To start, I'm only looking for ladies in the San Diego area, or at most Southern CA. Anyone outside that area, I wish you the best of luck, but I'm not interested in pursuing anything long distance. Me: I'm a single middle-aged guy, a little thick in the middle as we tend to be, but in pretty good shape and blessed otherwise. ;-) As of late 2018, working to reduce that "thick in the middle" bit at a local MMA gym. It's working! My best friend would describe me as a fellow Gemini (he takes the horoscope stuff more seriously than I do), possessing a twisted, quick sense of humor, reliable, unpretentious, a tech geek, an old soul, someone with diverse tastes in music, cuisine, arts, and as a "brother from another mother". Let's chat a bit, meet and see if we hit it off, then see if we might enjoy spending more time with each other.[B][/B][B][/B][B][/B][B][/B]

My Ideal Person To restate from above, I'm only looking for ladies in the San Diego area, or at most Southern CA. Anyone outside that area, I wish you the best of luck, but I'm not interested in pursuing anything long distance.

Who I hope to find: Ok, I'm a guy - we're visual. Apart from looking for someone who pushes my 'oh my, check her out!' buttons, I'm looking for someone with balance. What does that include? I tend to prioritize the following: kindness to all, and a mix of social grace but warped sense of humor. I prefer someone who can roll with life's occasional chaos and bounce back into a state of sexy geniality with minimal impact to yourself or those in your circle. Let's meet and enjoy life and each other. What do you think?
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