Hi there - I hadn't really worked on this profile since "the beforetime" so I figured it was about time to refresh! So I figure I'd ought to start with the things that might disqualify me for you: -I'm attached, but she's way kinkier than I am and very into my being on here to find some new people to enjoy some time with (or should I say "with whom to enjoy some time" since she's an English teacher). I get that you're skeptical; I can put her in touch with you to prove it if you'd like! :) -I'm not from around here. I grew up in the Philadelphia suburbs, and I'm probably guilty of most of the associated stereotypes (although I don't use the term "jawn" nor do I pronounce "water" as "wooder"). That means I don't like the Cowboys, I don't say "y'all", I don't wear boots/cowboy hats/big belt buckles/bolo ties, and I don't listen to country music. I have no Southern heritage whatsoever, and I'm not one of those "I wasn't born here, but I got here as fast as I could" types. I've spent like a third of my life in Texas, but I'm not a Texan, I just live here. On the plus side all that also means I'm not a MAGA hat wearing, Q-loving, neo-fascist, hick. -I'm kind of a geek. Well, probably more than kind of. I like board games, video games, role-playing (the not-kinky kind; my stock response wen someone asks if I like role-playing in bed is that I tried it, but I kept losing dice and my character sheet got all wrinkly), and other things the "cool " look at with derision. Of course, I've got some "typical guy" things going as well - I watch like a ton of sports, for example - but by and large, I'm pretty much a nerd. So either you're actually not repelled by the above, or you're a real glutton for punishment. Either way, it would be fun to hear from you - send me a message, and we'll figure out what happens next!

My Ideal Person Oh my, an "ideal person".... well, the simple answer would be a woman who's not terribly shy and is looking for a little kinkiness (if we progress to the naughtiness, my girlfriend will want to watch). Since we're talking ideal, you should be a sapiosexual (I think I'm OK looking, but I'm not going to "seal the deal" on my looks alone) and be able to and interested in holding a conversation (I mean, we've gotta do *something* when we're not having a wild time, right?).

On a different note, if you're a couple who's looking to swap, and the stuff above still applies, that'll work too!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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