No beating around the bush: I am a married man (though separated). My wife and I are exploring a a separated marital lifestyle. Basically, looking for two extremes: either friends (playful, perhaps with benefits but no sex), or strictly carnal, casual and discreet sex. The long term relationship--the partnership, the deep commitment--is not off the table but definitely on vacation right now I am seasoned, but still very spry. Well educated and professional, I am also an unapologetic nerd. I am a Halloween fanatic, and have a passion for most things connected to the sci fi, fantasy and horror genres. And that nerdiness has meshed with my sexual lifestyle somewhat. I have explored many areas in the kinky and BDSM world, but often (not always) they have been within the context of a horror, sci fi or fantasy scenario. Bondage, domination, lite to heavy rough stuff, but with costumes and roleplay involved.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for friends and casual partners interested in what I call nerd fetishes. Cosplay. Elaborate roleplaying. Abduction and bondage-like scenarios. For instance, I'm all about tying you up, but you'll likely be in a Wonder Woman costume while it's happening.

I will post a blog containing stories and scenarios I have scripted. This is give you a definitive feel for my style and turn-ons. Basically, I am always the bad guy, and you would be any number of heroines that I overcome and capture, knocked out with sleeping gas (PRETEND of course), or shot with a stun beam, carried off (I also have a particular thing for carrying women (cradle and over the shoulder), and then onto bondage, and/or (sometimes not) sex.

If you like performance, if you like donning costumes and playing out sexual scenarios, if you like the idea of chased by a psycho killer while you're in a cheerleader outfit, and are turned on by the idea that when I catch you, I am going to throw you over my shoulder and carry you back to my place and fuck you hard, then, you know, feel free to reach out.

For those at more extreme distances, I'm not opposed to video and remote play.

Let me know if you're game. A great way would be to send me a pic of your legs in boots (love legs, love boots), or better yet a costume to let me know your interested.

These of course are preferences... not absolutes