in bed, watching beautiful hot women getting pounded huge hot dicks and touching ourselves when P suggest we should all watch ourselves in the mirror as we masturbate.
They have a walk-in wardrobe with a ceiling to floor mirror, so the 3 of us cuddled into the wardrobe and positioned ourselves in front of the mirror. We spread our legs wide, overlapping each other and start touching ourselves and watching each other in the mirror. I was using his black vibrator with mini protrusions that feels like tiny tongues stimulating the clit all at the same time. I started to get real wet, with pussy juice streaming out of my shaved hole continuously. This got my friends attention and they stop masturbating and watched intently. P fingered the little stream and rubbed my perineum lightly and I was so sensitive by then, I just let out a spray of squirt. They were so amazed they start touching me all over, stimulating me, and I squirted again, much stronger this time.
By then, I’m already hysterical with the cumming, I was in such ecstasy, and I just can’t stop cumming. I moaned and ask P to get a towel if he doesn’t want me to ruin his carpet. He came back with a white fluffy towel and a pillow and by then I already came more than 10 times. I lift myself up as he place the towel and pillow under me, giving them an elevated view of my throbbing, dripping pussy. P asked for permission from his wife, J to fuck me. With the go ahead, he positions himself in front of me and fills me with his beautiful big, hard cock that’s fully shaven. That was such a turn on for me, as he thrust his clean, huge cock in and out of me. At the third thrust, an amazing wave of orgasm washes over me and the strong squirt gushes out through the sides of my filled hole and splashed everywhere! His chest, the mirror, J’s naked body....I was moaning nonstop as he continues to pump in and out of me and I rubbed the vibrator vigorously over the tip of my clit. J was fondling my breasts, teasing each nipple and grabbing my boobs playing with them. I came again and again. Even as P withdraws himself, I was still cumming uncontrollably playing with the vibrator. I was moaning for them to help me stop cumming “oh my god, stop me! I can’t stop cumming! I can’t stop!” and my hands just keep pulling my clit tight, exposing the tip and I just go on rubbing the vibrator over and over and cumming and squirting.
They just smiled at me and said “don’t stop, just have fun! It’s your birthday!” and they left me quivering in the wardrobe to go and get showered. I carried on playing with myself using the powerful vibrator. I was myself in the mirror in fascination as I press the vibrating tiny tongues into my pink little clit. Wonderful sensations just hit me over and over....I was still at it when the 2 of them came out from the shower and stood at the doorway watching me. I finally mustered the very last ounce of my strength and will to stop the vibrator and stop playing with myself. I push myself off the floor, using the door frame for support, totally worn out by the incredible session and stumbled into the bathroom to wash off. My body was still trembling as I stood under the shower tap.
After I came out, I joined them back on the bed regaining my energy and watching the porn....There’s still much more that happened through the night...but I need to get back to playing with my vibe...I’ve been masturbating and watching online porn since I got back yesterday...fuck I'm so sex-crazed right now!!
Maybe I’ll continue with the story afterwards...depends on my mood...
Ciao for now!
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My First Squirt
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Posted:Apr 28, 2009 12:23 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2009 10:29 pm
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Anyone who has been in a long distance would know that it’s not just the yearning for your loved one that’s a pain. The sexual deprivation is the killer (at least for me)! For us, we are after all in a swinger’s relationship. I'm allowed to play if I really want to...but after experiencing sex with him, sex with other men is just plain tasteless to me! (No offense to anybody, this is purely a personal preference)
So, after 3 weeks of abstinence, you can image the kind of sexual tension that’s building up in me...I craves for his sensual touch, lingering kisses and his magic tongue that can elevate me to the heights of heavens and torment me to the depths of hell. As he moves his fluttering kisses down to my harden nipples, I gripped a fist full of his hair as he bite down hard on my nipple, the tip of his tongue teasingly played with the tip of my nipple. I let out a deep moan as I felt my blood coursing up my arteries to fill my brain with ecstasy and down south to feel comforting warmth that I missed so badly.
As he slowly slides down my body, I clenched my fists and swallow nervously as I wait in anticipation of the first kiss on his pussy. This throbbing hot pussy belongs to him.
My legs spread wide open for him. I felt his breath on my clit. I lifted my head and watched mesmerised as the tongue send the first sparks through my electrify body. I lay back on the pillow, one hand covering my eyes, the other clenching the sheets as I submit myself to him and immerse in the flood of sensations. His tongue teases tirelessly on my pink, engorged clit.
I drew in short, rapid gasps as I try to remind myself to breathe. An unfamiliar feeling wash over me...I suddenly feel my pelvis fill up, I contract my pelvic muscles tight, not wanting to let go. It happened in a flash but I shall describe the feeling in slow motion: his tongue slide up my clit, it throbs violently in reaction to the contact. Again, as his tongue slide down and my swollen clit tense up. As he licked it once more, I felt my body explode as I cum like I’ve never cummed before. I let out a soft scream as my pelvic muscles squeezed involuntarily and a small gush of liquid spill onto the sheets. My entire body is numb and still except my pussy and my brain seems to be only two organs with unbelievable sensations.
It took me awhile to recover and the first thing I said was “Fuck, did you just made me squirt?”
Haha not very romantic I know.
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When a woman squirts....
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Posted:Apr 28, 2009 12:18 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 12:52 pm
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A woman squirts when she is raised to a heighten arousal state. Noticeable amount of clear fluid is ejaculated from the urethra before or during orgasm. Medical professionals are still debating the source and composition of the fluid.
However, tests have determined for certain that squirt juice is NOT pee. And it is different from cum juice too. Scientists actually conduct experiments with woman who squirts. The woman is required to ingest harmless tracker chemical called methylene blue which will dye her pee light blue in colour (just like we eat too much beet roots, we get pink pee.) so when she squirts, the researchers are able to conclude that her squirt juice is not in any way related to pee because it is clear, whereas when she peed, it came out coloured by the chemical.
So where exactly is all that amount of fluid coming from? Even though this question is still surrounded with controversies and debates, some believe that the squirt juice is produced by the female prostate, which is the reason why some women can squirt and others simply can’t; because not every lady has prostate gland. Studies show that when stimulated the right way, the female prostate can produce 3 - 15ml of fluid which is channelled to the urethra and then expulsed as squirt juice.
I’ve always been so fascinated by squirt porn where the women cum and squirt uncontrollably...it’s simply amazing to me. I used to be so envious and think to myself “oh man...if only I squirt. It seems like the nirvana of orgasms” I always thought this capability is nature, not nurture: Like you’re born with it, you either can or can’t. And then, that one fateful night, it happened.....
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Updates on recent activities: Swingers Holiday, Squirting and Such
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Posted:Apr 27, 2009 12:39 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2009 7:49 pm
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Updates on recent activities: Swingers’ holidays, Squirting and Such”
I've been so quiet these days; I'm almost ashamed of myself.
Something to YaY about: My blog Black Man gone soft has hit 10,000 views!
This indicates on the average, 27 guys are reading and masturbating to my erotica on a daily basis...hahah pretty neat! *Masturbation is purely a presumption on my part lol
So to carry on where I left off, what have I been doing during this period of absence?
Pretty occupied with boyfriend, travels, work and learning how to squirt 
Yes, you read that right! I just learnt how to squirt! I never knew squirting can be mastered but well, I’m blessed with a boyfriend (BP) with amazing skills. Then again, that’s the basic criteria when I look for a partner! I put them through the most stringent tests on their sexual prowess and oral skills
Also, I went to a lifestyle holiday in Jamaica’s nudist resort, HEDONISM III with BP. It’s very interesting as it was a takeover event by a swingers’ website that is similar to FriendFinder-x. So basically, everyone at the resort is swingers and there are about 100 couples. That’s pretty big-scale compared to what we have here in Asia.
It’s always my dream to organise a huge swingers’ convention in Asia where couples in Asia Pacific regions would fly in to attend a 3-4 day event. That would be so cool!
Then, I tried to organise a swinger holiday during the Good Friday weekend (how sinful!! I know...I’ll confess all my sins at one go when I’m like 80 years old to save the hassle for the priests...unlike a good friend, who gets scolded every time he goes for confession! The kind of things he confesses to the priest, I’m surprised the priests don’t get a heart attack LO I actually gathered 4 other couples spend a weekend in Bali, renting a villa to have our own mini Hedonism. Unfortunately, most couples dropped out at the last minute...so disappointing!
Now, I'm eagerly awaiting my upcoming trip to Las Vegas! There’s a MEGA lifestyle convention, organised by the same people who brought us to Hedonism III. It’s a 6-day yearly swingers’ congregation. This year, about 500 couples are confirmed! I pretty overwhelmed by the sheer scale of the event! I'm excited about it, but at the same time I can’t help but feel jittery about the expectations, the kind of people who will be attending etc.
Since, I’m bumping around for a bit before I go for my trip, I’ll be giving the more explicit details on my Hedonism trip and my learning process on squirting in separate postings. Read on people...
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End the year with a Bang!! NEW YEAR BASH
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Posted:Dec 12, 2008 9:17 pm
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2009 8:20 am
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so_eevil, emilylee83 and myself are co organizing a NEW YEAR BASH to end the year with a BANG! Quite literally
Interested couples, please check in here and we'll get back to you asap
Cheers!
PS: Only couples and single females may apply.
Single men...you guys know the rules.
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How do you maintain a swinger relationship?
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Posted:Oct 18, 2008 11:05 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2008 9:56 am
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Hey peeps, thanks for all the constructive replies. I truly appreciate them!
Here's another one...how do you maintain and build a lifestyle relationship?
I figured that it would be very important to lay out the boundaries and set a foundation for rules...so what should I watch out for and what are some common rules and boundaries you have for each other?
Shoot..I feel so vanilla asking questions like these!
The thing is I recently stepped into unchartered territory by getting into a serious relationship with this wonderful man from the site. I've decided to give it a shot to see if this work out because he has almost everything I ever wanted in a man.
Being a single gal on this site for the last 10 months, im so used to being indiviualistic, I need to accustom myself to being part of the other half.
Plus, I have never had a serious, swingers' relationship...unsure, unsure, unsure!!
Where's my confidence?! Argh!!
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True Love from FriendFinder-x?
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Posted:Oct 16, 2008 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2009 11:43 am
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There's this burning question in my mind...is it possible to develop a serious relationship from one that stems from FriendFinder-x?
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