I can not see messages as I am not a paying member. Mostly on IM. I am 38, single, adventurous, open minded and looking to meet a man who is in the lifestyle and is interested in developing something serious with a primary partner. Until I find him, looking for men, women and/or couples for mutual pleasure.I am open-minded, and submissive but can be dominant for the right person. I am an educated professional, not into meeting for sex immediately, prefer to get to know someone, having a friendship (with benefits) would be ideal. Looking for a partner to go to clubs and lifestyle events as well. Discretion a must. Boring messages like “hi” or sex-related questions as the first message, people with zero photos not likely to receive a response, I have 20 others that are the same, I am definitely a sapiosexual, stimulate my mind!

My Ideal Person Good hygeine, tested and clean, friendly and intelligent. Having an interesting conversation with laughter and flirting is part of the build up, not interested in jumping into bed.
Bonus if you are:
well endowed (thick)
Dominant
Submissive and want to be a houseboy
Seeking an arrangement
Into taboo role playing
Into light bondage (ropes included)

No married men! (Unless she’s part of it of course)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of Mtlunicorn34's responses