BEING BICURIOUS  

spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
29146 posts
11/22/2021 9:22 am
BEING BICURIOUS





When looking for other<b> couples </font></b>to meet up for sex or to invite to sex parties, I used to closely read their profiles. It was common for the man or the woman, or both, to describe themselves as bicurious. I often wondered what this term meant.

I understood that someone could be curious about having sex with someone of the same sex, whether gay or lesbian sex. I was and still am curious. But the label seemed to mean much more than idle curiousity.

Bicurious, at least to me, suggests that the person is tempted to try a same-sex experience; being bicurious without any interest in having such an experience is pretty meaningless.

But once someone has had sex with someone of the same sex and enjoyed the same-sex experience, then, surely they are no longer bicurious but bisexual. Being bicurious is surely a transient description of sexual orientation until such curiousity has been satisfied or not. Bicurious is temporary.

Despite this, bicurious remains a common description of the sexual orientation of many<b> couples </font></b>on this site. Perhaps they are unsure whether they enjoyed the same-sex experience but are still curious to give it another whirl. Perhaps the conditions that they want their same-sex experience to take place are so idealised that they are impossible to be met in the real world. Or perhaps they did not get round to updating their profile.

However, I think there may be other reasons why<b> couples </font></b>describe themselves as bicurious. I think many men in a couple relationship are more likely to describe themselves as bicurious rather than bisexual because they do not want to scare off other men. Also, given men often write the profile of the couple, I think many men are likely to describe their female partner as bicurious because they like the idea of watching their partner getting it on with another woman.

For these reasons, when I saw a profile of a bicurious couple, I used to assume that the man was bisexual and the woman was straight.


How would you describe your sexuality?
What does bicurious mean to you?
Are you bicurious?


Sexuality is fluid, making it difficult to categorise and problems always arise at the margins of categories. But, having said that, I am straight and curious but without being bicurious; I am not interested in having sex with another man. Apart from a few awkward fumblings after lights-out at boarding school, I have not experienced sex with a man. At last, I have come out as heterosexual!

However, having said that, there were a couple of occasions when, in the heat of the moment, sex with a woman did involve another man. The first occasion when I allowed a man to caress my balls as I was fucking his wife; it seemed rude to turn down his request! The other occasion was when I cupped the balls of another man as he was fucking my partner; I wanted him to cum as I do like sloppy seconds!

Perhaps I am momentarily bisexual!






spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/22/2021 9:24 am

I think itโ€™s really unfair that the pressure is always on non-straight people to come out!


lok4fun500 111M  
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11/22/2021 12:38 pm

I'm as straight as an arrow! -------->




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author51 59F  
129142 posts
11/22/2021 12:50 pm

I am straight as I do not find the female body attractive in a sexual way at all. I met a couple from this site once as I was curious and had to make sure that was all it was. It was and although her and I got along well as friends, it was her husband, my sexual libido was attracted to. I will see photos here of two women playing and am totally turned off..
The funny thing about it though is, if I was in a MFM and the two men were bi-sexual, I find it hot, erotic and am totally into it..
You men may have your fantasies about two women together, some of us women like the idea of two bi-sexual men playing when in a MFM. I am one of them.. xoxo

You can never have enough JOY in your life.....xoxo

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Tmptrzz 59F  
106228 posts
11/22/2021 1:01 pm

Very interesting and intriguing blog about being bisexually curious or just being bisexual.

How would you describe your sexuality? I am a bisexual woman

What does bicurious mean to you? To me it means your curious about being with a partner of the same sex.

Are you bicurious? No I am bisexual and I enjoy it.

Seems like you have enjoyed a few threesomes, and I hope you get to enjoy more if the opportunities present themselves. I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


wob4wt2 58M
123 posts
11/22/2021 1:18 pm

Being bicurious only leads to better things if you are open to it!!


citizen4722 64M  
74202 posts
11/22/2021 1:20 pm

How would you describe your sexuality? - I'm straight. I'm curious but not bi.


superbjversion2 66F
24165 posts
11/22/2021 4:40 pm

To me, the bicurious label implies that the curiosity has not been met (for whatever reason) I had a same-sex encounter in my early 20s and that ended any curiosity I might have harbored. I am hetero to the bone.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


staci_19702 51T  
3383 posts
11/22/2021 5:11 pm

Iโ€™m straight. (Really??) yes, I am. We indulge in bisexual fantasies. I have watched her make out with another woman. But she said that was all she would ever do. I enjoy trans, girl/girl and straight porn.
It is interesting as to what people mean when they post about curiosities.

Have a great day! ๐Ÿ’‹
Staci


TicklePlease 54F  
13823 posts
11/23/2021 3:40 am

I was bi-curious... so I explored. Now I'm not bi-curious, I'm straight.

I see a big difference in the genders when it comes to situational bisexuality... I hardly ever see a woman say something along the lines of "well I wasn't having any luck with the opposite gender so I figured what the hell, I'd try my own" or "a mouth is a mouth" but I see many male profiles that use that type of language.


pal334 67M  
45556 posts
11/23/2021 6:02 am

How would you describe your sexuality? Straight with women only
What does bicurious mean to you? I enjoy watching for women. I have no other interest
Are you bicurious? Only for women

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smartasswoman 64F  
35755 posts
11/23/2021 6:37 am

And then there is the term heteroflexible. Maybe that should be used to describe the guys Tickle mentioned.

Me? Iโ€™d say Iโ€™m bisexual but only slightly so in terms of actual experience.


Paulxx001 64M  
22494 posts
11/23/2021 7:34 am

If she invited me to watch, I would. ๐Ÿ˜ถโ—โ—


secret_lade 47F
9015 posts
11/24/2021 1:38 am

How would I describe my sexuality? I'm straight

What does Bicurious mean to me? It means an individual has entertained the idea but not yet explored enough to make a decision.

Am I Bicurious? I am not. When I look at a beautiful woman, I think to myself, she's a beautiful woman. When I look at a handsome man, I think to myself, ooh la la! I wonder what he smells like?? I'd like to run my fingers through those chest hairs!! I'd like to get *him* alone in a dark alley for 10 minutes!!


Art4urPleasure 55M  
604 posts
11/24/2021 7:59 am

At one time I was curious. Since then I have figured it out and enjoy it.


PonyGirl1965 56F
21450 posts
11/25/2021 12:27 am

I have said I'm bicurious in the past. I have never had a full on sexual experience with a women. However I am not and don't see that I will ever be bisexual. I love the female form. I enjoy touching women. I have zero desire to go down on a woman.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:05 pm

    Quoting lok4fun500:
    I'm as straight as an arrow! -------->
Some arrows, especially toy arrows, are bendy!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:06 pm

    Quoting author51:
    I am straight as I do not find the female body attractive in a sexual way at all. I met a couple from this site once as I was curious and had to make sure that was all it was. It was and although her and I got along well as friends, it was her husband, my sexual libido was attracted to. I will see photos here of two women playing and am totally turned off..
    The funny thing about it though is, if I was in a MFM and the two men were bi-sexual, I find it hot, erotic and am totally into it..
    You men may have your fantasies about two women together, some of us women like the idea of two bi-sexual men playing when in a MFM. I am one of them.. xoxo
Watching two women getting it on doesn't do much for me. Clearly I'm abnormal for a man!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:07 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Very interesting and intriguing blog about being bisexually curious or just being bisexual.

    How would you describe your sexuality? I am a bisexual woman

    What does bicurious mean to you? To me it means your curious about being with a partner of the same sex.

    Are you bicurious? No I am bisexual and I enjoy it.

    Seems like you have enjoyed a few threesomes, and I hope you get to enjoy more if the opportunities present themselves. I hope your Monday is a great start to your week..
It's good to know your own sexuality. It avoids complications!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:08 pm

    Quoting wob4wt2:
    Being bicurious only leads to better things if you are open to it!!
There's little point in being bicurious if you're not up for it at least once!
Thanks for stopping by.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:09 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    How would you describe your sexuality? - I'm straight. I'm curious but not bi.
I'm straight too. Soon that word will be frowned upon!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:50 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    To me, the bicurious label implies that the curiosity has not been met (for whatever reason) I had a same-sex encounter in my early 20s and that ended any curiosity I might have harbored. I am hetero to the bone.
I got suspicious with members on the site who I saw doing things bisexual repeatedly but were still seeing themselves as bicurious. It's their choice but I just wanted to wonder out loud with this post.
It's always good to know our sexuality.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:56 pm

    Quoting staci_19702:
    Iโ€™m straight. (Really??) yes, I am. We indulge in bisexual fantasies. I have watched her make out with another woman. But she said that was all she would ever do. I enjoy trans, girl/girl and straight porn.
    It is interesting as to what people mean when they post about curiosities.
People's sexualities are very interesting. It's one plus being on this site, and in particular in blogland, where people can write and read about sex and sexualty.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:58 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    I was bi-curious... so I explored. Now I'm not bi-curious, I'm straight.

    I see a big difference in the genders when it comes to situational bisexuality... I hardly ever see a woman say something along the lines of "well I wasn't having any luck with the opposite gender so I figured what the hell, I'd try my own" or "a mouth is a mouth" but I see many male profiles that use that type of language.
Unfortunately, men can be very simplistic, closed-minded and crude when it comes to sexuality.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 12:59 pm

    Quoting pal334:
    How would you describe your sexuality? Straight with women only
    What does bicurious mean to you? I enjoy watching for women. I have no other interest
    Are you bicurious? Only for women
Straight is straight. It's good to know our own sexuality.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 1:03 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    And then there is the term heteroflexible. Maybe that should be used to describe the guys Tickle mentioned.

    Me? Iโ€™d say Iโ€™m bisexual but only slightly so in terms of actual experience.
Heteroflexible seems to fudge the issue, just like bicurious. But it's up to each person to describe their own sexuality. Classifying sexuality, like gender, seems to come down to subjective and objective classifications.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 1:08 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    If she invited me to watch, I would. ๐Ÿ˜ถโ—โ—
I'd watch with you, but I'd get too impatient and want to join in!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 1:09 pm

    Quoting secret_lade:
    How would I describe my sexuality? I'm straight

    What does Bicurious mean to me? It means an individual has entertained the idea but not yet explored enough to make a decision.

    Am I Bicurious? I am not. When I look at a beautiful woman, I think to myself, she's a beautiful woman. When I look at a handsome man, I think to myself, ooh la la! I wonder what he smells like?? I'd like to run my fingers through those chest hairs!! I'd like to get *him* alone in a dark alley for 10 minutes!!
I'm like you in that when I see an attractive man it just means I think he's attractive and no more.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 1:10 pm

    Quoting Art4urPleasure:
    At one time I was curious. Since then I have figured it out and enjoy it.
It's good to figure things out regarding sexuality. It makes life easier.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F  
40555 posts
11/26/2021 1:12 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    I have said I'm bicurious in the past. I have never had a full on sexual experience with a women. However I am not and don't see that I will ever be bisexual. I love the female form. I enjoy touching women. I have zero desire to go down on a woman.
Sexuality is quite complicated. I've touched a man but would not like it to progress any further. I like a woman using a strap-on but would not like a man using his cock to penetrate me.


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