The Double Standard revisted.
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Posted:Dec 13, 2014 4:25 am
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2014 4:25 am
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I know I've written about this a number of times over the years but I got to thinking about it the other day and well, it's my blog so here's yet another post on the topic of:
The Double Standard
What do I mean by that you might ask? It's simple. Women who are sexually active are seen as sluts or whores, guys who are the same are seen as studs.
There you have it. The Double Standard.
Now keep in mind, there's a difference between women who are 'easy' and those who are what I'm calling sexually active. Lord knows I've known any NUMBER of 'easy' women in my life and they are NOT what I'm talking about here.
Easy woman, at least in this context, seem to have self-image issues and/or other psychological problems at play that make them do what they do. I'm talking about fully mature, well adjusted, intelligent women who choose to have enjoy having sex.
Now for the record, I happen to LOVE sexually active women and I certainly do NOT judge or look down at them. I do NOT view them as 'sluts' or 'whores' and I truly respect their choice to be active and their enjoyment of sex.
How could I not? I'm the same way so if I DID, I'd be a grade A hypocrit now wouldn't I?
I find it interesting that a LOT of the 'venom' sexually active women recieve actually comes from other women! Yes, even here on FriendFinder-x, other women seem to be the first to judge their sisters and if you don't believe me....well you haven't paid much attention my friend.
Post a few too many naked pics of yourself or tell too many true stories of you banging a roomfull of guys and see what happens..
Now with men it's a bit different. Again, the more women you fuck the more you're seen as a stud. A sexual 'Hero' if you will, especially by the other guys.
Do us guys pay attention to those women who are sexually active? You bet we do. Do we as men in general view them different from 'normal' women? You bet we do and is that in a good way? You bet it ain't.
They end up getting reduced to sexual objects which I see as just a total waste. As I said, I LOVE sexually active women but it's NOT necesarily because of the sex my friends, it's because of the mind-set that comes along with it. The openess, the willingness to explore and yes, even the intelligence that attracts me.
With just a couple of exceptions, almost every truly sexually active woman I've ever known has been highly intelligent, very open and strong-willed.
Thoese are ALL qualities I love in people BTW 
So, getting back to the topic, why is it that so many women judge sexually active women so harshly? I know there's a HUGE 'moral' and somewhat religeous component to it, there's also a big societal issue as in, it's just not done if you will but still and especially to the woman on THIS site, why??
I also realize that a LOT of you woman equate sex with love, relationships and yes even marriage etc but still, why? Is there a jealousy component in there as well?
Men, well you guys suck as always! Just because a woman is in fact sexually active doesn't mean you get a green light to treat her like shit. You don't get to demean her, debase her or USE her as a cum receptacle. Trust me, most sexually active women ain't gonna put up with being treated that way.
So there you have some more thoughts on the old Double Standard. What are YOUR thoughts?????
 -tm
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Oh yeah!
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Posted:Dec 7, 2014 5:51 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2014 4:25 am
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I love that too!
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I'm so strange.......
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Posted:Dec 6, 2014 3:48 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2014 7:19 am
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OK, not only do I attract women who are tall and who have enormous breasts I've also always attracted women with large noses.
Yep. Huge proboscis!
As with large breasted and tall women, I don't know why woman with pronounced pro·bos·cis·es are attracted to me either. (And yes, according to merriam-webster that IS he correct plural version of the word)
But it's a fact Jack.
Sure there have been exceptions, as in all things, but the fact remains, nine times out of ten, if a woman is attracted to me she's gonna be six feet tall, have 44 DD's and a nose like Jimmy Durante!
Now THERE"s an image for ya eh?
Or course me being me, as long as she's got pretty feet..... -tm
p.s. All of which makes my current girlfriend all the more special. She's all of 4'9", flat as a board with the cutest little button nose you ever saw. Go figure eh?
Oh and yep, she DOES have the cutest size 6 1/2's on the planet. Tasty and talented as well...
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Legs
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Posted:Nov 27, 2014 5:10 am
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2014 3:14 am
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No not turkey legs, those come later today... I'm talking those gorgeous female legs my friends. I was looking back at my posts and realized I've been SO remiss for a very long time and have written so very little about those gorgeous legs you ladies have.
Amazing!
Especially when you consider the fact that they connect up three of my favorite female parts and without them, well..... how the hell would I EVER find my way, not to mention the fact they those luscious legs are one of my favorite things all unto themselves eh?
Oh yes, Ol Tazzerman is ddddddefinitely a leg man. (That was my best Rainman impersonation) I just LOVE those thighs, knees, calves and ankles a LOT and like I said, they connect up those incredible pussies, asses and yes feet and form one sexy damn package.
I think that legs are an often over looked erogenous zone as well. Once you get over the tickle thing, thighs, knees (both back and front) and even ankles can be used to full effect so to speak
Speaking of ankles, a good lookin pair of feet MUST have a good looking pair of ankles to go with them. Plain and simple.
I LOVE shaving my ladies legs if she'll let me. A lot of gals are a bit hessitant, understandably so, to let me do this until they realize that I have' had a LOT of practice and I know what I'm doing. I go slow, I'm also extra careful around the knees, both front and back along with around the ankles and shins. The last thing in the world I want to do is nick my sweetie, that's NOT sexy or fun. I pay attention to how her hair grows and I do a great job. I also LOVE the way a razor sounds as I work it over her legs. That snick snick sound is SUCH a turn on and of course the finished product is just so sublime! Is there ANYTHING quie like freshly shaved pair of legs??
The area where the legs attach to the butt is, IMHO, one of G-ds greatests gifts to mankind. That little curve is in fact one of the greatest shapes in all the world and just writing about it right now is giving me a hard-on! My gal has the best period, hands down
Of course, it's what's inbetween those legs that draws us in. Parting those creamy thighs is part and parcel of findintg our reward now isn't it?
Yep, I'm a leg man for sure. Now, put some fish nets on and well..... Swhing!! (Black please) -tm
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Ode to all you MILFs
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Posted:Nov 23, 2014 5:30 am
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2014 4:26 am
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G-d I love you MILFs. (isn't that a bit of a redundant stantement?) Maybe it's the maturity level or maybe I have a Oedipus complex or something, I don't know but I just find MILFs so damn attractive!
A lot of my friends/gal-pals are in fact MILFs and I love em all. They're so open and loving, intelligent, kind and nice but yet when you get them in bed.....
wild-cats I tell tell ya, wild-cats
So if you're a MILF, can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch, have no problems taking on me and my friends (male and female) have pretty feet and a cute little pussy well, you're my type of gal. Extra credit: if you can lactate, love taking it up the butt and love bondage.... well you'll fit right in that's for sure
I LOVE fucking MILFs.. (I know, doubly reduntant statement. Damn, that MILF acronym SUCKS!)
How about you? Are you a MILF? Do you love MILFS like I do?
-tm
p.s. Even MORE extra credit: being a MILF who is also a Nurse! OMG shwing!!!
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Sexual objectification
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Posted:Nov 22, 2014 3:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2014 7:24 am
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Sexual objectification is the act of treating a person as an instrument of sexual pleasure, making them a "sex object." Now I've been accused of doing this a few times in my life, mainly by women, but aside from some noted exceptions, I really don't think I do. At least not in a 'bad way'.
First off, please tell me how you can possibly wath porn of any type and NOT see the people as sexual objects? You have no real connection with them and well, you are in face treating them as an instrument of sexual pleasure right?
Of course there's a line to be drawn and it's one thing to watch porn and a whole 'nother thing to treat REAL people you meet that way.
I know from my own experience that I very RARELY every treat people as purely sexual objects. Sure I LOVE the sight of a lovely, sexy woman but that doesn't mean I turn them into a sexual object. Why not? Well if you knew me you'd KNOW that I am much more interested in what goes on inbetween the ears than anything that might be happening between the legs. It's the truth.
As most of you know, I have a lot of friends, most of who are in fact sexual partners. Do you think for one second they would keep coming back if I treated them as purely sexual objects? It doesn't work that way and neither do I.
There are of course exceptions. My friend 'Aaron' is one. The man WANTS to be treated as nothing more than a sexual object. Shit, he treates himself that way! LOL
I do get highly offended when I'm accussed of this BTW, mainly because I do in fact treat people as people, I STRIVE to get to know my friends both online and in real life and I do in fact care about my peeps, very very very much, not just about their various sexy body parts.
Your thoughts?
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Boys will be girls
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Posted:Nov 22, 2014 3:19 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2014 4:16 am
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Boys will be girls and OMG do I love em so -tm
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Melancholty day
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Posted:Nov 16, 2014 5:08 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2014 4:41 am
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I hate November! It's my LEAST fave month of the year. The weather, at least in this part of the world totally sucks, the leaves are all gone and it's ... well melancholy to be sure. The ONLY redeaming feature is Thanksgiving. That's IT!
I'm looking out the window right now and it's gray. Not just gray, slate gray. A dull, lifeless, boring, bone-chilling, life sucking gray and it's like this almost the enitre month around here.
Cold too. DId I mention that? Even today when, relative to what we've experienced over the past few days it's not too bad, it's still COLD! I'd love to build a fire in the ol fire place but that would mean I'd have to go ouside, chip some wood from what is a no-doubt frozen pile of wood, haul it in, buld a fire... yadda yadda yadda. I SHOULD have installed that gas firelog last summer like I wanted to. Fuck me.
Anyway, November around here just sucks the soul out of ya, period. the Witch of November and all that.. I HATE it.
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Big girls.
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Posted:Nov 9, 2014 5:00 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2014 3:13 am
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OK, first off I'm not talking about BBW type girls in this post. Now don't get me wrong, I love BBW gals, shoot I love ALL you gals but today my thoughts are specifically about TALL girls. Six foot plus girls. You know Amazon Warrior type babes. LOL
Over the past 40+ years I've dated and yes had sex with all manner of females from teenie tiny to giant and quite literally everything in between. My old girlfriend down in FLA 'Cathy' was a 6'2" nordic blond and my current girlfriend is all of 5' MAYBE in the morning, if you get her when she JUST gets out of bed.
That's a pretty big spread folks so I think I MIGHT know what I'm talking about when it comes to 'size' eh? LOL
I really don't have a preference. Both tall and short woman have advantages and disadvantages each but in the end, they're women and THAT my friends is good enough for me! LOL
The only real problems I've ever encountered have almost all been mental. You know the old 'story': A super tall girl going out with a normal or short guy or a very short girl going out with a real tall guy. It just looks funny and feels awkward right?
I was lucky with the afore mentioned Cathy because quite frankly, she truly didn't give a shit. Not that I'm 'short' mind you but I'm not tall either. I'm 5'10" but next to her, especially when she was wearing heals......... well you get the idea but it really never effected our relationship because she didn't let it.
Now, would she have preferred being WITH a taller man? Good question and one we did talk about a few times. Her answer was a simple yes BUT she much preferred qualtity over quanity as she put it.... LOL Ya gotta love that girl eh?
The other aspect I love about big girls is simply theres' just so much MORE to explore! OMG legs for days, a back that goes on forever,, arms that can go all around me and around again etc etc etc.
Of course I love smaller girls too for the exact opposite reasons. Everything is in easy reach and I can 'engulf' a smaller woman totally! Mmmm I love that and of course I just LOVE a smaller girl who has big feet! Yep, they're out there!
BTW, height has very little to do with genital size in either men or women, most of the time that is. Now in Cathy's case it definitely did. The girl had a HUGE pussy and me fucking her was very similar to throwing a Snickers Bar down a hallway but we managed and well.... she was the first girl I ever fisted. She was also the first woman I ever made squirt and she was the first woman and still the only one, to blow a load of my cum out her nose while giving me a blow-job but that's a whole different story.
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Its a grower
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Posted:Nov 7, 2014 2:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2014 3:14 am
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A friend of mine from down under and I got into a discussion the other night about growers vs. showers and he sent me a couple of pics of himself which IMHO show him to be a totally classic grower.
What do you think?
I've rean into a number of growers in my time, hell I'm one myself, and I love em all. I find it just so erotic and fun to make such a little, flaccid thing grow into such a nice, manly appendage.
Now sure, showers are fun also and like the name implies, they're certainly great to look at but I do love that 'growing' aspect quite a bit
Your thoughts?
p.s. I've posted the pics here with his full permission.. Hell he's happy to share em
p.s.s. Just for comparison sake, here's someone I'd consider to be a shower.
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Climb on top baby!
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Posted:Nov 5, 2014 3:23 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2014 4:24 am
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Gwad I love it when you gals climb on top. Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl or any variation thereof... Mmmmm baby, fuck me!!
It sure do make things easy for this cowboy that's for sure. Well mostly. There is an added benefit, I can usually last a WHOLE lot longer fucking that way than when I'm the one doing the pushing and thrusting and stuff. I don't know why but it's a fact.
I love regular cowgirl 'cause I typiclly end up with your lovely breasts and hair in my face and I love reverse 'cause then I get to play with your butt and feet.
It's a WIN WIN situation IMHO!
Now if you're a guy and you're lucky enough to have two lovely ladies with ya well then, having one riding your dick while the other one is riding your face is.... well heaven that's for sure!
Now don't get me wrong, I love just about all positions. Shit, I'm just happy 'dipping my wick' whenever/however but I surely do love them cowgirls
How about you ladies? Do you like puttin on them spurs and riding your man like a bucking bronco? Come on now, fess up -tm
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Funny/Strange Sex Stories From the Tazzer-Archives......
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Posted:Nov 3, 2014 3:02 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2014 3:13 am
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I'm planning on this being a new series for me and lord knows, I have TONS of funny sex stories so this should last quite some time. We'll start this series off with a quick story about my old gal-pal 'Carrie'.
Carrie used to live with my very best friend 'Lori' and lord only KNOWS the stories I can tell about the three of us but this one concerns just Carrie and I.
I had been over to their place a few days earlier and I had left my cooler there. As I said, a few days later I was in the 'hood and I called and found Carrie at home and I asked if I could drop by to pick it up. She said sure, come on by.
I got there and found Carrie sitting on the couch talking to a friend on her phone. I found my cooler in the kitchen, came back out and sat down on the couch with her. She didn't miss a beat and just kept talking on her phone, barely acknowledging my presence.
I wasn't happy about the situtation since aside from picking up my cooler, I was hoping to get me a nice little slice-o-Carrie and her incredible pussy but alas it didn't look like it was going to happen.
Meanwhile, I was horny. (Surprised aren't ya?) ]
Finally, I just grabbed one of her luscious little feet, pulled it over to me and started rubbing it and sucking on her rather tasty little toes. Soon the other foot followed and there I was ravishing her feet all the while she's STILL talking on the phone!
I finally said fuck it, unzipped my pants, pulled my hard dick out, wrapped those oh so soft soles of hers around it and proceeded to whack myself off with her tootsies.
It really didn't take that long before I came and covered her feet and toes completely with Tazzer-goo, all the while she was STILL talking on the phone!
I finally got up, wiped myself off with some tissues that were on the table, slipped my dick back into my pants, grabbed the cooler and left leaving her to deal with a full load of my thick, gooey cum all over both of her feet and toes
She never missed a beat talking to whomever it was she was talking too AND I never heard a word about it afterward.
That my friends was definitely one of the stranges/funniest sexual encounters I've ever had -tm
p.s. Yep, the pic above IS in fact Carrie's lovely feet
Bonus Pic. Carrie doing what Carrie does SO freakin well
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Sometimes you feel like a nut....
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Posted:Oct 30, 2014 4:32 am
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2014 3:11 am
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sometimes you don't right? LOL
On any given day, my libido can be fired up by just about anything but the three main 'players' are Pussy, Cock and Feet.
Today it happens to be cocks. I am in SERIOUS need of a big ol hunk of hanging man-meat. Sure I have lots of very realistic dildos but they just do NOT quite suffice and/or scratch that 'itch' I have like the real thing.
Tomorrow? Who knows, it might be a nice, warm, wet and willing pussy for me to slurp on and fuck silly for hours on end. Again, there is no substitute.
Saturday it might very well be a lovely pair of feet with long toes to slurp on and soft soles to wrap around my cock and cover in Tazzer-goo.
I never know which it will be folks and of course, it's virtually impossible to find just ONE person who has all of the above mentioned parts rolled into one.
My gals have the pussies and feet but lack the long, thick hard cock and my boy-toys have the long, hard cocks but lack the pussy and feet AND my T-girlfriends have the dicks and a couple of them have the feet but again, they're missing the pussy even though their asses, especially 'Janie's come damn close.
What is a Tazzerman to DO??
Do YOU ever feel this way?
I need to find a gorgeous Hermaphodite with pretty feet. Yeah, that's the ticket!
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