We all want love, passion, honesty, companionship and sex that drives us crazy and conversations that drive us back to sanity. The complete and whole experience of love-making,comes from more and more awareness to the other's per's responses and feelings, then there radiates this balance of energies, with effort and then followed by relaxation, allowing the other for reactions and input, and then working hard at it, reacting in the moment, and letting go. A rush of both to a final climatic bliss!