The Block List
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Posted:Jun 22, 2015 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2015 10:19 pm
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I've been meaning to talk about this for awhile, but life has been kinda busy...
How many of you use the block button? I know many of the guys say they will block the gay men that approach them but do you really use it? I am a frequent blocker! Every time I block someone, I make sure that I go to my preferences and block them from EVERYTHING! There are truly some idiots on this site. Some days I feel like being petty and saying dumb stuff back to them and some days I just block them. I mean, my block list is currently 5 pages. I think I have blocked so many people, I am running out of people to actually chat with lol. I mean, I think it's pretty clear on my profile, even in a portion that standard members can see, who will get blocked. I can be nice and just chat with folks, but don't approach me crazy. I guess that goes back to older blogs (lack of social skills). I'm not a beauty queen but these lame ass dudes would never get a second look if we were out in public.
As I said, if you wouldn't have enough balls to say it to me in person, don't say it to me in a chat. And if you do come at me crazy... YOU'RE GETTING BLOCKED LOL!!! 
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Petty...
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Posted:Jun 12, 2015 3:29 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2015 10:48 pm
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So I admit it, I'm petty... I'm petty and sarcastic!
As I float through this FriendFinder-x world, I notice that I have gotten much more petty and sarcastic as the days go on.
Yes, I am a card carrying member of the grammar police. LOL, I HATE to see misspelled words on people's profiles. Especially if they claim to have post graduate degrees. I understand one or two mistakes... we all make them. But some folks are so ridiculous. To me, it's a huge turn off and I will keep on scrolling.
While we are discussing spelling, I hate when grown ass adults use text speak. I literally had some 50 year old trying to chat with me in text speak. I wanted to say, "Sir, if you don't get outta here with that bullshit that your grandchildren use" LOL! Hey, I told you I was sarcastic.
So I give a pass to some of the standard members that use the chat that can't see my profile, but you damn gold members... you make me wanna find you and leave flaming poo on your porch lol! The internet and social media has truly made people stupid. Can we go back to "Reading is Fundamental"? And what I love the most is when people actually tell me they read my profile but I know for a fact that they didn't. I have something specifically on my profile that lets me know if you read it or not (go ahead and check it out). It's just another reason for me to keep scrolling.
Lastly, I spoke about the chat a couple of days ago. It's amazing what people will say to you on the chat. The other day, I had a guy start the conversation with, "Come and get this cock"... (side note: I HATE HATE HATE the word cock! Inbox me and I'll tell you why, lol). So I say, because I'm a sarcastic ass, ok, send me your address. Do you know that he really sent me his address? You don't know me. You're a standard member... you can't even see my profile. I could have been saying that I wanna tie you up and fuck you in the ass, but you just gave me your address. Are you that hard up for some ass? So I sent a message saying I'll be there in an hour... yeahhhhh... of course I didn't go.
I swear, ya gotta love FriendFinder-x! It provides me entertainment daily... and a little bit of pleasure at times lol! At least I'm honest...
Sincerely,
Petty & Sarcastic
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FriendFinder-x Chat
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Posted:Jun 8, 2015 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Jun 9, 2015 4:05 am
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Sooooo... let's talk about the IM Chat on this wonderful site (HA)...
I do understand that everyone on here is not a paid member, so they utilize the chat to "meet" other members. Boy o boy... I have had some of the most interesting conversations via chat. Some great, some good, some bad. What I don't understand is, what happened to just saying, "Hi, how are you?" Yep, it's a sex site, but just because you have sex, does that take away your manners or people skills? I can even deal with "Hey sexy" or "Hey beautiful", even though I always find that amusing since I don't have a face pic up... I guess it's the ass LMAO. When I hear the ding, I go and check the profile. If they were nice with the approach, and they aren't married or over (or under) my age preference, I will generally say hello back.
But oh, the people that have no sense... they just make me sigh.... Let's list some of the openers...
"Do you eat ass?"
"Will you take my virginity?"
"Let me be honest. I am in the hospital with a broken back, but I just want you to come and I will lick you until you cum?" (I actually wanted to respond back and ask how that would be possible, but it was just a waste of breath.)
I don't remember the opener, but a guy sent me a message and I was nice and told him he was out of my age range. He then tells me I'm going to get old. And I respond, well yeah, that's a part of living. He then says I think I will get old and I may just die. Um, what the hell? Who says that to someone?
There are many, many more. Some days if I know the chat is not going to go anywhere, I will kindly say that and wish them luck. At that point, I get some that understand and are really nice. Then I get the ones that, I guess, feel rejected, and I get, "Fuck you fat bitch"... Really? First of all, you messaged me and was trying to get with me, so are you mad? Second, is my size ever a secret? Calling someone fat who is well aware of their size really doesn't hurt them, it makes them feel sorry for you because you're such an idiot. I can lose weight but you can't lose stupidity. But I digress...
People need to remember to have some social skills. I think I have mentioned this in a prior post. Just say hello; act like you are in public approaching someone. Believe me, it will get you much further than, "Wanna fuck?"
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Just some Sunday thoughts...
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Posted:Jun 7, 2015 1:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2015 12:55 pm
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So I was chatting with a friend about this site and there have been some interesting observations made by both her and I.
1. Size: I am a BBW; it's in my username, it's on my profile and I state it because I'm honest with myself and others. I love me and I'm confident with myself. If I were out there saying I am petite, guys would be pissed off about it and said that I was deceiving them. So why is it that guys aren't honest on here about their size? And I'm not talking waist. I see "Long" or "Very Long" often on these profiles and it's simply not true. We are being deceived by that and the angles of these pictures. God didn't bless everyone to be super hung, but that doesn't mean you don't know how to use what you were given. I learned that just because you may not be one person's flavor, it doesn't count you out for someone else. So men, please be honest with yourself. We have all seen porn and we know the definition of hung. If you, or the person in your video, uses two fingers to stroke, you're not long or very long. If you take a pic from a weird angle to make your dick look longer instead of just standing there erect, be honest, you're not hung. Be you! Be yourself! Believe me, we appreciate honesty so much more!
2. Orientation: It's 2015. There is so much more sexual freedom than there was 10 years ago. There are men on here that yell "I'M STRAIGHT" and threaten anyone who comes near their profile who say anything different, but have men that are in their friend's list and comment on other men's profiles and pictures. Again, just be honest. Be free! Me, I like the idea of threesomes. It's something sensual and fun about the situation. But, I'm not into females like that. I am upfront with couples when they ask. I can participate. We can both please the man, but I don't like eating pussy. It's just not appealing to me. I love a female's body. I can touch, I can play, I can sit back and be eaten by a female (lol, I know, I'm selfish), but I'm just not drawn to eat a female. If you are a male and you enjoy having fun... do you! Have fun! Be free! Just don't break your neck being an ass to someone else when you secretly like it. You don't necessarily have to put all your business out there but don't be such a hater.
3. Honesty: Whether you're here for quick hookups, friendships, or FWB, just be honest. I'd rather be able to make a choice of what I want than to find out the truth later on. If you're married or attached, say that. Although it's not my preference, someone out there is looking for the same thing you're looking for. This also ties into point 1 & 2. Just be honest. There is truly someone out there for everyone.
I think that's it for today... feel free to leave comments! I love to hear what others think on here!
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Observations
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Posted:Jun 4, 2015 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2015 5:13 pm
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So in the couple of months of being on this site (again), I have made an interesting observation... I think many of the reasons why some people don't make a connection is because they have no damn social skills! Yes, this is a sex site... but most of the people here live "real" lives daily. They have careers, , some have spouses. I get on the chat because it's interesting and I have some of THEE DUMBEST messages that I'm approached with. "Do you like BBC?" Well, ummmm, I'm Black, so uhhhh... Yes, I know there are some out there that are very restrictive in their fun, I am not. Again, yes, this is a sex site, but dammit, talk to me like I'm a regular person. And if you have a gold membership, READ THE DAMN PROFILE! Then you won't have to ask my dumb ass questions. FriendFinder-x is DEFINITELY an interesting place...
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