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decency
 
We have always beleived in treating others with common curtiousy and decency. We give others the benefit of the doubt till they prove they are no longer worthy of such a benefit.
With that in mind we have a few thoughts about some here since we joined.
1) We are really disappointed in those that wink and do not write or do not respond when we write. Kind of makes you feel like all they are on this site for is to gawk at the photos. That is one reason we have not posted any.
2)Guys, really..., please use the head that contains gray matter. One liners, one sentence intros and, photos of your cock are just going to be responded to with a "no thanks".
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Flirts and Hotlisting
Posted:Mar 24, 2011 6:50 am
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2014 1:53 pm
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We recently were asked by a profile here why we sent them a flirt and hotlisted them if we were not interested in driving over two hours to have sex with them.
We were interested in having sex with them because, they are hot. However, we just do not get into driving long distances for sex anymore. We use to when we first got into swinging but, we find it more of a pain than it is worth.
We sent them flirts to let them know we checked out there profile and liked it. Why wouldn't anyone here want to get that kind of feedback from someone who checked them out? Afterall, if you are getting viewed more than flirted with, there might be a problem with your profile or, your photos if you have any posted.
So, to all that read here, if we hotlist you it is because we think you are in fact hot. If we hotlist you we are more than likely to send a flirt so you know your profile sparked our interest because your profile was a good match for us, we liked your photos or, maybe you were close enough to hook up with.
This is suppose to be about having fun. Lets all have fun with this and stop being so hyper critical.
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Tired of "single" men who can not read!
Posted:Mar 16, 2011 11:32 am
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2011 6:13 am
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OMG! We can not beleive how many guys have written to us and can not accept "no" for an answer. This is one of the critical reason that real swingers drop out of the lifestyle or a particular site. This week alone, we have had four guys write to us expressing their interest in 8 words or less. Wow, that really makes us warm right up to you guys...lol! The real problem with these particular guys is that they have all written to us before and, been told "no thanks". Guess these guys can not only write in more than simple sentences but, also can not read. There is little more irrating than having to reply repeatedly to the same profile with the same "no" for an answer. Then, when these guys are told that they have written before and the answer has not changed, we are accused of being rude. Give us a break you creeps!
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