UPDATED 8 NOV 2023: We entered the lifestyle 20 over years ago to expand our pleasure and share some fantasies and hot sex with fun, open minded people. But some recent interactions have led to a shift in our focus. While we have enjoyed full swap in the past, and will very likely engage in it again when the situation seems right, we have decided to go into future meetings with no expectations or promises beyond watching and being watched or soft swap. We realize that our six pack abs are gone, and we have the scars, softer curves, greying hair and other changes that come with age. And now that we have hit our 60s, most profiles seem closer to our ages than to ours – or they all say “fit and athletic seeking fit and athletic” . . . . something we used to be, but not so much anymore. If we were song lyrics, we are more the Toby Keith song that says, “we may not be as good as we once were, but we are as good once as we ever were” than we are the AC/DC song that says “You shook me all night long.” Thankfully, with age came the wisdom that lifestyle fun is about the laughter, the chemistry and the seduction as much as the physical. Watching and being watched is erotic and sensual. Soft swap with kissing and touching and massaging can raise the sexual temperatures to sizzling heights. Arousal and pleasure are the goal, regardless of whether the ultimate climax comes from our own partners or a decision to share. Now that we are retired, we are less worried about distance than we used to be. We are not worried about meeting tomorrow . . . . most of our playing these days is happening during trips to adult destinations or on lifestyle cruises. If we click, we will figure out the logistics. So with that, if the words in our profile pique your interest, take a look at our pictures. Many are from within the last year to give you a good idea of what we look like. Others are just favorites that we keep in the profile because we like the way we look in them. We look forward to hearing from you, and if we all feel a connection, we can work on tempting you to joining us on a trip.

My Ideal Person Looking for couples where we have enough in common that all of us can enjoy adult fun together with or without clothes – truly “friends with benefits”. Looks do count, but faces and personality are more important than perfect bodies. We are looking for easy going people with a sense of humor, a sense of adventure and an open mind. We are most attracted to people that are good conversationalists . . . it is hard to click with somebody that gives one word answers and makes you feel like you are pulling teeth to get to know them. And while we don’t have too many deal breakers, we do have a few: no smokers (cigarettes or 420), no drugs, and the men must be circumcised. We prefer minimal body hair, and waxed /shaven or close trimmed down below. And since we have kids in their early 40s, you need to be over 50. Single men, if you are not long and thick, you are not in her fantasies so save your breath.

For General Information: We noticed that FriendFinder-x "AUTO- Generates" that people have viewed your profile or flirted when actually they haven't - probably trying to increase interest and interaction on the site. Unfortunately this has caused people to be offended that we don't communicate with them or to think we are stalking them when in reality we never even looked at their profile. That being said, if you legitimately "viewed" us, we hope you enjoyed what you saw and read . . . . who knows, we may be a great match.