I WENT YEARS WITHOUT SEX  

spunkycumfun 61M/66F
30434 posts
9/6/2021 11:28 am
I WENT YEARS WITHOUT SEX



Yes, I went years and years without sex. To be precise, I went 18 years without sex until I lost my virginity!

As a result of going to all boys boarding school, I was relatively late in losing my virginity. However, it was a very memorable experience. Not because I had got that monkey off my back, but because my then girlfriend’s mother walked into the bedroom as we were having sex. As soon as she entered the bedroom, I got up from the missionary position and hurriedly hid behind the bed.

Fortunately, my girlfriend’s mother was drunk and when she said to my girlfriend that she thought that she saw me, my girlfriend just denied what she saw and told her that she was seeing things as she was tipsy. After she left the bedroom, I had to silently creep out of the house unseen.

When I got home, after a half-hour car drive, I stripped naked to have my first look at my non-virginal body in my bedroom. Though my body still looked the same, I knew I was no longer a virgin.

I lost my virginity to another virgin, which probably explains the missionary position. I’m now wondering whether people lose their virginity by having doggy sex or cowgirl sex.


If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity?
Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience?
Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex?


The longest time I’ve gone without sex since losing my virginity was about two years in my early twenties. I’d like to say it was through wilful choice but it was in fact through lack of opportunity!









spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/6/2021 11:29 am

One of my friends decided to go without sex. I thought he was mad; I thought he was turning a necessity into a virtue.
It later turned out that he failed at the first chance of a shag!


Tmptrzz 59F  
104165 posts
9/6/2021 1:32 pm

Sounds like you had a very interesting time when you lost your virginity. I would love to share when I lost mine but I prefer not to as it wasn't a great experience and I can't use the word here it will be denied.

As for how many years I have gone without sex, too many to count at times.

I hope you both enjoy your Monday and it's a great start to your week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 58M  
12843 posts
9/6/2021 1:34 pm

Good blog, I think some of is picky. I am, I had a buddy that got laid all the time, but, with me there got to be some kind of draw. If I want to get off, I can alway choke my chicken but if there a connection sex is awesome!


1seeking1 56F
3748 posts
9/6/2021 1:35 pm

While married, years at time without sex, that is reason he is the ex....


lindoboy100 58M
23884 posts
9/6/2021 1:45 pm

1. Does sheep shagging count?
2. It was actually very pleasant, for us both.....ba-ah!!
3. Oh, maybe just a few months, around lambing time......

It's sooooo good to have you back McPunkster!!


ltrskr 73M  
5066 posts
9/6/2021 2:00 pm

Got my first at 14-15, butt it was anal! Does that count......safe sex!
First pussy at 17, 35, she lived next door to the house I was painting, summer job!


flannel_light 59F  
4197 posts
9/6/2021 2:40 pm

Lost mine at 16
Been 2 years without before.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Paulxx001 64M
21907 posts
9/6/2021 3:07 pm

When I first got fucked?
I guess I was in my mid-twenties. I quit a good job to take another, but THEY never put a contract on the table — I trusted THEM. I was squeezed out after a couple of months; I learned my lesson. 😶


jajo696 66F
4028 posts
9/6/2021 3:08 pm

It was a college love that did it for me, and he became my spouse for 42 yrs before he passed. Ive gone several years without and thats where the BoB's come in handy. We all must do what we gotta do ~~


citizen4722 63M  
73491 posts
9/6/2021 3:46 pm

If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? - I was a late starter at 23 years old!


superbjversion2 66F
23726 posts
9/6/2021 6:00 pm

I didn't "lose" my virginity, I know exactly where I left it ... 1976 at the age of 21. It was not good, bad, nor indifferent. It was a well-planned event that served it's purpose.

The longest I've gone without since was 10 years ... after the death of my husband.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


author51 58F  
126033 posts
9/6/2021 11:00 pm

I lost mine at 18 and yes it was only through Missionary for me. I did not start to enjoy doggy until the first time I did it with my now ex husband.. Great Cumming of age post Hun....xoxo


MyBaffies 52M
4875 posts
9/7/2021 1:30 am

If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? As Billy Connolly once said, "I wont tell you how old I was, you'll only laugh at me". Let's put it this way, >25.

Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience? Indifferent I guess. I was happy she "arrived" but that wasn't a reflection of my performance, it was more that we were lucky we rubbed in the right places as it were. However, I didn't. And never have. But the experience was exactly that - it was experience and I've become much better at it since then with other people.

Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex? 11 years, and counting.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


lunchandconvo 51F
3790 posts
9/7/2021 5:27 am

i was 18. my parents didn't allow me to date in HS.
my first was well experienced. he was 21.
the sex was phenomenal !! !!

i've been going w/out for a while now...
i honestly can't recall when i stopped?
but nothing during COVID.
it was before that so... it's been a while!


WyoCowboy7751 68M
2341 posts
9/7/2021 5:41 am

Lost Our Virginity in the seat of a 1968 Chevy Pickup 😵 No protection but timed just right to Cumm on her inner thigh and on seat, she had also dampened the seat 🥴 Went for 5 years after the Loss of My Wife 😯🤠


pal334 67M  
45006 posts
9/7/2021 5:50 am

I was about 16 or 17. I was pretty wild (at least to me), I never had any other experience that "wow" feeling and lucking out, no baby. We did not have a condom and of course I made a deposit in the wrong place . I have had several 6 month periods while in less than pleasant places over seas in the military Quite exotic catch up dates when I returned

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lust4life59 62F
2374 posts
9/7/2021 2:00 pm

I was sixteen, he was 20, we had been dating a while and ended up doing the deed on the front seat of his pickup truck. On his property in the woods that he later built a house on. I'm still trying to figure that out, he lived in an apartment at the time, but had a roommate, so that might have been the reason.

Was it good, bad or indifferent? I can't remember, I just knew it was a milestone in my life at the time

THe longest have I gone without since then? Over two years at one stretch.


exsquid46 62M
579 posts
9/9/2021 1:51 am

Mr. spunkycumfun,

"1.If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity?
2.Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience?
3.Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex?"

1. I lost my virginity at almost 19 years old, to my first wife.

2. I wish it could have been better. She had experience, and I had none. I am sure I left her unsatisfied that night.

3. The longest has been 21 years and counting. I just given up on trying to find a woman that wants me.


PonyGirl1965 56F
20063 posts
9/10/2021 12:27 am

Losing my virginity was a delightful experience. Felt incredible. I did not climax but I did feel amazing.
Longest time without sex would be a few weeks when one of us has had surgery.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:36 am

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Sounds like you had a very interesting time when you lost your virginity. I would love to share when I lost mine but I prefer not to as it wasn't a great experience and I can't use the word here it will be denied.

    As for how many years I have gone without sex, too many to count at times.

    I hope you both enjoy your Monday and it's a great start to your week..
I'm very sorry to hear about how you lost your virginity.
I hope you don't have to wait years for sex again!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:45 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Good blog, I think some of is picky. I am, I had a buddy that got laid all the time, but, with me there got to be some kind of draw. If I want to get off, I can alway choke my chicken but if there a connection sex is awesome!
I've not heard the 'choke my chicken' phrase before. It's always a useful standby to the real thing!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:45 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    While married, years at time without sex, that is reason he is the ex....
That's a very good reason why he is the ex!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:46 am

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    1. Does sheep shagging count?
    2. It was actually very pleasant, for us both.....ba-ah!!
    3. Oh, maybe just a few months, around lambing time......

    It's sooooo good to have you back McPunkster!!
Sheep shagging definitely does count. I was born in sheep country where men are men and sheep are nervous!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:47 am

    Quoting ltrskr:
    Got my first at 14-15, butt it was anal! Does that count......safe sex!
    First pussy at 17, 35, she lived next door to the house I was painting, summer job!
Anal sex does count as losing your virginity. That was quite an entrance to the world of sex!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:49 am

    Quoting flannel_light:
    Lost mine at 16
    Been 2 years without before.
Those two years without sex must have been long years; at least they were for me!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:50 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    When I first got fucked?
    I guess I was in my mid-twenties. I quit a good job to take another, but THEY never put a contract on the table — I trusted THEM. I was squeezed out after a couple of months; I learned my lesson. 😶
I got fucked over at work too! I guess it goes with the territory.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:52 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    It was a college love that did it for me, and he became my spouse for 42 yrs before he passed. Ive gone several years without and thats where the BoB's come in handy. We all must do what we gotta do ~~
That was a long marriage. My longest marriage was four years and I'm now in my third year in my second marriage.


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:58 am

    Quoting citizen4722:
    If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? - I was a late starter at 23 years old!
There's nothing with being a late starter so long as you don't finish!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 5:59 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I didn't "lose" my virginity, I know exactly where I left it ... 1976 at the age of 21. It was not good, bad, nor indifferent. It was a well-planned event that served it's purpose.

    The longest I've gone without since was 10 years ... after the death of my husband.
Losing your virginity is quite a strange term. My loss of virginity was also planned though there were a couple of false starts beforehand!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:00 am

    Quoting author51:
    I lost mine at 18 and yes it was only through Missionary for me. I did not start to enjoy doggy until the first time I did it with my now ex husband.. Great Cumming of age post Hun....xoxo
I don't know anyone who didn't do missionary the first time, but then again it's not a question I ask a lot!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:01 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity? As Billy Connolly once said, "I wont tell you how old I was, you'll only laugh at me". Let's put it this way, >25.

    Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience? Indifferent I guess. I was happy she "arrived" but that wasn't a reflection of my performance, it was more that we were lucky we rubbed in the right places as it were. However, I didn't. And never have. But the experience was exactly that - it was experience and I've become much better at it since then with other people.

    Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex? 11 years, and counting.
Having sex always gets better with practice.
I hope you'll soon stop counting!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:02 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    i was 18. my parents didn't allow me to date in HS.
    my first was well experienced. he was 21.
    the sex was phenomenal !! !!

    i've been going w/out for a while now...
    i honestly can't recall when i stopped?
    but nothing during COVID.
    it was before that so... it's been a while!
Covid has spoiled many a person's sex life!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:03 am

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    Lost Our Virginity in the seat of a 1968 Chevy Pickup 😵 No protection but timed just right to Cumm on her inner thigh and on seat, she had also dampened the seat 🥴 Went for 5 years after the Loss of My Wife 😯🤠
A Chevy Pickup sounds a classic location for your loss of virginity!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:04 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I was about 16 or 17. I was pretty wild (at least to me), I never had any other experience that "wow" feeling and lucking out, no baby. We did not have a condom and of course I made a deposit in the wrong place . I have had several 6 month periods while in less than pleasant places over seas in the military Quite exotic catch up dates when I returned
I hope you now deposit in the right place!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:06 am

    Quoting lust4life59:
    I was sixteen, he was 20, we had been dating a while and ended up doing the deed on the front seat of his pickup truck. On his property in the woods that he later built a house on. I'm still trying to figure that out, he lived in an apartment at the time, but had a roommate, so that might have been the reason.

    Was it good, bad or indifferent? I can't remember, I just knew it was a milestone in my life at the time

    THe longest have I gone without since then? Over two years at one stretch.
My two years without sex felt like a life sentence as I then wrongly assumed that everyone else was getting los of sex!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:07 am

    Quoting exsquid46:
    Mr. spunkycumfun,

    "1.If not a virgin, at what age did you lose your virginity?
    2.Was losing your virginity a good, bad or indifferent experience?
    3.Since losing your virginity, what’s the longest period of time you’ve gone without sex?"

    1. I lost my virginity at almost 19 years old, to my first wife.

    2. I wish it could have been better. She had experience, and I had none. I am sure I left her unsatisfied that night.

    3. The longest has been 21 years and counting. I just given up on trying to find a woman that wants me.
I hope sex comes along very soon for you. Sometimes when you don't look for it, it comes out of the blue!


spunkycumfun 61M/66F
39337 posts
9/10/2021 6:08 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Losing my virginity was a delightful experience. Felt incredible. I did not climax but I did feel amazing.
    Longest time without sex would be a few weeks when one of us has had surgery.
Only a few weeks without sex sounds like you've had a good sex life!


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