[SIZE 5]Country boy (well educated, easy talker, urbane) looking for primal M/M sex. Physical intimacy, in addition, interests me a lot. I am best as a bottom but can top, love oral, like lots of foreplay and body contact. I like to be "useful" to straight guys who are trapped in sexless marriages. [SIZE 2][/SIZE] [COLOR orangered][/COLOR][B][SIZE 5]"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you did not do than by the ones that you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." Mark Twain[/B] [SIZE ]CUMMING: As wonderful as it is to cum (an ejaculatory orgasm), it is important, as I see it, to focus on that feeling/that physical sensation as a component of a larger picture. One can, of course, choose to have an orgasm and not to cum, which is an important and mandatory step on the path to full-body and/or multiple orgasms (which are ten times more wonderful than the conventional ejaculatory orgasm). [SIZE 3][/SIZE] If you spend your entire life saying "no" every time that opportunity knocks, eventually you will arrive at a point in your life when opportunity will no longer knock. Try saying "yes" the next time that opportunity knocks. Chances are good that you will be glad you did. FOOD FOR THOUGHT: 1. Slow sex increases intimacy and creates a mind/body connection that leads to powerful orgasms. Take your time, and do not focus on having an orgasm; rather focus on the process and make foreplay as enjoyable as possible. 2. Initiate sex. Own your sexiness. Let your partner know that he/she is sexy. Ask yourself: What is it about me that makes me sexy? 3. In ecstasy, the soul is loosened from its material prison, separated from individual consciousness, and absorbed in the infinite intelligence from which it emanated. [B][COLOR orangered][/COLOR][SIZE 5]Showing Compassion: We’re all in this sexual game together, and it is important to consider the feelings of others as we all seek to fulfill our desires. Those of us who are no longer in our 20s, 30s or 40s frequently get emotionally wounded/crucified by folks who say things in their profiles like: “. . . and, PLEASE, no old guys.” There are a lot of ways that you can express your age preferences for sexual partners without overtly condemning someone because of his age. Say something more compassionate like, for example: “Prefer guys around my age or younger.” For what it is worth (and as someone who is “no longer in his 20s, 30s or 40s), I can tell you that my interactions in recent years with guys who are 40 or older have been, without doubt, the most wonderful sexual experiences of my entire life. To each his own, or, as the French say: "Chacun a s o n gout, et les vaches seront toujours bien gardees." [COLOR][I][/I][SIZE 3][/SIZE]