My name is Benjamin. I am a single dad of a two and a half years old . My wife passed away, due to complications from preeclampsia. Just in case you ask my deceased wife was not kinky or a swinger. The fact is I have been kinky and adventurous my entire adult life. However, I was not in a kinky relationship when married. I consider my self more Dominant than submissive but overall I consider myself very kinky. (However, it is not a prerequisite that YOU be kinky or into BDSM for US to form a "love connection".) Yes, I graduated university from Montclair State University with a degree in psychology. Post graduation I got into law school and attended for one year, did not graduate. I am a musician by trade. I play guitar, bass, drums, keyboards and sing. I have multiple albums out. I own my home in full and am secure and confident in my sexuality and in my life. Additionally, even though I am single I have a friend who is looking to be used and in a Gangbang. Unfortunately, she does not have a Gold Membership. My friend lives in Minnesota and is looking to find men to use her. She desperately wants to do a Gangbang and absolutely loves cock. She also loves pussy too. If there are any "takers" please get in touch with me? I am more than happy to be her laisson for her getting lots of cock... Check out her pics on my profile. For you couples... We are also willing to meet both of y'all too. Enough about me. Please tell me about you...

My Ideal Person Honestly, I am looking for either a single or married woman or however you define your relationship status. I am also open to meeting couples. You can be new to the kinky lifestyle or be a complete slut... I love women who love kinky sex. If you are into one on one sex, group sex, or what not... I am down for all types of play... I also am open to a Long Term Relationship, Casual Hookup, Friends With Benefits, ECT... Situation. I also am open to just meeting people.