"Happiness - is not a state of life but pleasure itself" - Epicurus. I'm a sexaholic with a serious sleep fetish and have come to accept it. Looking for someone that understands it. I prefer bbw/ssbbw. Very attractive light skinned man of color. 54 years of age but look 44. Open and honest to a fault. Very athletic and have a weak spot for uninhibited, feminine, short, attractive, thick women. I'm goal oriented, spiritual, easy to talk to, slow to anger, non-judgemental, and very patient. I must add that I am extremely busy but am looking for a casual FWB that I can get close to as time permits. My hobbies include: meditating, reading, exercising, vegetable gardening, cooking (yes, I do cook lol), swimming, meeting with friends, movies (in theater and at home), tantra, conversating, health & fitness, and auto maintenance. O'yes, I almost forgot, stock market and real estate investing. I am running my private investment company. I can say that I am a very busy man. However, I only spend real time with friends that are serious about spending real time with me. So, if you are serious then let me know but I won't do the endless email thing. “The hardest battle you're ever going to fight is the battle to be just you.” by: Leo F. Buscaglia (An American guru, tireless advocate of the power of love, 1924-1998.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet women who like to have good conversation and love to be free in their sexual expression. No drama just freedom, communication, and expression. Love nudity. Must be genuine, honest, and free.

My partner should be open to new experiences, bisexual (prefered but not required), and independent. She is not jealous and will not act like she's my mom. She should know that playing has nothing to do with who you are going home with. It is about great friends with benefits. I am a big butt admirrer so that is a ++. Please be very curvy in all the right places. She's o.k. with me having friends with benefits. She wants a deep, mutually satisfying LTR. She will not lie because she expect me not to. Race and age is unimportant. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for just sex. I want an open relationship based on honesty, open communication, and best friends as well as lovers. When I love someone I tend to love deep and for life. If you've read this far, Congraduations. I only have one WARNING: I'm spiritually deep, not religious and would never push my beliefs onto others. I just see the world differently than most. Every thought and action I have is based on spiritual true's and philosophy. I AM NOT YOUR COMMON 'MAN'.

I am only allowing a select few, genuine, loving, intimate friends in my life.

“A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself -- to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” by: Leo F. Buscaglia (An American guru, tireless advocate of the power of love, 1924-1998.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bonny Jams, Shai, George Howard, Jesse Powell, Smokey
Robinson, Soul for Real, The S.O.S. Band, Sad

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am continously realizing this area of my life.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Tantra is extremely important to me., I give it my all and expect the same in return.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The "celebrity" isn't a real person but
the person behind the "celebrity" is. THAT
is the person I want to experience.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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