Standard members can contact me. Is the glass half empty, half full, or does it even need to be a glass? I dislike seeing things in just black and white. My father told me most people go through life asleep. They just exit passing day by day in a haze. Then their are those who are awake and they live in a constant state of awe. Im interested in those who go through the world with eyes wide open. I am interested in virtually everything… travel, music, food, wine, etc. But hey, if it’s not fun, I’m not going to do it. Fortunately I am pretty easily entertained so there are a lot of things that qualify. Basically: You better love to have fun, or we won’t get along. I pride myself in my work, accomplishments, and continue to be success-driven. I work very hard but I'm a laid back and happy guy with a sarcastic sense of humor. I enjoy having fun (who doesn’t?) and I am outgoing. I am a loyal guy who is honest, knows how to communicate, and will treat a special woman right. I’m down to earth and like other people who are too. I have a great family and am often reminded that I should be lucky for how I was raised. My ideal woman is intelligent, happy (with herself and life), fun, and loves to laugh. I’m a big believer in personal growth and people striving/working towards doing what they want in life. About you: I will not make a list, because I do not fall in love with a list of attributes, but with a real person whose aura and character so resonates with me. What I’d really like to find is more than a pretty face that I can actually connect with on a deeper level. What matters most is how we make each other feel, the excitement, energy, passion, tension, and simply enjoying each others company. Rare, I know, but for my myriad of shortcomings, I am what some would call “delusionally optimistic.” I care little for writing clever profiles nor messages back and forth, I’d rather talk to a woman face-to-face. Interested? Email me and lets get together and share a few laughs and stories over coffee or drinks, no pressure, just something fun and relaxing… and see where this will go.