Set up this profile years ago, but have only just started playing with it seriously. Haven't paid any membership yet, and not sure if I can do much as a basic member. "Working it out," as they say. Straight up – married to another guy who keeps me on a short leash and does my head in. But I’m a gay man that really likes cock (and also enjoys pussy when it's presented). And dirty stuff. So, when I can, I get myself out and work out my frustration with other, like-minded people, gay and straight. If this offends you, sorry, but just swipe left. Biggest turn on is helping others work out their fantasies, whatever that may be. You can’t shock me. Limits would be blood, excessive pain, confinement, animals, the k-word, snuff movies – usual common-sense stuff. Don't mind if you smoke, and cigars are hot, but don't really like the taste of a two-pack-a-day guy, and hate leaving anywhere with my clothes stinking. Vanilla for me runs through kissing, body contact, sucking, rimming, fucking, cum-eating/swapping/facials, piss play. Lots of sweat, lots of wet. Top and bottom for all the above. Mind you when I'm out, I like to get my cock into a warm, wet hole. Like my guys to be guys. Probably of a certain age. Probably with a bit of body hair. A few muscles are great, even if you haven’t worked them for a decade. Don’t mind if your pits stink, but have brushed your teeth and have a clean hole if I’m going down there. Gear is good. You name it, although I lean towards leather myself. Being bare-ass naked is also good. Sitting on the couch with a mate, drinking beer, watching porn, and wanking. Talking of porn… love porn. Maybe a little addicted. Preferences reflect everything I’ve said above. Watch as much straight porn as I do gay porn as I love cock and just get off on the sight of men fucking – hard cocks sliding in and out, yeah!! Who came up with the idea of DP? Two straight blokes with their balls slapping together? That's a turn on. And as for two cocks in the same hole -- got to be the gayest thing ever! All the above is on a “perm any two from three” basis. If you’re a hairy builder who wears his wife’s panties on the weekend, fine – I can go there. Likewise if you’re a 20-yo twink with a bladder the size of a bucket, yeah – fun can be had!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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