I'm 45, well educated and spoken bisexual professional. Getting "more gay" the older I get but still love women; by that, I mean I find I am now sexually attracted to some men, rather than just enjoying sex with them. I do wonder if, now that I know of the term "hetero-flexible" (great word ) whether I would have stayed that way, instead of drifting into whatever it is that I am now. Mainly bottom with men and looking for fun, discrete times. Have own place in bayside Melbourne. Like sport (AFL, soccer and NFL), history, politics, intelligent discussion but also just being silly and chilling. I suppose it is fair to say that I have relaxed somewhat over the last few years; a near death experience does that to you! But, in all honesty, having been a career-centred workaholic for most of my life (except for my nephew and some intense friendships), it is fair to say I am becoming more well-balanced and, essentially, querying whether "that is all there is to life"...Yes, it sounds like a mid-life crisis to me too but I have been consciously expandng my experiences over recent times. By way of example, I recently had a rather notable tattoo applied to my per (arm to bicep, shoulder and top of the back). Found myself bonding rather closely with James, the heavily tattooed and pierced young artist who performed it and simply craved respect (especially from those people who he has chosen not to look like), to the extent we have become firm friends. So, in a sentence, I suspect that is me: I am open minded, accepting (of others' foibles, not my own; I am still a perfectionist), non-judgemental, easy going, challenging and polarising in so many ways. But, I am also intelligent, funny, loyal, respectful, generous and - above all - honourable. I dislike a lack of peral responsibility

My Ideal Person Men: Range of types interest me but basically masculine guys with a sense of decency about them. Not really interested in a relationship as such with a man; I am more emotionaly heterosexual than anythingb else.
Although I did recently finish a 'friendship' with a 19 yo and, to be honest, I actualy could have seen myself getting involved with him had he wanted more than friendship and a physical relationship. (Sadly, though, he has now moved back to SA for work and family commitments; still admire his pride in refusing to accept help from his friends though!)

In a woman, mature (in attitude not necessarily years)and open minded, challenging, self assured and self aware.

I am very independent and value my own time but do form very intense bonds with my friends, male and female; and young and old. Initially, I am seeking friendship and physical relationship, with possibility of something developing further down the track.

I am an introvert but am still very poor at filling out these descriptions so, if any other questions occur, feel free to shoot me a line and just ask.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Springsteen; Jason Mraz; U2; Jason Castro

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage, try anything once!

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Independance

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Lately porn stars..And I have concluded that I would do
anything (including accept a porn video would be all over
the internet). If I could get fucked by Brandon from Sean
Cody, or Duncan from Corbin Fisher, or Kurt Wilde (as a top).
Bareback - fucking me wildly...and like they wanted to
do it... Ben Cousins always did it for me. Although my sporting preferences
are AFL and soccer, rugby players drive me wild, ranging
from O'Connor to the Melb Storm hairy captain. Once
had an encounter with an well known rugby league who just
wanted me to touch his enormous cock...still wonder about
the one which got away!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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